Minnesota
Alright.....so, it's 6a my time here in Sunny South Florida and my phone starts ringing (Me thinks that this chick hasn't slept all night).
I get an angry message from a wife telling me to check my email. I go downstairs to check and YEP sure enough there it is. A copy of an email a gent sent me OVER A YEAR AGO !!!! Not a regular friend of mine but I instantly remembered him since he forwarded a copy of his WORK ID in his INITIAL email that was still attached to the thank you !
He went on and on thanking me for a fabulous session, blah, blah, blah. She of course had reforwarded it to me and mentioned that it was nice to have him as a husband, if I want his sorry ass, I can have him. She also had CC it to his place of employment and like 4 other people (yikes).
Of course she stated the usual, stay away blah, blah, blah.
People....use an ANONYMOUS email that has NOTHING to do with your family. If you don't know how to clean your cache..or don't feel comfortable doing it..... Use an ANONYMIZER. It's cheap (under $30.00 a year ). DON'T use a DAMN AOL account where the main account holder can get a new password for your email addy (as was the case here).
For the love of GOD....he just ruined his life pretty well. What's the point in going out of your way not to give your first born when you get screened if you pull the switch and nuke yourself 
Unfortunately, there is NOTHING that I can say or do to save him since she has too much evidence for a cover story. All I can do is ignore her.
Please take a few moments to safeguard yourself against what WILL BE WW3 at your place....DAMN!
This has been a public service announcement from a provider that hasn't had any coffee yet 
xoxo
Missy
You would think people would learn??? Was going to say have a cup of coffee.. but you might just go a little bug eye drinking to much this morning!!....
Good morning Fletch
Well the problem is that there are CONSTANT posts about this very situation Unfortunately, there are some gents that think it will never happen to them.
Never underestimate the determination of a suspicious wife !!! EVEN if YOU think the is not computer literate.
I am all better now that I have had some coffee.
While the nasty message wasn't the best thing to wake up too, I can just imagine the hell he is going through
xoxo
Missy
the mistakes are made while a novice. I still have some shit out there that could hang me if it surfaces and I think about it daily...