I've had much the same experence out there, and reaped alot of "special treat" from ladies just because of how I first treated them, but often not until at least the second time seeing them.
This is why I have always limited the girls I discuss on the board or review (back when I could) to the extremely good or extremely bad. I've had many experences that were "6/6" and I've found it's better to keep it to myself, because everyones tastes are different and also some people "click" and others don't, that's just life.... We do need to keep enough of an "edge" to the board to keep it honest, and there's nothing wrong with disagrement, or calling things for what they are, we just need some "balance".
Maybe we could aproach these situations from more of a questioning stand point rather than expressing anger towards a lady that let us down?
Example: "I recently saw Angel and had a terrible time, blah, blah, blah, Was it just me or have some of you guys had a favorable experence with her?" A little work on "phrasing" could go a long way on this board to change the hostle image we have developed. But some care must be used so we don't end up so soft and accepting that we aren't any good to each other anymore..... this hobby has some Yin and Yang to it, without balancing the positive with some negative we can't have truth, and then we might as well just be an ad site.
I was talking to a lady who has gotten some bad reviews. My experience has been good. She said her bad reviews have come from guys who treated her rudely and without respect.
I once saw a provider who was notoriuos for having rules on rules. I took her flowers and kept telling her how beautiful she is. I had her stand in front of me naked so I could tell her exactly what I liked about her. I told her nothing would happen she wasn't comfortable with. About mid way through the session she started kissing me like she was looking for my tonsils. I said, "hey isn't that against the rules?" She said "management reserves the right to change the rules for special people, and you mister, are very special." Every session since has gotten hotter.
I've learned you get far more in life using honey than by yelling. Some ladies are going to be bad no matter what (see Angel). Even then treat them with respect and don't go back. Most ladies are going to respond to good treatment with good treatment.
I totally agree, the term I think you were looking for is 'common sense'. We are all at a certain amount of risk in this hobby and it seems only appropriate to respect each other. "Do unto others as you would have done to you", or DO others as you want to be DONE.
You are so right about what you say. Practice good hygiene and good manners and your chances of having a better than average session go up. It's a business to be sure but in any business where a service is being provided, the better you treat the person providing the service, the higher the quality of service you will get. Never forget that's a real person you are dealing with.
P.S. Would you mind PMing me with the name of the lady to whom you refer in your post?
I've had much the same experence out there, and reaped alot of "special treat" from ladies just because of how I first treated them, but often not until at least the second time seeing them.
This is why I have always limited the girls I discuss on the board or review (back when I could) to the extremely good or extremely bad. I've had many experences that were "6/6" and I've found it's better to keep it to myself, because everyones tastes are different and also some people "click" and others don't, that's just life.... We do need to keep enough of an "edge" to the board to keep it honest, and there's nothing wrong with disagrement, or calling things for what they are, we just need some "balance".
Maybe we could aproach these situations from more of a questioning stand point rather than expressing anger towards a lady that let us down?
Example: "I recently saw Angel and had a terrible time, blah, blah, blah, Was it just me or have some of you guys had a favorable experence with her?" A little work on "phrasing" could go a long way on this board to change the hostle image we have developed. But some care must be used so we don't end up so soft and accepting that we aren't any good to each other anymore..... this hobby has some Yin and Yang to it, without balancing the positive with some negative we can't have truth, and then we might as well just be an ad site.
I just wanted to point out that the Angel you had a bad time with was not me or any of my girls! Also, WELL SAID! We need more gentlemen like you and all those replying that agree with you! THANK YOU to all the GENTEL MEN! We girls appreciate it and from a females point, yes you get more with honey than vinegar! I feel it allows the lady to feel safe, and comfortable to open up and want to pamper and "reward" you for your kindness! As natural nurtures, we want to please and take care of your needs! It is nice when you give us a inviting reason to do so by being treated with respect and making us feel special! So we then want to make you feel special! It is things like this that really separates the MEN from the boys!
I'm not sure why, but it seem that when a guy wants to report a really GOOD experence, he usually includes a link, a picture, details, ect. But when guys (me too) report s bad experence, or something nastymabout a lady, they post a first name only! WTF??? if this system is going top work, we need to be specific as to who we mean by adding a link, a picture, a contact number, or something other than a name.
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