In our busy--sometimes crazy busy--lives, we might forget to give thanks for everything we have, for people who are special to us.  I know that's true for me.  Sometimes I take these things and people for granted.  I suffered a loss recently that reminded me that I should never take anything, or anyone, for granted.  
   
 Tomorrow is a great opportunity to say "thank you"... and an extra big "THANK YOU" to this community, and especially to the providers who have given me so much joy and many wonderful memories over the past few years.  
   
 These days the news is full of stories of intolerance, hatred, and violence.  Not just in the Middle East and Paris, but in the United States and yes, even right here in Minnesota.  Thinking about our community here, there are many people outside of our community who look down on us, even despise us--providers and their clients--because what we choose to do together as consenting adults is distasteful to them.  All the more reason for all of us to be supportive of each other, to not tear each other down.  Each and every person matters... regardless of race, color, creed, gender, sexual preference, or who we choose to share intimate times with as consenting adults.  
   
 We're coming up on a wonderful time of year.  It has special meaning for Jews and Christians, as they look forward to celebrating the Festival of Lights and the birth of Jesus Christ, respectively. But in general, it tends to be a time when we gather together with friends and family and show our appreciation and affection to one another with gifts, big and small.  
   
 What if this year we counteract the negativity that too often surrounds us and give each other the gift of kindness... starting today.  As someone (the source is unclear) said a long time ago:  
   
 "I shall pass this way but once;  
 any good that I can do or any kindness I can show to any human being; let me do it now.  
 Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again."  
   
 Happy Thanksgiving!