Hi,

So I signed up on this board a few months ago to begin researching this hobby.  Coincidentally, around the same time, I asked a stripper if she'd meet me outside the club and she said yes.  That has since evolved into something I enjoy very much and has made my desire to find someone through reviews, etc. moot for now.

The reason I think I am spoiled by my current arrangement with this woman is that she's let me into her life and we've become friends.  Yes, there is still the business side of things too, but it never comes up and after a nice evening or weekend I'll simply deposit money into her bank account without it ever being discussed.  Beyond the hanky-panky we find a lot of fun things to do...  so this is never a 1-hour engagement, it's an evening or weekend thing.  Hell, she's even insisted on having me over to her house so she could make dinner (she's an incredible cook by the way).

She really wants to get out of dancing as she thoroughly hates it.  I also know she'll want to stop the pay-for-play thing with me when she can afford to (even though she says she doesn't).  My guess is this arrangement won't last a whole lot longer as she is working really hard on a business she wants to start and that will probably entail moving away.

So is this whole thing an incredible first-timer stroke of luck for me?  Has anyone else been able to develop something like this with someone?  Once this ends with her, I'm going to want to find something similar going forward.

Thanks.