I really enjoyed being a mistress to a married man for almost 10 years. That's coming to a end so now considering being a companion. I'm a bit nervous

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I can tell you are nervous. Let me guess, you were a kept woman for just one guy. Now, you want to increase the number of suitors to cobble together an income? If you need a new married man, then perhaps you need to go where they are and start shopping.  

If you are wanting to be an escort, then ask. I know there are a few here that can guide you. Natalie Chambers seems very helpful.

And it leaves me in the same mindframe. How can we help you?

Your at least in the right place to start trolling

In your last relationship did you get everything you wanted and are you looking to do the exact same thing?

If so the readers here do not really have enough information to go on to help you.  Things that may matter...

Money - were you provided a weekly or monthly income - place to live- clothes- jewelery or were gifts all you received with the relationship and you maintained your own lifestyle monetarily.   If so it may be a bit different here than you are used to and you have additional personal choices to make.  Sugar babies and escorting are different than FWB - mistress.

You want long term or to explore?  Commitment is a difficult choice for everyone so your amount of commitment you are willing to endure will matter a lot.

My only real advice to this point is NEVER accept help for money/trade be independent, earn what you can and do not share your earnings with anyone!  Possibly a scheduler could help you without taking advantage of you - talk to some of the ladies to help if that is something you are not good at.

Good Luck I hope you find what you are looking for!

Lol! I'm confused because when I think about becoming a escort I get really nervous. So I don't know if I should do it or not.

Great advice! Thank you !

Thank you!

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Being a companion, provider or escort is not for everyone. You need to really think about what you are looking for. Going from seeing the same guy for ten years to multiple guys, many of them only once, can be very lucrative but it takes a certain mind set to do it. It might help if you can find a local lady willing to take you under her wing to help you get started safely.

I had never heard of TER and didn't find this site until 3 months into it.  and then it was a few more months to get on some good screening sites.   I had no clue this site existed...until guys were asking me if I had reviews.   reviews?   what was that I asked.   and now I have over 260.  lol.   not bragging.  jus' sayin'.    

BUT you are in the right place right off the bat.  Great!   This site is SO helpful.   Go on the Newbie Board and read as much as you can.  

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ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS:
1)   Do I have a kind heart, open mind, extra patience and an even temperament?
2)   Do I have the ability to make other people feel welcome and comfortable upon meeting me?
3)   Am I self-confident?
4)   Do I have good communication skills and do I enjoy writing a lot of emails etc. for appointments and screening and if  
      not am I willing to hire a scheduler or assistant to do that part for me?    
5)   Can I get naked with ANY man that I do not know that walks through the door within 5 minutes?  
       
and really think about that last one too.  It's a literal question posed to be "food-for-thought"

If you answered YES to all five questions, then you probably have the right "frame-of-mind" to consider going into this business and will probably do very well.  
 

I'm super busy right now, but I'm available in a few weeks to answer a few private questions you may have.  While every lady has their own POV I'm pretty sure that the one thing in common we all have is to be in safe situations with the men we choose to spend time with.

Send me a note to my email, [email protected]    Use the same email that you log in to here with as I will check it to be sure it's really you that's writing.    oh, and if you go over an hour of my time, I'll have to charge you.   hahaha.    
of course I'm being "funny" , I would not charge you.   The initial consult is free.  

 

   
Good Luck to you!

Portia Eden

 
 
 

 

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However, if you would prefer something closer to your being a mistress then you might want to take a close look at being a sugarbaby.

Portia
What a great  thing  for you to do

Thank you so much!

Go up a few lines and she found one of the best with one of the best and
most  efficient schedulers. Portia you are a dream
This happened after your post/

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who would rather get the OP to say more than "yes" and "Lol" and "thank you" and "that's great advice"?  Sound like the OP is a cop or one of the numerous BS profiles or aliases.  Just my opinion.  Crucify me as you will.  I wouldn't tell "her" shit personally but build your LE case as you may ladies and gentlemen.

where a cop became an escort or john.  My suggestion stands, think about what you want and don't share your hard earned money with anyone.  Pretty much a good rule of thumb for life don't you think?

No, you're not.   I had those same thoughts....even as I was writing what I posted above.   There is No Way to know who the OP really is.  a guy, a girl, someone just trolling, who knows.    but on the chance the OP is "true"....  some generic advice on a discussion board from few people does no harm.  

I'm sending you a PM with some additional comments.  Do you have VIP to be able to read it?  if not, I'll gift you a few days.  

 

Portia

Can you "gift" me a few hours Portia? That's probably all I'm good for lol.

Can't thank Portia enough for her bits of wisdom over during my first months in the fs world. Level-headed advice.

that right there is Funny.....!!   good one

I would not give specific private thoughts on hobby subjects to an "anonymous" person over email.   ever.  

only a legit provider

if the OP becomes a legit lady with reviews, etc, then yes.  otherwise, no  
(That's pretty much sums up the pm I sent to Wongbater. )

Thank you Sonja for the nice post.  and You are most welcome.

stay thirsty my friends,
Porti

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Portia,
If you can't squeeze me in before your sabbatical, I can wait until the fall. That's probably better anyway as I'll sweat less then

But a lot of advice is pretty generic and hardly incriminating and/or personally risky to give out.