it happens a bit more often than folks expect. I think if anyone truly values their clientele, you do things that will continue to keep them visiting and spending time with you. It could be little actions of affection or huge shows of appreciation.  

A few examples are that I do my best to remember a suitor's birthday so I can bring a treat, like a birthday cake. If it's a cake, I only ever bring the number candles. Why? Because I felt like my birthday cake this past year looked like the "Burning of Atlanta" with only 26 candles on it. I can't imagine how someone would feel seeing 35+ candles *laughs*. Also, I tend to remember a person's favourite drink and am happy to bring a bottle to subsequent dates after the first. I recently celebrated an "anniversary" with a client and gifted them a cufflinks & a watch (something they can genuinely use) and a shirt that said, "I Love Bougie Black Girls" (they are single so they'll wear it & it's a joke of ours since I was their first non-white partner). For some, it's as simple as recalling they said, "I have this major project I'm working on for work.", during a date, and checking in a week or two later.  

If I don't want to be treated or made to feel like I'm just a *insert provider synonyms here*, and a client doesn't want to be treated or made to feel like an ATM, then I'm going to treat my clients how I would want to be treated. As a person that is respected, valued, and appreciated.  

LJ, xx

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For my very first ever escort session, the provider, Pretty Penny, had some St Patrick's day cookies for me.   She also introduced me to p411.  Sweet lady.

And then a snowball fight broke out ......

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Was in a 2 year relationship with a provider who felt everything was suppose to go one way - her way. Words like friendship and love were used both ways. And it was interesting that she said she always appreciated when I went out of my way to get her a card or a present or flowers. But she never went out of her way for me.

She did have an interesting look on her face when she asked what I was getting her for an occasion. I said I was getting her the same thing she got me for my birthday.  

She didn't get what I meant.  

Oh well. Some people are just too self centered and selfish.

... but one provider shared some delicious home-made brownies with me once.  I think they might have contained a special ingredient.  

Another provider set out a beautiful "welcome" service with tea and snacks.  Funny thing is, we never got to the tea.  

And another provider, now retired, would make great smoothies and soups and stews.  She explained that we'd need a lot of energy for what lay ahead.  And we did!  

I guess I've been spending my time with the wrong gals. Unfortunately I've never received anything from a provider it would be well received and a breath of fresh air.