I've had so much weird push back for my screening process today. Like plenty of providers I appreciate verification from one or two prior providers with new clients. Is this really such an odd request?

Perspective clients or previous providers?

More guys should push back when verification goes beyond giving more information then a request from a verification site.  Work info, real name?  Please..

If they are comfortable with P411, okay.  If not, on to the next provider.

I never want to know anyone's identity as a screening process.... why would I?  But, if anyone bawks at giving a well reviewed TER reference, or sending me the most easy P411 request then there is a problem.  Then he is either:

1. LE
2. a newbie  (and he should join P411 and get verified by a Canadian company and seek entry through that channel).
3. or someone who burned all his bridges.  

If a man can't provide a reference or send a P411 request.... he is putting himself at risk by having BP gals who don't screen accept him and he might walk right into a sting but that is better than me opening my door to get stung!  

Let's all play it safe!!!  

However, if someone is a newbie and they want to opt to use me as a personal verification instead of using the P411 agency then I will do that for him if he has some good reason in doing so for ease or some other reason.  

Also, I have had clients refer other gents over golfing conversations telling them that they should meet me..... and well, I tell you, I've so enjoyed playing with true hobby virgins.  Rare as that may be, I just love it.  

 
AND AS ALWAYS....  another plug for white listing!  Let's make it a habit of being super nice gents and then super nice gals and whitelist all the safe, clean, respecting sexy encounters we have!

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prospective clients

Agreed! Very well put.

I agree, we really don't need 100% of your info and you shouldn't have to give all that.
Although, I've had reluctance even from just asking for references. I just figure I've dodged a bullet then and move on to the next inquiry. - V.