Who do people recommend for outcall?  What ladies like to do outcall?

I had an incall lady offer outcall last month when I told her Uptown is off limits for me.  I really enjoyed it and she seemed to like it too.

Ladies, do you mind if guys ask if you're open to outcall?

Some providers don't have an incall and will only do outcall.  Others have an incall, but will usually upcharge to do outcall. I think if the outcall is a long drive, many will be less inclined.  There are also some who won't do outcall, or outcall to private homes (hotel only.)  You just have to check around, lots of variety there.

If you are married, definitely don’t do outcall.  You are giving a stranger your real identity and risking things such as blackmail and the possibility of losing your family.  I personally know someone that had to pay $$$$ in a blackmail situation to a provider to avoid his wife from learning of his hobby.

Even if you are single(such as myself) you are giving a stranger your real identity and risking your professional reputation and then some.  I once had girls over for outcall but no more!  I know that it’s not the norm, but the news story about the man murdered in his home last month in Cottage Grove should give hobbyists enough warning not to risk having girls for outcall.

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Depending on what you're looking for.

No you probably shouldn't invite a pro you've never met over to your house, but if she's a pro you've seen multiple times for incall then outcall shouldn't be a problem but that's only if she's a regular and you know she isn't shady.
 The problem with the home invasion and  murder recently is that this pro was a straight heroin/meth addict and this was the client first meeting..

Ok, wow! Where did you hear about this person being blackmailed? Do you know him personally?  

No reputable provider is going to do this shit. Do your research on the gal you call. Does she have an online presence? Reviews?  Twitter? Forums? Etc... Google her number or email- what comes up? Look at all of her ads. Is she only advertising in one place or many?  
I know it's tough to think when you think you've found "the one" .  The last thing you want to find out is that she's a scam. But it's better to find out in front of your computer than with your pants down.  

We work our butts off every single day to NOT be scam girls. To keep our good reputations.  I want the guy this happened to to tell the story on here. No heresay because then it's just fear mongering and spreading rumors.

This coming from the guy who sends his fucking SDT testing paperwork to complete strangers!  Even when you're trying to give advice, your still oozing Jedi level creepiness!

Creepiness?  

“Watch out for the black girl "stranded" on the side of the road with that "fuck my ass" look...she'll be a trap.”

“Wait until about the 20th of the month when their EBT cards are depleted and drag a $50 bill thru the Walmart parking lot.”

“I don't know to whom you are talking about taking vids and I won't mention any names but the one(s) that I may have seen certainly look like the providers were fully aware and approved of the filming.”  

"When I see a provider smile or wink at the camera, I know she knows she's being recorded.”  

“Snafu is a character and that is not my real name but that is the personality that I've created.”

-Snafu929

The odds that someone who has this happen to them is going to come on this board or anywhere else for that matter and publicly talk about is very small.  Over the years, I've received PMs from several guys who were dealing with this sort of thing or were worried about it happening after things they did.  It can also happen with providers who are generally seen as reputable.  It can turn out they were only reputable until something set them off or perhaps events in their lives changed them in a bad way.  I'm sure most reputable looking providers are exactly that but not always.

The craziest story I ever heard was from some time back in the 2000s.  There was a blonde independent provider who developed a first rate reputation.  Almost always stellar reviews, had her act together so there was no history of NCNSs or other poor behavior.  Everything a client could want.  I don't remember if she announced she was leaving the state or just stopped being around for after a month or so (I think), a news story out of New Mexico (I think) came out; she'd been arrested down there.  But not just for prostitution.  It turned out she had a pimp.  And the pimp was basically running a cult to recruit girls to be prostitutes using drugs and violence to keep the girls in line.  She was arrested because she was his assistant, helping him figure out girls to target.

Vorlon, I'm not saying that it doesn't happen but I don't think it happens as much as we think it does or how we think it does. That's why I want first person accounts.  
Otherwise it's just a rumor. Sorry. But unless you can cite your references ( news stories etc...) Or get first hand accounts it's just fear mongering to me .

I wouldn't.  This corner of the world is largely composed of people who do not want other people to know they are involved in P4P, much less that it blew up in their faces.  Unless it is something sufficiently bad that it actually makes the news, the chances of your getting a first hand account are slim and none.  Like so many things in the P4P world, we have to make decisions without having the level of information we would expect in the civvie world.

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