this lady will do everything possible and go to great lengths to try and make you believe that she is going through a crisis and that if you help her $, she will greatly reward you. She is very good and she uses her mom to help her. It happened to me when she went by the name Bella. Another provider, who Bella told me she knew recently told me that she has a long history of doing this with guys. She does have some good reviews, including one from me before I was scammed. It happened a year and a half ago in December of 09. She could be a legit provider now, but she never once tried to make good on her promises to me whether by sessions promise or payback of the $ even though I have contacted her many times trying to resolve the issue. I learned a valuable lesson and I hope that you don't have to. You can PM me if you have further questions. I am not the kind of guy that tries to get even but I do want to make sure that the guys that use this board know about her and stay away.
I was once given some good advice from a provider. She even admitted to taking advantage of guys this way, but felt ok with it because she really did need the money. Her rationale - the guys she would ask for the money from were VERY generous and were the types that were regulars, book dinner dates, provide nice gifts, etc. So she figured they could afford it. I asked her if she ever paid them back. Her response:
Hell no! Money in my hand is MY MONEY!. She claimed to have been careful not to ask for a LOAN, but just for help. In her mind it was a gift and didn't owe them shit. If they asked for anything in return, she would cut them off.
Without getting into names, there is a breed of escort that will let a guy think he is more than a client, provide free extras, time of the clock, etc. Then set him up for a big score like this.
that she never intended to keep. Yes, I admit I was stupid but I want the guys on her to beware. She is very convincing and calls constantly badgering and begging for money. When a friend of hers told me this is her M.O., I decided to post now because this is the first time I have seen her post in the yr and a half since. Knowledge is power dude!
in your case. It could have been anyone you met socially or wherever. The bottom line is, you are not the bank. I've learned this lesson the hard way, thinking that I'm helping a friend in need. In your case, the motivation was self-seeking (if I do this, then she'll give me that), even though you may have had the heart-felt intent to be of some help, also. In my case, there was an element of self-seeking of a different nature-the payback was feeling good about myself for helping someone. It's called care taking, a dysfunctional behavior that I partake in at times.
Nonetheless, whether it be a friend, a provider, a client, or a family member. People will try and take advantage of others if we let them.
So, I've learned to just say "no, a bank would be happy to loan you money, and I'm not one of them".
Of course, I'm speaking of this after losing a few so-called friends, and now I have fewer "friends", too!
Maybe you missed the part about the fact that she hasn't posted an ad in the year and a half since this occurred? Or perhaps you didn't look at her reviews to see that ldm51560 was her last review since she did this to him in December 2009? Say he HAD warned us in 2009 - and now 18 months later she popped up under a different name. Would you even have made the connection?
I just don't see why everyone has their panties in a bunch because he didn't warn us before. She obviously has not been working - so what was he supposed to warn us about? I'd understand if she did this to you, say between Dec 2009 and now - but that does not seem to be the case. He's trying to help, for shits sake. And to admit that you were duped by someone probably isn't the easiest thing to do.
and I never really post anymore, but I had an amazing time with her followed by a few missed connections. I'm not trying to justify anyone's actions and I think the advice about not being a bank is key... I really did have one of the better times with a provider the first time I met her.
She did respond to my post with her most recent ads on BP. You may find her to be wonderful to play with but now you know if she wants to make a deal or begs for money in a crisis- to just walk away and you will be fine. Well also, don't answer your phone either as she is relentless.
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