This is a follow of to the 10 questions for the ladies I posted yesterday. Now I want your feedback and hopefully we can all learn something at best or get a good laugh at worst.  
 
So here goes:  
 
1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  
 
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  
 
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    
 
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  
 
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  
 
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  
 
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  
 
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.  
 
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  
 
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?  
 
*** Bonus Question*****  
 
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

Nuevo Laredo Mexico with a $2 blow job in the 60s.
   
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

Ha!  Well, I've had nominally $300/hr sessions that lasted 15 minutes, so that would be $1200 an hour.  But, on balance, I rarely go above 5000
   
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    

Never had anything in an ad disqualify
   
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  
   
Have the cell phone on, have the TV on during session.  Pets.

5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  

A - alwasy horny
   
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  
   
Indie.  Agencies are creepy.

7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  
   
Can't really answer that way.  Question doesn't fit.

8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.    
   
Apart from the $2 blow job, I lost my real sex cherry with a platonic girl friend; we joked that we'd never have sex, and then dared each other to do it.

9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  

Can't think of it.
   
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?    

Great service, good convesation.
   
*** Bonus Question*****  
   
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?

Yep, by all means

1. Anastasia, 49

2. It all depends

3. Never saw anyone based on ads. Reviews and web site most important

4. Obviously fake it. Be disinterested.

5. A

6.Indie, I LOVE a strong, intelligent, independent woman.

7. Neither

8. To long ago to remember details.

9. No

10. Chemistry, Chemistry, CHEMISTRY!! Feeling relaxed, comfortable, and safe with her. (see my review of Portia Eden

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

Some of these details are private.  I was 55 when I started in the hobby.
 
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

No specific limit; I seek the company of exceptional ladies vs. seeking a price point, and I realize quality has its price.  However, I'm not one to spend ~$1000 for an hour with ANY woman, no matter how great/famous... there's wonderful providers for much less.
 
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    

Potentially looks; "borrowed" photos; too young (see above re MY age); terrible ad copy (really bad spelling/grammar) come to mind.
 
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  

Not giving me the full time of the appointment; detached/disinterested persona--a feeling that she is not at all enjoying what she does; poor massage skills (if I went for that); attempts at upselling during the session; not delivering what was promised in ads, e.g. ads that say "b2b" and/or "fully nude" and that's not what happened.
 
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  

Sort of C, but much more complex that that... and private.
 
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  

Indie.  Simpler, and I prefer a woman who has full control over her life and career.
 
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  

Saved my marriage.  But that was not just because of the hobby, but because of one wonderful person I met through the hobby who cared enough about me and my situation to help me do something about it.
 
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.  

With a girlfriend many years ago.  Too vague a question to provide more of an answer, plus some things should remain private.  
 
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  

Not THAT uncomfortable, but I did have a pretty bad experience early in the hobby with a well-reviewed provider that left me scratching my head.  Also I had a provider who I gave up on after a couple of NCNSes (although she apologized eventually) and generally erratic and unprofessional behavior.
 
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?  

Besides being gorgeous, sexy, and highly skilled, she is as beautiful a person inside as she is on the outside.  I am totally comfortable saying anything, and doing anything with her (within our respective boundaries of course) and always have a great time with her no matter what we end up doing.  She is not only my ATF provider, but a good friend, confidant, and even sometimes counselor.  Need I say more?  
 
*** Bonus Question*****  
 
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?    

Legalize it, yes.  Why sexual behavior between two consenting adults should be illegal is beyond me.

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

Won't say with whom, but it's within the last year.  My age?  I'm over the speed limit but less than a mile-a-minute.
   
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

I don't know...and, it depends on who the provider is.  I'm not saying I don't consider price, but I think it's relative to who it is and what market you're in.
   
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    

Misread this the first time, so I'll try again.  I don't pay a ton of attention to ads, especially in the negative sense.  I do like clever ads, as they show me the person is bright and interesting.
   
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  

The only provider I've seen to date that I would never see again is one who had a strong taste of alcohol on her breath and also seemed to be under the influence when I walked in the door.  

Don't get me wrong - I have no objection to having a drink or two together, but substantial drinking before I arrive tells me something's wrong.  And, it's not much fun.
   
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  
   
D.  I'm happily married, but we have no sex life.  I didn't want to live the rest of my life without some physical relationship, and think that hobbying is less invasive than having an affair.

6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  

Indie so far, but time will tell.
   
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  
   
Neither, but it has made me a happier guy.

8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.    

Hand and Sears catalog.  

With another person, you mean?  17 year old-boy meets 19-year old horny married woman, smokes pot with her, and has a new experience in the fold-down seats of a Rambler.  (Yeah, I'm old enough to remember Ramblers, but it was actually an AMC car. I'm not THAT old. BTW,  loved those fold-down seats - best invention ever.)

   
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  
   
No.

10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?    
 I'm pretty new, so don't have one yet.  However, I think it will be a combination of being comfortable, excellent oral skills, and having a look/personality that trips my trigger.  

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1) about 35 years ago, in the houses, In tried the streets once, that was scary, best luck was with, Cosmopolitan, Christy, Casey.

2) $300 t0 $350 is at least where the quality providers start and I don't prefer to go more than that.  less than that, reviews show very poor quality.  so that's my budget once a month.

3) too plastic looking

4) had very few bad, but no kiss, no touch, no personableness. (probably not a word)

5) start because of C, but always A, so what do ya do.

6) indie are more personable, agency girls more business

7) if I had won the lottery, it would have ruined it, cause I would be doing doubles with all my ATFs

8) wedding nite, wow, I know, I grew up in a very conservative group.  Yuk. been there, done that, don't want to be there again.

9) never had one that bad, thank goodness

10) Chemistry that is found in the personality, comfortableness and thru the kissing and more importantly thru the eyes.  slowing down and there is a real feeling of GFE.  even if it is only for an hour.  

legalize it, get rid of the pimp business and let people live their lives freely as they wish.  it is amazing to me that the conservatives who hate government intervening into their lives do the exact opposite with this.  they really have no principles just positions and often contrary ones.

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

I was late 50s, in a bar in Berlin, and bought a very nice lady a beer or three. She volunteered that she was a prostitute, which is legal over there. She wasn't working that night so nothing happened, but she had worked for a time in the states while visiting family, and she told me about TER. Went home, devoured the Newbie Board and Erotic Highway, and learned something I always thought was dangerous, tawdry and demeaning could be done (relatively) safely with self-employed women who do it by choice. After a couple months I got up my courage and jumped into the process of learning about myself.
   
 2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

Having paid $500/hr I won't do so again (current dollars), except maybe in Vegas if I ever go back.
   
 3) You saw her Ad, and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    

Don't use ads. Reviews and word of mouth are more helpful. Board participation, too. Only time I can think of that an ad sucked me in was Poppy. Well, that worked out okay, I guess. : )
   
 4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  

Any hint of cigarettes. I worked too hard to quit. Asking me if I want to pay for extra time at 50 minutes into the hour. Leaving the TV on. Just not being fun. Those are the things that have actually happened.
   
 5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  

D. Strong, happy, sexless marriage, but I was in a long hours, high stress, sedentary career so didn't really notice. Retired, started working to get back in shape, and my libido awoke from the dead, which made me receptive to the events of #1.
   
 6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  

Indy for the most part, though I've met a couple of very fine agency girls in Vegas. I have no problem with a woman letting someone else do the work of scheduling, but I don't ever want to facilitate a woman being exploited.
   
 7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  

The marriage never needed saving, but about six months in my spouse commented that I seemed much happier and more relaxed lately. So it sure hasn't ruined the marriage, either.
   
 8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.    

Blow job at a drive-in movie.
   
 9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that it made you run for the hills?  

No. That's why I do research.
   
 10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?  

She (they, actually) makes me believe that she is honestly and sincerely happy to spend time with me.  
   
 *** Bonus Question***
   
 Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?

Legalize and regulate. It's happening with pot which gives me hope, but I'm not holding my breath.

1) A middle age Korean woman in Georgia. Awful 1st experience.
2) $ 250/hr. Yes, I know I am cheap.
3) Fat, old, black, crazy or worn out looking.
4) Throw down rules, any. CBJ. Seem overly eager to get it over with or to make me cum. Have multiple appointments all day.  
5) C, B, and A.
6) I don't care.
7) No effect. My ex-GF did some damage, however.
8) With my wife while dating and I was terrible and still to this day she says I forced myself on her.
9) Suddenly stopped at a sound and remained silent for awhile., then started up again, but I was basically done.
10) Happily BBBJNQNS and does not make a big deal out of it. I guess GFE without the PSE type of behavior.  

I do not want it legalized. It do not want someone else to control how and when I can have sex. I prefer lax enforcement and lame penalties. The exception is for the underage and exploited, then severe punishments.

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

A stripper who went by Elizabeth back in 1999 down in Texas  
 
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

At this point in time, $350
 
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    
 
Lots of things.  Obvious fake pics.  Ridiculously poor grammar.  Anything that smacks of an attitude.  Etc.

4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  

Upsell.  Act completely uninterested.  Poor hygiene.  Bad attitude.  Pics are not close to what she looks like.
 
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  
 
A/B - Single and horny

6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  

Indie - agencies are bigger LE targets and it's hard to know if the agency is treating their escorts decently
 
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  

As a single guy, my answer to the question is neither.  I get to have some great sex and have met a number of very interesting women.  Through hobbying, I may well have avoided getting into relationships with women who were really not compatible with me simply because I wanted to get laid.
 
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.  

A petting session with a girl when I was in high school
 
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  

No
 
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?  

That's hard for me to break down to specifics.  Looks and sexual skill are part of it to be sure but not all.  Personality, chemistry, intelligence, knowing me well enough to know what's working and what isn't; all those things come into play.  It's a package deal that makes me come back time and time again and while I have seen many excellent escorts, that package is a very elusive thing.
 
*** Bonus Question*****  
 
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?  

Of course.  Consenting adults should not have to fear being arrested for consenting to have sex with each other.

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

A) I was 19.  Payed a stripper for a BJ in a strip club.  First called an escort when I was 25, I had been thinking about it for some time.  
 
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

A) I don't have a set limit, but When the requested fee is above the normal for the area I shy away.
 
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?  

A)  I can't find reviews or something to let me know she is for real and not a trap.    
 
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  

A) Excessive body odor.  Also if she has a bad attitude, or overly controlling.  (I'm the one paying she should be catering to my desires).  
 
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  

A)  Both A and B, but I kept it up because it is very enjoyable without complications.
 
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  

A) Both.  
 
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  

A) So far no effect, but I haven't been found out.  
 
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.  

A) I was 14 with a 13 year old neighbor girl (first time for both of us).  
 
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  

A) Bad hygiene or appearing to be under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
 
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?  

A)  Catering to me.  If an incall meeting, offering a drink.  Helping me get cleaned up and presentable afterwards.  
 
*** Bonus Question*****  
 
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?  

A)  Absolutely!  I have never thought it should be a crime when everyone is a consenting adult

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  

Alantra (massage) - her incall - 7 years ago.
   
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  

$200 for massage. $350 for FS if and when I take that step.
   
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    

No name listed, brutal - terrible english - fake pictures.
   
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  

Upsell. Not returning e-mails / phone messages. Full voice mail so I can't leave a message.
   
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  

Always Horny and sexless marriage - not a bad marriage - just sexless.
   
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  

Indie. Easier to deal with.  
   
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  

It has no effect on my marriage what so ever.
   
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.    

High School GF sophomore year - making out/petting.
   
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  
   

Nope

10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?    

I had an ATF for about 4 years and we just clicked with our personalities, political views, teams we cheered for. We were there for each other in times of need etc. Just recently she just stopped. I miss her and hope she is doing well.
   
*** Bonus Question*****  
   
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?    

Legalize it and also legalize weed. Can you imagine the tax windfall from both activities?  


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1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  
 
Earlier this year, in an upscale Minneapolis hotel.  I was 31, which I gather is young for the hobby.
   
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?  
 
This is a case by case determination, but it would have to be someone incredibly special for me to pay more than $500.
   
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?    
 
No link to reviews; fake pictures.
   
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?  
 
So far the only thing has been a provider who checked her phone messages during the session.
   
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  
 
D) I'm trying to experience some of the wonderful variety of beautiful women that I missed out on by picking out the one girl that was for me and marrying her young.
   
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?  
 
Indie Girls, because in my view the LE risk is lower and there are fewer opportunities to be scammed.  
   
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  
 
Neither.
   
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.    
 
I got a bj from my high school sweetheart in her parents' basement.
   
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?  
   
Not yet.
 
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?    
 
I'm pretty new at this, so I don't have an ATF, but I know what I like so far: a woman who makes me feel like a king through her interest in me and her actions during the session.  Also, BBBJTCNQNS is a must
   
*** Bonus Question*****  
   
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?    
 
Definitely legalize it.

I dont post much, just need a break from work right now. Some of you know me as mr_kennedy from the MFP days.

 
1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?  
 
Madison Of MPLS, Hotel in Edina December 30, 2005, 5-7 PM. I was 43 at the time  
   
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?    
 
$300  
   
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?      
   
Anything that looks to good to be true  
 
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?    
 
 Poor hygiene.  Bad attitude.    
   
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain    
   
A/D - "A" is a no brainer - "D" Wife lost intrest in sex all the time after the kids were born. I need sex all time. God designed us to fuck periord.  
 
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?    
 
Wouldnt even consider a agency
   
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?    
 
It saved the marriage. She is happy I am happy.  
   
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.    
 
I beleive it was by myself under the covers with a flashlight and a Playboy Mag. Many Many Moon Ago  
   
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?    
 
Almost, but I toughed it out just to see if I could do it. It did work but will not repeat ever.
   
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?    
 
She has real and intense orgasmisms. I dont think she ever faked it?
   
*** Bonus Question*****    
   
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?    
 
Absolutly legalize it!  It is a waste of taxes dollars for cops to keep chasing this stuff. THey will never ever stop it yet they think they will

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1.  Late 90s while in Miami at a convention.  Didn't know what I was doing, popped quickly from a bj and she was done.

2.  $350 is the most I have ever spent.  My preference is a massage with happy ending, a much better bargain at about $150.

3.  Bad reviews, if I talk to her and get a weird or strung out vibe, she smokes

4.  Being all about the money, bitching about other guys

5.  Horny and my wife is plain vanilla

6.  Either

7.  If she ever found out, it might.  But it gives me a chance to get something a lil different.

8.  Age 20 in college to the woman who is now my wife.

9.   No

10.  Smiles, is happy to see me, knows me.

1) With whom, where and at what age did your hobbying cherry get busted?

That particular cherry was popped by a sweet, petite brunette named Meagan.  I was 29.
 
2) What is your hobbying price limit (Per hour) ?

So far I've been satisfied after paying $200 for a girl-next-door experience, and $300 for something more exclusive.  I've paid as little as $150 without having a bad experience, and been tempted by girls with rates up to $400.  I will probably pick more frequent or longer visits as a mainstay, with a special treat from time to time.
 
3) You saw her Ad,and you are interested.  What are some things in Ads that automatically disqualify her from you booking with her?

I'll answer #3 and #4 together:  None of the ladies who frequent this forum do anything on that level.  The things that I like are personal, and I'm sure that any of you could learn them if we met more than once. I prefer ads that are more expressive than suggestive, since I'm young enough that I tend to be turned-on as it is.  I like face-pictures (with the obvious security caveat).
 
4) What are some things that providers do that make you not want to return to see her?
 
5) You started hobbying because you were/are________________.  A) Always Horny  B) Single and Lonely  C) Unhappily Married   D) Other- Please explain  

A, B, D: I was a good boy - more-than-willing to adjust my life to make room for a special someone.  The return-on-investment was low, to put it mildly.
 
6) Agency Girls or Indie Girls? Why?

I have no experience with agencies thus far.
 
7) Has hobbying saved or ruined your marriage?   For single guys, has your social life improved due to your hobbying or is hobbying your social life?  Too soon to tell.
 
8) Briefly explain your first sexual experience.

A very aggressive Duluth girl, who was also a friend.
 
9) Has a provider ever done something that made you so uncomfortable that made you run for the hills?

One of the first ladies that I went to see had told me her rates over the phone.  On the second call, she asked me if I could stop and pick up condoms.
 
10) What are some things that your regular girl/ATF does that makes you keep coming back to see her?

I haven't settled on a regular provider.  I remember one date who would nibble on my earlobe and whisper in my ear as we made out.  That was nice.  
 
*** Bonus Question*****  
 
Legalize it, and make it susceptible to state or federal regulation?

I would probably prefer that it be legal.  In the worst case the regulation could be intrusive and not done well enough to make things safer; but it would still remove the legal risk, which seems to fall hardest on the ladies.  As far as what it would do to the nastier operations, there are still escorts in Las Vegas even though there are also brothels nearby.

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1: I was 21 she was a stripper at a club. She was a tall thin black girl. $100 for the works.  
2: that depends on what she offers and quality of service. Ive gone up to $500
3:  
4: Smell of smoke, not do what they say they will, rushed, upsell
5: A and D  1st I am always horny. 2nd I want to be with as many women as I possible can and      3rd I LOVE LOVE LOVE to be with women that have been with a lot of men.  
6: Normally indys. Only once have I used an agency and been satisfied.  
7: while single it was just fun to do. "Shop" for your dream girl and have fun. Being married the provides provide and outlet my wife either wont or don't do or don't do very well.
8: at a house party, her and I went up stairs and she give me a decent blow job. I didn't tell her I was cumming and the 1st shot went in her mouth, she jumped back and the rest was a Monica Lewinski.  
9. One brought a guy along to check out the room because she was nervous she passed a cop on the drive to me. He was going to stand outside and wait until we were done. FUCK THAT.
10. I have a few ATF's and each have something. 1 has an ok service for a great price. another, shes fun, treats me like a friend, the sex is awesome. another because I love her boobs! A different one, because she is NAUGHTY as all get out.  

Bonus, if government gets into it more it will just fuck it up and make it harder than it already is.