Not phrased that way...

If you have doubts about her personal hygiene, don't see her.  Most TER reviews make some mention of hygiene.

Ladies will tend to worry about their hair and may prefer a bath.  Also if it is your first visit with the lady in question, I doubt if she'd be willing to bathe with you.  It puts her in a more vulnerable position.

It can be a sensitive topic.  I was in LV and was out in some very hot weather.  I was going to get cleaned up for a date and decided it would be fun to get cleaned up with a little company.  I mentioned a desire to shower with her and she would bathe with me in a tub.   During our conversation she intimated that I wanted to bathe with over concerns with her hygiene rather than my own, it did not make for a particularly friendly encount

for providers that list Shower Play on their menu, and it can be planned before meeting, may not happen til second meeting though. Good luck!

I gave done that many times! Just ask in email or use P411 for that (such as in your profile) ... Just please don't use the term "water play" ... Someone did once and I had to correct him lol.

And they are likely to be every bit as concerned about hygiene as you are so you can focus on the foreplay.

I might be tempted to goose ya ! Heehee...