It is so difficult to find this combination, yet that is what I am looking for next week when I am in Minneapolis.   Can anyone recommend a provider who would offer these services in combination. . .  

I have been unable to stick these keywords in a search and come back with much.

Thanks,

I'm assuming you're the recipient of the strap on ministrations?  

And are you to be the fistee?

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When I travel, I find it pretty easy to find providers who provide specific services.  I enjoy all the things you mention in your subject, so I typically seek out fetish or Domme/sub providers.  Eros and Back page have specific sections for that.  Then, I see if any of those providers have TER reviews.  And, finally, I just email each of them, explaining exactly what services I want.  Most will answer my emails. But, I suppose some don't want to discuss details. None-the-less, I usually get a few hits on my requests, and am able to play exactly the way I desire.  

One another note, when I travel, I always bring a few of my own toys.  I have a strap on, from smitten kitten, that comes in a black velvet carrying case. I just slip it into the bottom of my luggage, and have never had an issue.  But, many women who provide strap on services just don't have the equipment.  

Good Luck.  You will be happy with  nearly all the reputable Dominatrix' here in the Twin Cities.  

I love boys that love toys!! But, WOW it's amazing to me that you're able to email specific  details to providers you've never met & they aren't scared away. That is generally a big NO-NO. In my book, anyway.  

A couple more confusing things: women who provide strap-on services don't have the toys to use for the services they provide?? Really?

Lastly, why would you have any "issues" carrying a dildo? I would love to know what you meant by that statement about your travel companion in the black velvet case...

Peace,

Astrid

I was traveling with a bag of toys in my suitcase that got flagged as I went thru airport security.

The TSA agent opened the suitcase, then opened the bag, and found loads of toys, including a rather large dildo.  He recoiled and said, "I'll let you pack this back up."  

The classic case of airport security snafus is women with nipple or clit rings setting off the metal detectors. Or guys with similar appliances.

My experience has been that carrying large sex toys in a carryon will invite TSA scrutiny and snickers all around from them.  I do travel frequently with a Kleenmaster stream bag and hose to make sure that I am prepared for an encounter and have never seen my bag given a second glance.    

I think I would prefer to find a provider that has her own implements and harness for them and is comfortable with them.

TSA opens my bag every time!  They are the ones who get embarrassed, not me!
I have several strap-ons of varying length and girth. And experience with fisting.
And butt plugs.....and cuffs.....and rope.....and vibrators for sensual bedroom play.

Several reviews describe these.
Spanks,
Ms. Red (the Sassy one)

Too bad you're not in Vegas.  I won't be in MN when you're there, but I could be persuaded to visit there or elsewhere

Lady Astrid,

For clarity, I will always be up front with the ladies I hope provide those types of services, but, as I said, I don't always receive a response. Certainly, I cannot blame someone who doesn't want to discuss details, but, frankly, many women are comfortable with that.  Not all, but many.  

As for my statement about women not having strap-ons, I have met many women (who don't advertise as fetish providers )who express an interest in strap on play,  but haven't had the occasion (or desire) to purchase or maintain one.  Many women will be happy to provide that service as long as I bring my own equipment.  Certainly, women who advertise strap-on services have their own toys. However, unless the provider is someone I know very well, and I am sure of how she maintains and sanitizes her equipment, I am still more comfortable with my own.  Its a very good one, with very adjustable straps, and will fit most women.  

I simply stated that carrying my own strap-on has never brought me an undo scrutiny. I guess I used the word "issue" as a catch all phrase.  I certainly have no issue with carrying one, I just don't want to be inconvenienced in any way.  And, I always pack it in my check in luggage

Thank you! I personally would be quite amused to watch TSA checking out a big purple strap-on. Not illegal, of course. What would they say? I once knew a Domme who had this happen to her, they searched her carry-on bag and she had all kinds of goodies. Of course they were too embarrassed to say much, and sent her on her way.  

As long as you check the lube if its more than 3oz...

Peace,

A