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Sassy, you are correct
RealP4U 57 Reviews 587 reads
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You are correct, that you can provide some things NOT found at any local dungeon.  And, you obviously have the experience, toys, knowledge and attitude to provide a great BDSM experience, as well as a provider experience.  In my original post, I said that there are FEW providers with your multiple talents.  But, if a man is looking for a reasonably "sure thing bdsm experience", a local dungeon is probably a safe bet.  Maybe not as sexy or sensual as you, but certainly they are  all about Dominance/submission/BDSM/fetishplay.

hard4one1035 reads

Who's a good provider for BDSM?

Very few providers/escorts/massagewomen/ can actually provide a decent BDSM experience.  Some say they can, but, true Dominatrix are more than just an escort with a whip and a few ropes.  There are only three or four  Professional Dungeons in the Twin Cities.  The real ones are pretty easy to find, and often advertise on BP.  The real Dommes on Backpage will generally have a link to their website with pics of their dungeons and more information.  Many will list their specific services.  There are lots of women who claim to be Dommes, but they have no equipment, no experience, and no true Dominating attitude.  Of course, I have no idea what you think BDSM is.  Maybe you are looking for something a bit more vanilla or just some rough and dirty sex.  

I have been involved with BDSM for thirty years, having seen every ProDomme who has traveled or worked in this city.  I regularly see women at two dungeons right now.  I think I have only reviewed one, as many of the women want to keep their expertise off TER.  

I don't have VIP, so don't get IM's,  But, if you check the ads, and read the reviews, you should be just fine

MsChayse804 reads

I was there with a client & had the time of my life! If only providers could submit reviews. 10/10!

The Stiff Mister752 reads

Sorry to break it to you, for what you crave from start to finish there are no
outstanding providers such as on the east and west cost. NO Even Close :)

Wish there was however:)

TS

I've seen dommes in NYC; Lotus's dungeon makes any of the four or five I've seen in NY pale by comparison, and in terms of skills and experience, she's at least as good as East Coast dommes...frankly, I'd say she's better.

Although I don't work in a "real dungeon," I have many skills and more than four years of experience in BDSM activities as a Top/Dom/Mistress.  
 Flogging (horse hair or leather?), sensory deprivation, spanking (OTK) strap on play, prostate massage, fisting, bondage, role play, watersports, CBT.......all negotiated and consensual.  
   
 There are things to be enjoyed that a "real dungeon" doesn't provide ;);)  
   
 Spanks and licks,  
 Ms Sassy Red

You are correct, that you can provide some things NOT found at any local dungeon.  And, you obviously have the experience, toys, knowledge and attitude to provide a great BDSM experience, as well as a provider experience.  In my original post, I said that there are FEW providers with your multiple talents.  But, if a man is looking for a reasonably "sure thing bdsm experience", a local dungeon is probably a safe bet.  Maybe not as sexy or sensual as you, but certainly they are  all about Dominance/submission/BDSM/fetishplay.

How do I get in touch when I don't have reference but looking for BDSm?

Posted By: SassyRed
Although I don't work in a "real dungeon," I have many skills and more than four years of experience in BDSM activities as a Top/Dom/Mistress.  
  Flogging (horse hair or leather?), sensory deprivation, spanking (OTK) strap on play, prostate massage, fisting, bondage, role play, watersports, CBT.......all negotiated and consensual.    
     
  There are things to be enjoyed that a "real dungeon" doesn't provide ;);)  
     
  Spanks and licks,  
  Ms Sassy Red

If you're considering Mistress Lotus or one of her associate mistresses, you will not need a reference because they do not engage in any sexual activities.  Take this with a grain of salt, but that's the word.

Sassy,

Oh my ,I broke a light sweat just reading this- PM sent! haha, J. xxxoo

Been seeing Mistress Sharina for several years and she is wonderful.

Wide variety of equipment and themes. She has opened my eyes and mind
to many activities that I would have never considered.

 

Posted By: hard4one
Who's a good provider for BDSM?

MsChayse699 reads

Her website plays seductive music immediately starting when you click on the link.

jerthebear622 reads

I'd like to know the name and artist who's playing that music on Sharina's website.

The best thing about Red is that I trust her to safely pull me outside my comfort zone.  Wait, that's the second best thing.  The best thing about Red is the way she looks in a pair of tight jeans.

a fine look in spandex too; not to mention naked, of course

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