I called on Wednesday night to make a Thursday appointment. We settled on a 3:00 p.m. appointment but she said she would have to push back her 4:15 and that if she was going to do that, I needed to be serious about the 3:00. She specified that I needed to call at 10:30 Thursday morning and confirm the appointment. I set a reminder on my calender for the 10:30 call. She answered and I confirmed the appointment. She asked if I could push back to 3:15 and I said that would be fine. She said that she would call me at 2:30 and give me the address.
2:30 came - no call. 2:45 - I call and it goes to voicemail but I cannot leave a message because her mailbox is full 3:00 - Call again - no answer/voicemail full 3:10 - same result 3:15 - same result 3:20 - same result and I give up and go home annoyed because she was so adamant about me keeping the appointment and because there is no time to make another arrangement (missing Method too).
I've waited for a couple of days to give her the opportunity to call but have not heard from her. I may call tomorrow (Monday) to see if I can get in touch with her. If there is any more I will post an update.
I had a similar experience with Tess a week or so ago. We had arranged for a 3:00pm Friday appointment. While I'm sitting in a nearby parking lot, she texts me at 2:45pm telling me she needs to push it back to 3:30pm, okay I reply. At 3:15pm she says she needs to push it back even more, I say to when, she replies 4:30pm. To this I reply I cannot wait that long and leave. She did respond with an apology saying she was getting ready to leave town for the weekend...uhh okay.
She clearly wants to keep her apartment based massage parlor a secret from someone in her proximity. She's done this same stuff with everyone. You can find so much better out there.
I suspect you were the victim of "I gotta better offer" syndrom. I have had several providers tell me they always like to see their regulars (maybe w/ deeper pockets) over anyone they have never seen first. I geuss I can understand this. But still, why overbook??
I also know some providers like to "guide you" close to their incall and whomever calls first from there gets to see them...The other poor schmuks get to go home after wasting a bunch of time. I know this has happened to me on several occasions.
Of course, not all providers behave in this manner but enough do...
As a busy Massage provider. I've never done that "better offer " thing or make someone race to my Incall . Although I do prefer my regulars. Everyone is equal IMHO. I've never ncns'd without a very Legitimate reason as I have an extremely tight schedule but I've always made up for it to the client even today I gave free of charge due to a schedule mishap . An apology or something That's the least she should do.
Posted By: happy39guy
I suspect you were the victim of "I gotta better offer" syndrom. I have had several providers tell me they always like to see their regulars (maybe w/ deeper pockets) over anyone they have never seen first. I geuss I can understand this. But still, why overbook??
I also know some providers like to "guide you" close to their incall and whomever calls first from there gets to see them...The other poor schmuks get to go home after wasting a bunch of time. I know this has happened to me on several occasion . Of course, not all providers behave in this manner but enough do...
It's too bad there are some who don't follow your professional protocol. Very nice gesture in your case making up a scheduling snafu by offering a free massage. I have had two providers who explained to me how they "schedule 2 or 3 at a time" and guide them near their incall...They then see the one who calls first from the parking lot. I quit seeing these ladies thinking a) it could be me next b) it sets a bad example and I don't want to support this behaivor and c) what about the other guys who maybe drove 2 hrs to get to parking lot and call to a full voicemail.
I can also say I have never NCNS'd any provider in my hobbying experience.
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