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rustyagain 1783 reads
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...like Pavlov's dog, you "react" during a regular, no extras, more traditional massage.... but at least I didn't drool. :)
This happened to me yesterday. I was so embarrassed I didn't know what to say. I knew pulling the towel up to cover up how red my face was probably wasn't the right thing to do. lol
Anyone else had this happen?

Derpdydoo1134 reads

Depending what prompted the reaction, I might just get pissed.  Nothing gets me more then one who knows EXACTLY what she's doing to you, yet has no intention of delivering.  

Even if she didn't do anything.. I don't personally think I'd get embarrassed.

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MsDynamite821 reads

Hee that's when I give them the "other" card...

Posted By: Derpdydoo
Depending what prompted the reaction, I might just get pissed.  Nothing gets me more then one who knows EXACTLY what she's doing to you, yet has no intention of delivering.    
   
 Even if she didn't do anything.. I don't personally think I'd get embarrassed.

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LadyAstrid1162 reads

Get an erection? How could it not? I honestly did not believe a male had much control over that appendage. If my belief is in any way accurate, then it stands (lol) to reason that a man would get an erection while being touched in a relaxing peaceful environment- and to be clear, in a non-sexual manner. I'm not the expert, I don't have one! ;)  But I believe men get erections in the REM state of sleep, and needless to say that is without sexual stimulus unless one has the most erotic dreams every night.  I know I'd get one during a massage if I had one. I'm very curious how you guys DON'T get them during a therapeutic massage or other inconvenient times. I understand how silly this sounds, but I really do want to learn about erections of the involuntary kind. Sounds like a movie.

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Pollenbroker871 reads

are age and experience.

When a guy is in his teens, he gets involuntary erections all the time.

By his 30s, he's usually got some control, and in "inappropriate" situations (especially the colonoscopy!), has the ability to control it.  By the time a guy is in his 50s, he's usually going to need some oomph -- visual, mental, physical -- to get it going.  And so on.

I know we get erections in our sleep, but I don't know why.  I will wake up with a boner but with no memories of erotic dreams.

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LadyAstrid932 reads

Related Link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_penile_tumescence

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OmegaZap706 reads

I think the most important thing to remember is that everyone is SO different.  Men are stereotyped to have constant, always-on sex drives, and women much less so...  And throughout my life I have seen the absolute folly of that belief.  I know a lot of women with raging inferno appetites and a lot of men with very little.

For me, personally...  managing it all is harder than it may seem.  I have tons and tons of sexual energy all the time, and a little bit of energy and effort has to go into every day to manage it.  All throughout the day there are going to be erections at seemingly odd times, and they will often be "full" and often last for quite a while.  Most days there will be a couple of episodes of pre-cum spotting, so I don't wear a lot of light colored pants to work.  Many days there will be times when sexual energy is just hanging over me like a cloud and I need a release just to get "balanced" and get concentrated on what I need to get done that day.  I am not complaining, I am not saying it's bad...  But, it is not always easy, managing my intense sexual energy level is just an every day part of my life that I have had to learn to deal with.

AND... I think the older a guy gets, the less that his erectness is an accurate barometer of arousal.  There will be times when I am sportin' some serious wood but am not really all that aroused, and other times when I am intensely turned on and am not hard.  It's just less directly connected now than it used to be when I was younger.

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Posted By: LadyAstrid
I'm very curious how you guys DON'T get them during a therapeutic massage or other inconvenient times.
It involves a lot of deep breathing and trying to remember Ryne Sandberg's stats during his MVP year (baseball stats).  :)

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Posted By: rustyagain
 
   
Posted By: LadyAstrid
I'm very curious how you guys DON'T get them during a therapeutic massage or other inconvenient times.
 It involves a lot of deep breathing and trying to remember Ryne Sandberg's stats during his MVP year (baseball stats).  :)

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MsDynamite834 reads

At my legit job it happens so, I think it's nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about & I'm sure to communicate that.
 I have no idea why it always happens when I'm seeing my straight massage clients though... Maybe it's all my fault? :D

Posted By: rustyagain
...like Pavlov's dog, you "react" during a regular, no extras, more traditional massage.... but at least I didn't drool. :)  
 This happened to me yesterday. I was so embarrassed I didn't know what to say. I knew pulling the towel up to cover up how red my face was probably wasn't the right thing to do. lol  
 Anyone else had this happen?

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trotter321707 reads

I probably violated some ter policy but pollenbroker was replying to my posting which was removed.  Let's try this again

My little soldier is always willing to cum to attention.  It doesn't matter whether its a regular massage, a chiropractor's electric stim  :-), or a colonoscopy.  He's always willing to rise to attention.

Best story was 11th grade history class.   Standing in front of the entire class to read with him at  full attention.  Let's just say no one heard a word I was saying.
   
Sometimes you just have to smile and roll with the punches.  It's all natural and nothing to be embarrassed about.  Our bodies are wonderful things to discover.  :-)

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