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The girl in the pictures is not the girl you will see at the door. Not close not even the same race. I retreated as soon as I steped into the apt. and saw what was behind the door. I attempted to post this Saturday obviously to much detail. I would suggest it might not be what would want to meet.

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Steelhand1415 reads

A pm suggested a bit more detail. Right after this encounter I posted on the board. It never made it, probably rejected. As I stepped inside I saw that it was not the provider pictured. I said this is not what I was expecting,and turned to leave. She tried to lock me into the apt. and grabbed for my wallet and cell phone. In the ensuing struggle she grabbed my shirt trying to rip it off me tearing the buttons off. I got out the door as she was screaming she had an agency. My phone rang as I got in my car, she said she had my license number and would be calling my wife. Moments later I received another call claiming it was the agency and they had a video of me and would post it on you tube.
I did Tineye,and googled  her phone number. Looked like the provider was traveling. There were not any reviews in any of the states the number showed up in.

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Derpdydoo1239 reads

2 seconds of checking with the Googler would have shown that the pics belong to a model and a look of the phone number shows the same name with different pics in a different ad.

Sorry dude had a bad time and glad he warned others, but theres too many red flags that I'd ever call this one.

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whenican571020 reads

I've never learned how to Google or Tineye a pic. Sounds like a nice skill to learn.  As far as my own hobbying, I've never met a provider that I didn't first research on TER. I'm to nieve to just jump at a provider on BP. I trust in what other hobbiers have to say about their time spent with the provider and go from there. I feel safest that way. Just my way of thinking.

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MisstraKnowItAll1060 reads

Pretty much by definition, TOFTT'er aren't doing their homework. Reading about this experience might help a few of them realize that.

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Steelhand696 reads

Ok, as it is obvious I am willing to take the shots. I posted to help protect others that are as ignorant as I am. On another level I was hoping for a deeper discussion, in retrospect I can see the errors as well. I made some wrong conclusions about what I saw when I googled her number and did a TinEye on the photos, Teach us here you masters of TOFTT. This is a great one, Fortunately I am alive not in jail and had a great Saturday afternoon with a well reviewed provider.

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MisstraKnowItAll1230 reads

There was no need to point out and scold because it wasn't obvious to you. The red flags from homework are obvious only to those for whom it is obvious, obviously.

Some of the other posts have some useful information, but I will add another obvious red flag for your consideration. Finding out NOTHING about someone is a problem, near the top of the list.

Maybe somebody else has the time to make a consolidated list of red flags.

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Derpdydoo826 reads

TOFTT doesn't have to imply anything bad or jumping sight unseen.  Every provider with that first review had someone TOFTT good or bad.  

Someone has to be willing to make that first phone call for another to become a reviewed provider.  Pretty easy to NOT make that call when there is red flag after red flag thrown up.

PS Thanks for the pic.. Might be obvious but I LOVE BIG TITS!!! :)

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impeachable965 reads

I'm glad you are OK, and glad that you posted about the incident, but did you really think the girl in the pic was going to answer the door????

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Steelhand943 reads

ok, maybe little head had more control than I should have allowed. But often I read "way better than her pictures". So if you allow on the other hand they could be less than the pictures would you still go forward. There were a number of factors in retrospect I should have picked up on. Not a neighborhood I would have wanted to be in at night. That said on of my favorites in less than two minutes away. Black vs white I have seen women of different color but when you step into the apartment and see a trashed place with a bed in the middle of the floor and garbage all around. I could not even give you a accurate description of the girl, The alarm bells in my head went off so fast it was a fight or flight response.

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impeachable1303 reads

Just glad you're ok.

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oleoneeye1223 reads

Glad to hear you survived with little damage.  Takes guts to just turn and bail without succumbing to threats and all.  Good thing you didn't hit her or anything.  She might have been able to assert that you had assaulted her.  I have been in your shoes once.  Its pretty risky responding to an unknown incall provider working out of an apt rather than a hotel.  Just as happened with you, she had tried to block my escape but I managed to get the door back open and out of there, all the while she is blasting me with all sorts of threats, etc.  I pretended to dial 911 so she backed off (a bluff but it worked)   Just reinforces the need to use a pre-paid anonymous hobby phone.  Also good if you can park where its difficult to see which car you had used.  Whenever a provider asks me to park in a specific place, red flags go up.  

Posted By: Steelhand
A pm suggested a bit more detail. Right after this encounter I posted on the board. It never made it, probably rejected. As I stepped inside I saw that it was not the provider pictured. I said this is not what I was expecting,and turned to leave. She tried to lock me into the apt. and grabbed for my wallet and cell phone. In the ensuing struggle she grabbed my shirt trying to rip it off me tearing the buttons off. I got out the door as she was screaming she had an agency. My phone rang as I got in my car, she said she had my license number and would be calling my wife. Moments later I received another call claiming it was the agency and they had a video of me and would post it on you tube.
I did Tineye,and googled  her phone number. Looked like the provider was traveling. There were not any reviews in any of the states the number showed up in.

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MsDynamite880 reads

Agency? Well I doubt they'll be around long pulling stuff like that on gentlemen.

Posted By: Steelhand
A pm suggested a bit more detail. Right after this encounter I posted on the board. It never made it, probably rejected. As I stepped inside I saw that it was not the provider pictured. I said this is not what I was expecting,and turned to leave. She tried to lock me into the apt. and grabbed for my wallet and cell phone. In the ensuing struggle she grabbed my shirt trying to rip it off me tearing the buttons off. I got out the door as she was screaming she had an agency. My phone rang as I got in my car, she said she had my license number and would be calling my wife. Moments later I received another call claiming it was the agency and they had a video of me and would post it on you tube.
I did Tineye,and googled  her phone number. Looked like the provider was traveling. There were not any reviews in any of the states the number showed up in.

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wingman1346834 reads

for the post and the review.  I'd still be shaking in my boots.  This kind of
info is helpful to us all in my opinion.

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Spuzzer1119 reads

I never bring my wallet or cell phone, especially when meeting a new provider.  Leave them locked up in your car, hidden from sight.  I bring only the cash needed to fulfill the donation and a tip.  No sense risking a greater loss should things turn sour.

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Steelhand1060 reads

"Naive", Interesting word I would not normally use to describe myself but in this case definitely. some really good points  have been made. Don't bring cell phone in Don't bring wallet in Don't park car so that it can be seen. In this case she actually gave me a wrong address so that I would have to stop right in front, gave me 504 as house number which didn't exist and it was actually 505 across the street.
 Ask a new provider for references from known providers anyone willing to start a new thread and  help with this list? I have observed a number of ways providers use to do LE checks maybe not wise to talk about but I have been trying to pick up on them.

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StapleCenter1229 reads

....the ad is no longer posted.  What was the phone and name and description of the person so she can be avoided?

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Steelhand590 reads

Her add said Alisha 216-236-3196 my review has been approved, but when I followed the Link it was gone. I had a PM and was told he reported the add anonymously to BP , great team effort.

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mnborn801090 reads


So would it be a bad thing to call some of these rip off providers and schedule an outcall to a mystery location just to waste their time and maybe make them move on?  

Related Link: They probably moved to the next city on their list...

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vorlon1042 reads

Related Link: The profile

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