Maybe you're right and "ranting" isn't the best description for your post.  I only called it "ranting" because I thought the term "gibberish" was too negative.

Given that extensive background and history that you cited elsewhere in this thread, I'm very surprised that you aren't more skilled at getting a man to do something you want him to do, even if he doesn't want to do it.

not compromise your safety for some high roller wannabe.

If a guy is not comfortable with your screening standards and the info he is willing to share, he will simply move on to another provider.

As long as you are open to reviews, some will write one eventually. You have to be patient, guys are being extra cautious justifiably.

If you are getting too many calls with guys who want to just "talk," consider taking your phone number out of your ads and going email only. Once a guy passes your screening standards and a tentative appointment is set, then you may go ahead and share your phone number. It might also give you a chance to better screen potential clients.

OK, so I get calls from men who wanna know-hotel or home, I 99.5% stick to wait n see, DISCRETION, I don't know who you are calling me, Vice or a psycho/worse case scenarios.
NEXT REVIEWS REVIEWS, how the hell am I supposed to get one when no one writes them. I've met with 5 gentlemen very good time with all but they are NOT hobbyists, they lay low. I had one hobbyist for 2 hours, if he reads this he knows who he is, the last girl before me he complained had bad breath. I cut my rate and gave more time, he adored me but didn't write a review as he said he would another too said he would and didn't. Keep in mind I have NO BAD reviews either. Oh one more and he straight out told me he keeps out of the lime light he just surfs ter and like my post and pics.
So now this guy says "well you're in a hotel I don't feel safe and you have no reviews" Excuse me but if some one is gonna roll you it don't matter where you are, hotel house- she's got a right to call police on YOU and oh yea clients are getting rolled in hotels daily no hourly/venting there. This man OBVIOUSLY knows about reviews so why is he so worried but his "pose" was more like he was trying to dangle in front of a hungry rabbit, sorry buddy I just ate filet mignon! if I screw him over hello REVIEW me!!! Tell on me. I think he's playing games.
Sorry that twit kinda ticked me off.

Fiona, you are one hot Lady!!!
If any of these gentlemen are TER members, I do not understand not writing a review. Isn't that what TER is for? When we do not share information we do a disservice to other members and to the un-reviewed provider. Everyone started with no posts and no reviews. If all hobbyist had the 'lay low" mentality there would be no need for this or any other forum.  I have not been a hobbyist that long so maybe I am missing something.
As of right now Fiona, for all I know you are a bored creative LE or maybe a hot new provider? Would be nice to know if it was the "hot new provider" and not the other.

Just so you know, some of us want to contribute badly to this community but we're NOT allowed to write reviews. Hope you understand our predicaments.

Hey guys thank you for understanding.
I DO have reviews as MELISSA KISS I've stated that several times.
I do not use the name anymore, for one I'm "grown" up now. My Melissa Kiss days I was 25 didn't know as much and was taught by well, some girls you guys wrote horrible reviews on, MINE were NOT, NONE. On SIN in Nevada I'm Jaymee of Sheri's, NV.com I'm Melissa Kiss and TER Melissa Kiss/ Crystal.
I wondered why the 2 I thought for sure would write a review didn't and maybe I'm a weirdo but I don't think they wanted anyone to see me. The one guy was a total gentleman, they both were but yes 1 was totally manipulating my time, 2 hours at a one hour cut rate. Maybe he didn't wanna write me a review cause I didn't sit and keep listening to him talk, after missing another appointment. Keep in mind my past hourly rate I was w/ him 2 hours and cut the rate. I feel he totally took advantage of my kindness and I hope he reads this and I believe in karma so haha that is why he ends up w/ girls who stink.
I'll tell you, I am NOW an escort, not a "prostitute" as the sale of sex is illegal but not in Nevada at The Ranches, I worked at The Mustang, Wild Horse, Sagebrush, BunnyRanch 1&2 and The Pussy Cat Ranch oh and Sheri's. Melissa Kiss, Jaymee and Nina. There is a new Nina at the horse but the review "whoa Nina" and "Payton and Nina" is me on The WILD HORSE board. The Sage Brush even still has my old pics on it as Melissa Kiss. I changed the name cause well Melissa Kiss is sorta a childish name and I'm 30 now I'm a woman and want to present myself as such.
Anyways, hope you all have a lovely day. It's so cold!
Eric, where are you?? He can vouch for me but guess he's not around anymore. We met at The BR and since he lived so close our friendship stayed in tact here in the midwest.

You'll never know for sure, but my guess is that your ranting in this post will not be helpful to you.

it will get you a ticket to the Vikings game and a MN Wild game in January.

Ya just never know.......

Hang in there honey, the reviews will come.  

You're gorgeous.  They'll start sharing what a great time they had.

Hang in there!

Hugs,
JD

Why?

because I didn't want to embarrass you. Your pics are at least ten years old and are not very representative of how you look now. To your credit, some of the new pics that you are posting are current but when a guys sees the old ones, that's what he expecting. You told me that you looked just like your pics ("what you see is what you get" and at your price-point at the time $$$$, that's what I expected) and at the time you were only using the old pics. You are an extremely nice person and I didn't want to write a review reflecting that negativity. There were also others issues related to services provided and time spent with me. I sure that there are two sides to every issue but I didn't want to be so negative on a first review for you. I would not have recommended you to other hobyist.

I just moved back here 6 months ago and my pics were taken 1 week prior in Vegas.
I NEVER used old pictures until like 2 weeks ago I added ONE old pic up, the one in blue, 5 years old. Please compare them with the others/tooting my horn here, I look just the same.
You're the one who I was talking about earlier how you had a bad experience with the bad breath girl!!!
Idm, yep there he is people, guess if ya shake the tree a nut will fall.
I just got a pm about you from another lady, she knew exactly who you were and you did the same to her! GOTCHA

Too bad you took that as a rant. I was just being precise and stating facts to help guys understand why I do some of the things I do regarding screening and where I feel safe.
I also wanted to point out there is a few guys here who use this review thing to "barter" as I just got one  pm suggesting if I give a discount I'll get a great review. I respectfully declined.

With 33 reviews I don't think ldm has an aversion to writing them!  For whatever reason he chose to refrain from leaving a mediocre/bad review.  Pandora, sleeping dogs and cans of worms come to mind, you commented and he responded.

But he is lying and that matters. My pictures are accurate and he was booked for 1 hour not 2 and I did everything he wanted. I've been in the business 7 years so 10 yr old pics??? NOT possible. Look at my pics the only difference is camera quality NOT me.

I don't know what PM's from others are about but its a simple issue whether your pics represent you or not. They do not and aren't even close. I saw you. I didn't write a review because I didn't want to embarrass you but you have pushed the issue with your posts about why no one will review you and now by saying I'm lying. I thought that you were an enjoyable provider but I did leave feeling ripped off because the pics are not representative. I have walked out on other providers who misrepresent themselves with old pics or give ages that are off by 10 yrs or more. I don't have an unlimited budget. I like older women and just reviewed Jillian; it was very positive.

OMG you're insane. I have pictures from my personal computer I took last friday and look for your self, the only difference is camera quality period.  
Leave me alone now forget it I SAW YOU YOU SAW ME, you're- well, you- I AM FIONA IN THE PICTURES! Now we don't play well together so let's both stop, I can't control what others write here. I GUARANTEE I AM THE LOVELY LADY IN THE PICTURES. Just remember this you ARE going to lose ALL credibility. I PROMISE I AM THAT GIRL IN THE PICTURES!!! YOU CAN'T EMBARRASS ME, put your picture up that'd be a good one and do smile so we can see your lovely teeth...LOL

Thanks for playing the home version of our game.