what she means is that the mammary glands of a pregnant or recently pregnant woman don't "let down" milk until they are aggressively stimulated and a demand is established, and she is, in her almost irresistable way, encouraging us to provide that demand.  And I'm going to leap over tall buildings to help.

That's the answer to the first question.  The second question is why do I have this immovable image in my head of you as a 30 something year old man with an obsessive compulsive personality?  Wearing a raincoat.  With a moustache.  I just can't shake it.  (I may need help from the Abnormal Psychologist, but I know he's busy trying to interfere with Milan's internet access.  Get your cock out of there Ben......)