I finally got through to Ginger this afternoon, after trying sporadically for about ten days. She gave me an hour I won't soon forget, I highly recommend if you have the patience to get through.

A few words on her situation. She was apparently beaten in a recent session which freaked her out, she still carried the black and blue marks even today. As a result (although I don't understand the reasoning) she is only responding to phone calls that she picks up directly (no phone messages or e-mail messages). I would guess this is one way to make sure the voice on the other end is not the violent man again.

I think a little compassion might be in order, so maybe if you missed her earlier, you might find her, as I did, a wonderful experience. I would guess she is very new to all this.

It's always good to hear about a new lady who provides good service.  And it's a damned shame she had to run into some low life scum who assaulted her; I'm sure we can all understand why that would make her skittish.

Now, how can she make sure that doesn't happen again?

I think she should demand references. They throw some of us sometimes ... but to come on here and read she was assaulted is not acceptable.

Seriously, that's insane. Can a fellow provider or Ben or someone lend assistance or counsel?

I think the guy should being getting a push off the bridge with cement shoes!!!!

I would think a veteran provider would be best equipped to help; hopefully someone will step if they haven't already or she will seek someone out.

I am so sorry to hear of this happening! And that is why referances can be so helpful! Is there a way for Ginger to post something on this board of any info to this man as to keep us girls safe from him and this happening again? Ben, what might be allowed? A Number? I tried looking on the "black list" to see if anything was posted, but that server seems to be down, anyone have any info on that? Here is the link that I had: http://www.nationalblacklist.com/default.aspx

...my heart goes out to her. However, knowing providers as I do -- I suspect Ginger has some personal problems -- and those problems "got medieval on her ass." Most providers don't turn to this business because its their first choice. Some are desperate. Some need fast cash. Some come from a life of abuse.  Don't get caught up in their stories and their lives. They don't want to date you. They want your money. But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy an hour of sex together.

-- Modified on 3/1/2006 10:45:15 AM

there are plenty of reasons someone might have personal problems and want to blame them on something or someone else... I will take it at face value for now.. We all only know it as a rumor and there is not any first hand knowledge here.. It would help Gingers case to say something here...or for someone to speak up for her...All the women out there need to know about this guy or just make sure it happens in the backchannels...