i guess it depends on how much disposable cash you have. one dancer i know claims that she has a regular customer who pays her $k just to sit and talk in the VIP rooms.  so i would expect that her fees begin from there.  on a good night these girls make big bucks just doing lap dances, and that's what you can expect in the VIP rooms,  if you can get off being ground on this might be kind of fun. also they got big scary bouncers closely watching the VIP rooms, they really watch these girls like their little sisters.  your "worked over" custumer probably realized that he just spent a couple grand and still needed to go home and spend some quality time with his hand.   on the other hand some of these girls are gorgeous and very charming, kind of like a giesha by the minute, they can actually be fun to talk with, quite a few are students and this is really good money.  find the right girl and it can be a great but expensive time, just don't expect much more.

I would simply try to see if they are interested in "seeing you later", as opposed to paying by the minute for special VIP treatment. If you absolutely must have a dancer best to cut to the chase and if they are not interested move on to the next one. I know a lot dancers "moonlight".

I agree with everything thathas been said on this subject so far.  I love the idea of getting a very good look at a lady before I see her outside of work.  And for those I really want to see outside, I have an extra fantastic experience with them in the club just thinking about getting into that at a later time.  I have had mixed success with them outside.  The normal experience I have had is that they are quite a bit above the normal donation point.  One lady was very straight with me and said she charges what she does outside of work because knows that most of her men who she sees privately will not come in and spend lots of money anymore.  For her it was a trade off.  Either support me here in the club as you have been, or see me outside and be prepared to spend quite a bit more.  Now I must add that I have been successful with only 6 ladies so far.  One of those 6 calls me when ever she needs some new dance outfits, or a ride some place.  Then she gives me "small" favors for being available to her.

It sure is fun though.  One last thing, if you think you can go to a dance club and spend less for a lot of intimate fun than you do with any number of girls in private and not associated with dancing, you are probably wrong.  I have easily spent a grand in a club and at the end of the night I still had not been laid. then I drive home thinking of a great time I could have had with a provider for same amount and most likely, less.