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Re:SparklingJen reviews?
DJ! 2 Reviews 3282 reads
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I am curious about this too. I emailed her and she replied that her menu has not changed but, I also saw a post that said she is now way different/better than before. I'm getting mixed messages here so I'm going to wait until there is some more current history on her before I take the plunge.

I really want to see this girl be am nervous about the fact that her past reviews are so poor. Any current first hand info? I am hoping she will DFK especially.

I would not hold your breath on that one,  She has always bean a safety lady and that was NOT on the menu before and I have not seen any indication that it is now. evruthing is covered or not allowed.

DJ!3283 reads

I am curious about this too. I emailed her and she replied that her menu has not changed but, I also saw a post that said she is now way different/better than before. I'm getting mixed messages here so I'm going to wait until there is some more current history on her before I take the plunge.

Unfortunately, as many of you hobbyists' know often times poor providers will either post under a different name and give themselves sparkling reviews (No pun intended in this case.lol) or sucker some poor schmuck into doing a good review. I'm not saying this is the case, but it's been known to happen before. DJ I have seen her twice (2x to many) and after a very disappointing first time she promised that the next time would "Be better". It wasn't.....Not by a long shot.
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What a huge disservice providers like this do to themselves.  There are several providers that fall into this camp of only wanting to provide limited service but still wanting to be at $$$ price level.  I think everyone who's seen her would agree that she'd be a resonable $1.5 "nooner" type but is so overpriced at $$$ that the guys end up leaving with some bad feelings.

A couple of weeks ago I posted a long post about pricing and how the lack of a stratified price structure was bad for everyone, hobbyists and providers alike.

Sparklin Jen and Nicole James are both examples of providers that want to be at the high end of the price spectrum, but aren't open enough with their prospective clients about the limitations to their services.  They'd have a good business and good reputations at 150, but Jen at 300 and Nicole at 300x3=900 minimum...  the stage is set for the hobbyist to leave feeling really taken advantage of.

I think if some of these extremely limited gals ever had a chance to see just how emotionally and physically engaged some of our local A-list providers, and many of the travelers were, they'd immediately see the problem of charging the same prices.

I could not agree more with you OZ.  Many ladies feel just because they have the "look" it justifies a high proce point regardless of the level or quality of service.

I have seen many ladies with varying price points and levels and quality of service.  The ones I kep going back to are the one that have figured out the difference between a CUSTOMER and a CLIENT.  some ladies will never grasp this concept.

I agree with both you and Oz,

The ladies I keep going to treat me as a client vs a customer.  The difference

Customer = Short term relationship (ie that one time) with little care or regard to the individual.

Client = Long term relationship ( ie multiple visits ) with care about who you are, your likes, dislikes and engage you as an individual and not a number.

Well something like that anyway.

Just my 2 cents

Papastevie

skypilot002814 reads

I agree. More people(actually all of us) should think in terms of clients vs customer mentality. And think and act in terms of the client mentality -regardless whether we are giving or recieving a product or service.
Whether we will see that person just once or many times, it makes no difference." The Golden Rule."
Whether once or many times, that customer may down the road save your ass. Or vice versa. You can never have too many friends or allies.

TCseen2012 reads

The laws of supply and demand will also always play a big role in the pricing and menu items. So let the tides turn again and give Jen and the others the chance to make the necessary adjustments if they find they are not getting the business they want.  And talking to the ladies directly about their menu rather than badmouthing them yet again for the past (their reviews do that once and well enough to let it be) check and see for yourself if the tide has turned in the hobbyists favor now.  My hunch is that they just might have.  Whine isn't going to get much other than more whine here.  Or a great tip on a strip joint which is as useless as hangin' out on Franklin Avenue for a Playboy Playmate.

I am the kind of gal that likes to take constructive criticism. I know that I may not be for every man on the universe but give me a break! If there is something you do not like about me feel free to contact me directly and let me know.
Jen

Looked into setting up with her and exchanged some emails a while back.  Just didn't get straight answers on service level - couldn't really determine if it was even FS.  Then checked her reviews and that settled it.  She's one that has burned her bridges as far as I am concerned.

I will not reply anymore on this topic beacuse it is frustrating me to have to constantly defend myself. I am a fun person and I do care for others enough to try asnd please them. I think alot of guys are trying to take advantage of the fact that I got a few bad reviews and ask for outrageouse things in return. Also wanted to add that if you call a girl you don't know and ask for specific sexual favors I am sure all girls are going to end the conversation. I do not answer the phone, Julia does so what ever you ask her I do not know.Maybe proper phone etiquette needs to be reviewed in these cases.
Jen

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