Dear Curious,

What your SO has is probably nothing that you have given to her.  However, the possibility of an STD is something that should be taken seriously.  A rash 2 months later would usually be accompanied by swolllen lymph glands also.  My guess is that you are dealing with some guilt issues over having the lap dance.  Those issues can be quite debilitating too.  You might want to look into what is causing that.  It is possible that you could pass an STD on to your SO without having any symptoms yourself, but it is unlikely. It is also unlikely that a stripper doing a lap dance on you could pass an STD to you unless you were naked and had a break in the skin where she rubbed up against you.  The very  best way I know of to put the concern to rest is to go and be tested yourself.  Then the issue can be resolved in your guilty little mind.  Good luck!
cme

-- Modified on 8/8/2004 8:35:08 PM

There's a rash called molesculum that can be transferred easily, but you would have had a few bumps yourself.  

If you never had a rash, I think you're right in thinking it's from her new excercise program.

Thanks for your responses.

Unless it was *some* lapdance, I doubt you gave her the cooties.

I would suggest you get yourself tested first, if you come up with something, get the wife to the clinic before things start falling off on the woman.