Had an appt with Tamara last evening. Set up a few hours ahead of time. She gave me location and room number.  I had never seen her  before and reviews looked good so I was anxious to meet her.
When I arrived at the hotel two different girls were there and they said Tamara couldn't make it. The whole thing made me real nervous, thinking it might be a set up for LE or something.  I thought with the big head and left.  Anyone else have this experience?

Don't know what to tell you about this. I don't have a real high opinion of Tamara.
Sounds about par for her. Hasn't changed any.

There two sides to this incident. I talked to Tamara about 40 minutes ago and told her about this posting. She was unaware of this bait and switch allegation. She denied that there was any truth to the posting. She told me that she usually works with two other ladies at her hotel outcall locations. Apparently, this is well known among her regular clients and is mentioned in her current Eros Ad. Tamara stated that this incident took place on Thursday evening at her outcall location. Tamara further stated that she had to leave for a period of time to take her sick child to the hospital. The other two ladies were at the outcall when Rxyman arrived for his appointment. The two ladies told Tamara that this gentleman did not ask where Tamara was, when she would return or wait for her to return. He simply left the outcall location. Tamara stated to me that she does not practice bait and switch tactics. She further stated that the description of this incident that she related to me earlier this evening is the truth.
   I do not know Tamara, I have never been a client of her or of any of her associates. I simply called her to inquire about an appointment and I told her about what I had just read on the Twin Cities discussion forum. I do realize that there can be honest and different perceptions of the same incident. That does not necessarily mean that one person is right and the other is wrong.
  However, before we start making bait and switch allegations, in a public forum, which may adversely affect another person's livelihood, we should take the time to speak directly with the other person.

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I've seen Tamara twice now and both dates were just fabulous!!  One phone call to set things up, very easy to meet!

Tamera was the first for me, and she's still my go to girl.  There's always something going on, I love that -- always a variety to choose from, but she's my favorite.  

She may not have known that you meant her specifically, or something may really have come up.  I don't blame you for being concerned, but in my mind, what she's got going is the best thing out there.

I've seen Tamara many times as well as her counterparts. IMHO Tamara has easily always been the best. Others seem a bit rushed. She never has been rushed with me and has always said yes she is avail. or offers a session with someone else that she will describe (also has been right on)if she is not. I would suggest giving her another chance. One of my sessions with one of her counterparts didn't go well a 1 1/2 years  ago so I talked with her about it and she made it right with me. After your talk with her and a make up sesssion please come back to the board and make things right here. Good luck

Why could she not make a simple phone call to cancel the appointment? Seems like common sense and Consideration. And why is she sharing the details of an appointment with another hobbyist that she never even seen before? And why can't she come on here and defend herself? And why is
Ego John Whatever his name, feel the need to go to all that trouble to defend a provider he has never even seen?

I have spoken to her and when I inquired about donation, she said we could discuss it when we meet.  The only thing I have to go on is what is written in her reviews.  Can anyone respond with some sort of guideline?

Thanks!!!

First off, I have seen Tamara, many times over the
years, I have never had an issue with her, and when I have had difficulties with one of her friends, Tamera has stepped in, and made things
right for me.
Second, Tamera, does not have easy access to a
computer, thus she has no way to respond to the above issue posted here,
That's maybe why she chose to explain what happened
with the appointment, to another person,
in the interest of putting out her side of the story.
In the many years that I have been visiting
Tamera, I have been treated with respect,
Keep in mind that she does have children, and yes
last minute issues come up, As a parent myself,
I can assure you, that my children and their welfare have always come first, and I know this
to be the case for Tamera as well.
To the original poster, I would advise you to
approach Tamera, and discuss your issue with her.
I know that she will attempt to make things right.
Remember, we are dealing with a provider, who is
a person, and parent, and a provider who I feel
is a great time at a great value.
Trooper2

Well said Trooper !!  Total agreement

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I've knowen Tamara for over a decade! She has always taken good care of me. The best in fact!

myself to a classless Knownothing who has absolutely no knowledge or understanding of the incident under discussion and whose only purpose seems to be to spew venom not shed light.

For those interested in the truth, thus excluding b_unit, please PM me at john425.

BTW,the Knownothings were a 19th Century American political party noted for its members ill informed and wrongheaded opinions. Sometimes, the shoe DOES fit.

When I saw her last week I asked how her biz was since I didn't see her advertising much.  She told me she has a pretty good customer base and I can see why!  I look forward to seeing her many times more and even meeting a friend or two of hers.  Anybody have experience with her pals?

a fine, wonderful human being, caring mother and superb provder. Yes, I do know her now, I didn't when I first talked to her yesterday.

 Thanks again, Trooper.

Is this the Tamara that has worked in the past along with Tiffany of the Playhouse?  I saw a Tamara who was with Tif and think she may be the same one as in this discussion.  anyone know?

Yes, the tamera who was working with tiff, is one and the same provider

I was with another one of Tiff's friends and we were have some mechanical troubles so she called in Tam for a totally unplanned 3-way, my first and it was great.