I just wanted to say that I dont think locations of providers should be used in the reviews.  I have read recently of where certain providers are seeing clients, ie house in blaine, etc etc.  This is not good for the safety of the girls.  Remember when Erica would get upset about this??  Vaild reasons. Please guys remember this when reviewing your ladies.  You are only drawing negative attention to there incall locations.  Just my thoughts.

I think you're right.  If you're going to give locations why not just give the exact address.  It wouldn't take a brain surgeon to figure out where someone is located, just a little common sense.  But that's just my opinion.

This may be the reason most providers use hotels instead of  PRIVATE incall locations?

I think putting 'house in Blaine' may be a little much, maybe just the area like 'NW suburbs' is okay, that's the point of it so a client can find the area he's looking for. Throwing certain information around is not safe, even with the other part of reviews, I have read some reviews where they say what kind of car a provider was driving. I think some guys aren't thinking about LE, who are a threat to providers, I don't show my face on my ad for a reason, if there are 3 petite blondes in a hotel lobby they won't have a clue which one is on there way up to the room they're waiting in. Guys will get offended if a provider will not perform what he read she did with someone else. Us ladies take risks everyday, help us out a little, aren't we discreet when asked to be?? I don't mind people knowing what we did in explicit detail, a little, but whats the point of meeting a provider if you've read a porn script, and i read on here that some reviews were not posted because they were not explicit enough. I think reviews are good for business but I personally don't want everybody knowing too much, that's for them to find out. It's been brought up before, we will never have the same experiences. Some people expect more and others may happen to get more. I have a review saying I was really wham-bam thank you ma'am, I was there for a full hour, I don't know what else I could've fit in there, I took care of what I needed to in the time I had, and in a non-rushed fashion, c'mon know what i'm doing. It's unfair to us to spend an extra 20 min. of our time with a client, would you stay at work for an hour off the clock, probably not, I am sure you all check every minuete of time you are sweating for someone else. I am not saying I am a clock watcher this is just my work ethic, I get paid for my time that's the point. If I were to spend an extra 30min. with a guy and not be compensated he would expect that in future meetings, hell why not treat everyone. Sorry I guess I've just tried being too nice before and got burned. I hope my points get taken in by the people who read this and the people who are behind TER and maybe a few issues will get changed-like the 'not' juicy enough details...maybe I should bring up a suggestion I heard and we can write reviews on clients-oh girls they're shakin' in there boots!!!Joking. These are just my thoughts. Be good, play safe, and please be considerate of us hard working beauties!!

It has been suggested that we go to 2 hour minumums on first time clients.  In fact one regular has been on me about this for several months.  Guys are getting worse and worse on the "time" issue. For the most part my appts are multi hours and that is fantastic it makes for a all round experience and dosnt leave you hanging and lets face it unless you are a 20 something mexican the body just deosnt ummm.....But I am also a fan of one hours with my regulars and was thinking half hours could be intersting with them as well.
I feel very lucky because I enjoy most all of the people I have met recently  and 95% of you are very good boys about "time" but I cant tell you how DISRESPECTFUL it is to violate the time of a provider and not compensate accrodingly.  Its the five percent that can ruin a night week or even a month.  And make a privder decide its time to go to a two hour minimum.
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VERY WELL put, this has become almost epidemic I have noticed.  And it is very disrespectful, I had to kick someone out because he wanted another cup in 2 minutes when he should have been walking out the door.  I vowed not to see him again.  This is so rude, most keep a schedule that can only run smoothly if people are keeping the time in mind.  I have never been a clock watcher but if you schedule 1 hour and milk it for more, you are using your provider for free, and that is not right.  Our time is worth money remember.  I have too thought about 2 hour minimums for the same reasons.  I hope we dont have to resort to clock watching and kicking people out the door to have the time frame be respected.

I think it bullshit when girls say I will ONLY see executives and upscale gentlemn.  Some of the poorest clients are the most generous and some of the richest are the cheapest. A man who gives me of his little means much more to me than a man who gives me a sliver of his plenty. I am not impressed with status but I am with character.  What about the local hobbyist's who have the biggest hearts ever?  One gives more than half of his yearly income to a couple of his favorite providers and showers them with gifts like its their birthday EVERY time.  He decided that instead of giving up the hobby that he would take up a second job now he works from 7am to 9pm to support seeing his ladies now that just bloody breaks my heart!!!
Some men of plenty will try to get me to see them with the icnentive well I will give you XXX...I wouldnt see them for$$$$$$$$$$$$!  Its not always about the money men but when it comes to your providers time well then it is
With the number of times I have been screwed on time lately I make go to the two hour min for first time clients and I am not doing it to be a snot but to make sure I dont get screwed.

I would agree...perhaps our humble mod or whoever gets the joy of approving these can make sure that part is taken out of the reviews or at least made more general as for location.  Have a great weekend everyone.

Hi. Having had the wonderful pleasure of visiting with Catherine and Madison, I have to say that you get so much in an hour, I am not quite sure I could survive two. I also have to add that even if they don't watch the clock, I do. I never try to push beyond an hour... out of courtesy for them and concern for my schedule. I often have to get back to work. Speaking of which, I am not a wealthy man. It is difficult enough to explain cash withdrawals in the $200 to $300 range; a two-hour minimum would completely price me out of the market. As it is, I enjoy the hobby less often now because so many providers have gone to $$$. This is not a complaint, but a piggy-back onto what Catherine said. I couldn't afford a two-hour minimum and my hobbying days -- at least with lovely, reputable and top-notch providers -- would be over.

You say that you may have to go to a two hour minumums. If you spend the first 45 minutes chatting and talking and then if a session goes over an hour it is disrespectful I find a little funny. I don't think most guys plan on going way over the time limit. When you're there I don't think there is a alarm clock that is ticking. And things can happen that you just lose sense of the time. I don't think most guys carry an extra $$$ with them in case they go over the time limit. If there is a problem with time you should just let them know that you have another client and you have to get ready. If you are worried about the time you may have to spend less time chatting and more time playing.

Yes we should treat you and be treated like meat rather then getting to know eachother.  Shut up and **** thats really great.  You can find that type of girl on the corner.  GROSS

I feel just how madison does, I will try to be nice about it-even though I will make the same point...I know I come in and chit chat, can I feel you out and know you are not LE, or going to do something out of pocket. I don't know you, even if I do know you I like to know what's going on. Yea I can come in and be like 'c'mon let's go' and be out the door the same minuete you're wiping off your ****, I know you guys don't want it to be like that for the $$$ you're putting up. That's how I've always been cause that's what it's always been about, with this internet shit-that is still pretty new to me-I have changed,I try to be a little more patient, i stay the whole hour, I stay after you've been done. I know I have been good at my job since day one, if you feel like I missed something, I'm sorry, please let me know. Like I've said we will not have the same experience, I don't get it guys you need to let us know what you want I mean gfe is pretty much about what we will do sexually,correct?? I know some guys want more of a closness emotionally, it's not that it is hard to provide but let us know please, a guy can be so sweet the whole time you're there, when it's time for you to leave they are like kicking you out the door. Like I don't provide gfe because I just don't get dowm like that, what's the point it's not like were close and that just makes our 'sex' more passioniate, honey I thought I was here to f*ck, quit playin'!!!I'm just talking shit right now but seriously I don't get the games. Ladies do we play games with these guys like this?? I really don't think we do, guys just like to see how much they can really get away with with us, like the extra time thing but um...no more see how now everyone wants to start all new clients out with a 2 hour minimum!? I don't require it but I do prefer it, it gives me a chance to know a guy better gives him more time to see how much he likes me, it feels a little better a little more personal, and let's me know I'm not talking too much or like you won't have enough time. I never said I liked the fact that I was here to f*ck, I would like it to feel a little more personal. I guess i have to quit trying to figure this shit out-what a head-ache men are and they say we have mood swings and shit.....Joking...but really you guys that read these know better then to try to screw us over or to even make us upset or un-easy so why do it. Like I said ladies we need our own review section so we can know what guys are bullshit and what guys know how to act. Sorry to ramble like this I just get worked up when I get on here and feel like I have to put my two sense in. Have a good night I need to turn my computer off before I keep going. Have a good one girls!

Naw fuck it I went back and read Vipermans post,I can't be nice about that comment-hold me back Madison hold me back, it's not like ya need the whole hour anyways I'm just trying to chat with you for a while so we kill some of that whole hour I don't want to be stuck with nothing to do for 45 minuetes!! Please do not take offense to this, I love when I do my job so well it's over too fast, it's just an asshole thing for me to say, to assholes who agree with Viperman.

So I would say if you have a problem with your provider getting to know you, so she can feel more comfortable with you to make YOUR session better, please go get a blow up doll or some other toy.  Im not in this to be used and abused by men and your posting is making me ill.  This NEW KIND OF THINKING that has come around UhGGG  I would like to say that you pay for time!!  Nothing more nothing less.  If I decide in that time I want to play scrabble thats what will happen.  Im not sure some understand that most of us on here TEND TO THE ENTIRE MAN, his comfort, happiness and emotional needs are all part of it.  This is what we do.  You may not prefer that type of encounter, and there are many that will fit the bill of get in get out.  But the ones that use this board are not those types of girls.  I would feel safe in saying that you not only insulted the providers but the many hobbiests as well.

1. While I completely respect a provider’s right to run her business as she sees fit, it’s because of past threads, similar in tone (though not necessarily substance) to this one that has caused me to start seeing only the touring providers or providers based in other cities, whom I see while out of town on business. For the record, I’m both generous and considerate in every way.

2. I agree that discretion about a provider’s location is an absolute must; however, if the day should come when TER no longer allows explicit (fictional) reviews, I’ll cancel my membership at once. I depend on TER in order to be able to make well-informed decisions (and I suspect that I’m not the only one). The term YMMV is often used, and it’s only common sense to expect some variation in what is, after all, an interpersonal experience. But, if the reviews reveal any indication of a possibly significant variation in the level of service, I usually pass on that provider. The exception would be if there were compelling reasons to meet her (for example: a young newcomer, with exceptional looks and a nice, but perhaps, shy personality would certainly pique my interest even if her service level varied). Nevertheless, the high-mileage providers, who deliver consistent service again and again and again, are the ones whom I usually choose to see. Fortunately, there are many such providers, offering both consistency and good looks. Thanks to TER, I’m able to find them.

Be well everyone.

I've been away for 2 days and this seems to have snowballed.  I think Viperman should STFU.  Doesn't he know that he is paying for time only.  And that time is to be used at the providers discretion.  If you are looking for a wam bam thank you mam, you can just go over to 26th and Bloomington and get more bang for your buck so to speak.  But I'm not into crack ho's and prefer the company of a nice lady who treats you with the same respect you give her.  But that's just my opinion.

I don't have a problem with the time you you spend talking and chatting. But don't turn around and whine that you're not being compensated fairly if the session goes over 1 hour. And that you now think that you have to go to two hour minimums. Most people don't have the extra income to pay the extra $$$ to go to a 2 hour session. It's great to know you have such a interst in tending to the whole man. But I have to laugh when I see you say it is disrespectful to you if you're not fairly compensated. To me it sounds like you're not as interested in tending to the entire man but tending to his entire bank roll.

Sorry, I moderate this Board and really have nothing to do with the reviews. However, if one our ladies is uncomfortable with a city, hotel, etc, being mentioned, they can email [email protected].  By that time some or many people have already read the review. I believe that guys may want to mention areas, eg, SW suburbs but that would be about it.
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A couple months back, I had suggested a "ladies only area" of TER but that probably just isn't going to happen for a number of reasons. From what I'm reading in this thread, there's probably enough of our ladies who want a "ladies only" area. Maybe it's already there but my suggestion would be to start your own Yahoo group or something else, if you haven't already.

I'll let a bit more of this thread to continue and then it needs to go "off-line". Thanks

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This series of posts illustrates the main problem with the hobby, which is the communication/expectations of the hobbiest and provider.  I may be old-fashioned, but I have enjoyed every minute of the time I have spent communicating and connecting more with the providers I've visited and have actually been disappointed with those who have no interest in doing so with me.  For this reason I almost always book multihours with those I already know well.  They provide an relaxed, uplifting and sensual environment as well as the other pleasures and I consider that time well spent.  The hobbiests report on reviews as to whether they consider various providers GFE or not.  I think that if hobbiests are just looking for someone to bypass all verbal communication and the other (what I consider perks) of their sessions, then the hobbiest should communicate to them that is what they want and see if the provider is still interested in getting together.  This should always be a choice for both sides after all truthful expectations have been communicated.

I've been reading this thread with great interest. On one hand, I agree completely with Madison and Catherine et al, that being a pig and trying to milk extra time from a provider is rude and skinflint-ish.
On the other hand: ladies, you gotta remember that when us guys are in your thrall, we don't have a good handle on concentrating on the time. You are much more in control, and it's probably a good idea to warn your client when things are getting close to the time.

However, there are some concerns. Using that thrall to milk an extra hour out of the client is a bad idea (not that I'm suggesting anyone here would do that). And we've all had or heard of experiences where the provider charged for the hour and walked out after the first cup. Again, nobody here, but archival evidence.

Going to a two-hour minimum will cut down on your number of clients. If you are willing to take that cut, then go for it.

I believe in  this hobby both sides loses out.Clients get shorted out in time with a lady who rushes him out.And Providers get burned by clients who stay past the due time and doesnt pay for extra time.I rather not a have clock their ticking the minutes away.I usually have the same routine i go with.Like Madison said which i believe in is getting to know each other.Thats why i like to start with a backrub for me and giving back to the provider.We can sit back and relax for the first 15 minutes or so to get to know what each other likes or dislikes or see if we have anything in common.Once thats done and were very comfortable with each other we start in with the fun as they saw.Then the last 10 or 15 minutes sitting back and relaxing and talking till the hour is up.For the 1hour sessions this usually works out great.

Well my two cents is if this an occuring problem with regular clients, up the donation fee accordingly. I know there are a few people that try to take advantage of a providers time and there are a few providers that try to take the client on rushing out when there is still ample time left for cuddling etc... This is pretty much a two way street, maybe the provider needs to choose there clients a little better and and the clients choose the provider. I myself would prefer a little chatting at first to see if we connect to see if future meetings will take place. Hope this makes sense and everyone had a great weekend.

Again, excellent advice here Mr/Mrs Big_Kahuna.

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