Last night I saw this excellent provider for the first time and she is pretty new to the business and was explaining to me about a couple of her experiences where people had tried to rip her off - when we were just talking about how things were going with meeting new people.

The long and short of this story is I always carry my donation in a seperate pocket and my "walking" around cash in another. So this trusting individual took the donation and did not count it. Well it turned out to be my "walking" around money which was about a 1/3 less - she called me when I got to my car and told me I was short; at first I thought no way what is the game - but a search of my pockets found that she was 100% correct. I drove around to meet her and pay in full - in fact I was so embarrassed I gave her extra money for her troubles. A day later I am still feeling bad and called her again to apologize and to explain I was not trying to get over on her.
This e-mail is not about HER or how she decides to run her meetings; it is only about, has this ever happen (by accident) to providers or gents?
Did I do everything correct to make it up to her as I'm still feeling a little bit mortified a day later....I have always conducted myself in a respectful manner at all times with the fine ladies I have seen, but this just bothers me still????

Put your money in an envelope.Maybe a little extra for a tip.Give the donation before the fun starts and excuse yourself to the restroom,this gives her a chance to takea peek.I Always leave my "walking" around money in my vehicle.This prevents me from over spending on up sell charges,and the possibility of running into someone with sticky fingers.

As far as what happened with your latest,she'll either believe your story or won't.Not much you can do about it.

I had one occasion that happened pretty much exactly as you explained.  Stop feeling bad.  At least you did the right thing and made amends.

I had another occasion where the "gentleman" shorted me with malice of forethought, knew it, and then had the nerve to ask another provider for a reference from me.  I gave him the reference that he deserved.

Want another horror story?  The "gent" makes a 1 hour appointment (1/2 hour appointments are not on my available choices).  After 50 minutes, he got up to refresh himself.  I checked the donation, and it was short.  I mentioned this before he left the room, at which he announced that he only does 1/2 hour appointments.

The bottom line is that you did the right thing.  I'm sure that you will be more mindful in the future.

I'm sure that some guys wouldn't have done as much. Though I've never shorted a lady, intentionally or not, I did forget the tip one time, and felt terrible about it. This lady went above and beyond, and deserved a sizeable tip. I've seen her again, and taken care of it.

Years ago, I was a regular at Nite Lites (most the the older guys here will remember that really wonderful place).  Usually the fee was paid after the service, and one night I just forgot to pay the gal and left.  I got home, and about a hour later, I remembered that I forgot to leave the fee. I got back in my car, drove back to town, walked up the stairs, found my "date" and, with honest apologies, paid her.  She was so suprised and grateful that I came back, she invited me in for a great freebee.  I loved that place.

Ah,Nite Lites.Yes a great place indeed!I know there are still a few of those ladys around,wish there were more.

A few years ago I had seen a favorite of mine and she was not one to expect the donation up front and would never even acknowledge the presence of an envelope.  I had left once with the envelope in my back pocket having totally forgotten about it.  She never called but when I got home I suddenly realized my mistake and sent her a text msg.  Made up for it on my next visit to her plus some.  What a lady!

Ahhh the gold old days...
I remember when I was working there & relax o' lounge years and years ago
I made really good friends with a gal who kind of looked like vanessa williams except she was about 4'11.
I wish those places would return but in this day and age it would be very tricky.