Woodbury police ruled it as suicide.
I can't seem to quit thinking and wondering about Lisa's passing. At the time of there was a lot of talk and speculation that there was "more" than natural causesinvolved. I beleive some even alluded to there being fowl play. Did anyone ever find out for sure?
Is there a Photo of Lisa on the Review? I THINK I saw her but I'm not sure.
Woodbury police ruled it as suicide.
Morgan, thank you for clearing that up, As I had posted on another thead about how I had suppected that Lisa had attempted
to contact me one evening, (Lisa was aware of my past bouts
with depression). I feel very sad that I was unable to be of
assistance to her in her greatest time of need. I know that it
is not my responsibilty to take care of the world, But if some
people had not openned up to me during my time of need, I also
would have been another name in the obituraries. Those who are
close to me know my history. I am glad that when I asked for
help. that someone heard me and responded with love.
Trooper....
Amen to helping others when there is an opportunity to do that. Hope all is well with you!!? I'm always interested in shooting the shit, chewing the fat, solving the worlds problems, or just bullshitting....So don't be shy!
Keep the glass half full! Not on the way to being empty!!
Hangin'
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There's this fence that runs through town in the "hobby." The boys end up on one side, the girls on the other. We meet at the fence every once in a while, and man are those meetings ever memorable. But then we go back to our respective side of the fence, usually to anonymity. If you see someone across the fence that's having some kind of problem that you wish you could help out with, it's a much more complex proposition than it may sound. Usually the best thing you can do for the other party in the hobby is to mind your own business. Neither party usually benefits from any kind of digging or meddling, even if it's with good intentions. If a provider ever reached across the fence and tried to involve herself personally in my goings-on, I'd either be really pissed or really thankful, the problem being she'd have no way to know in advance which it would be.
It is tough at times like this because it serves as a reminder that, even though the meetings at the fence are so intimate and so personally valuable, they're still with someone who will usually go back to being a complete stranger just a few minutes later.
Aptly said. However, I want anonymity from my fellow hobbiests as well.
Thanks, Morgan. I would never have expected that to be the cause, from someone who seemed to have so much going for her.
That makes it a very terrible tragedy. I can't put into words how I feel about this. It bothers me when someone I have known dies. The fact that it may have been a suicide really makes me sad. I don't know anything about the family, but I wish them well. I am not normally a very religious person but I will say a prayer for her family.
All I have to say is, it is sad that someone would do this to them self but she had been a so called "provider" for at least 10 years. The line of business she chose can take a serious mental toll. Porn stars have the same issues. Porn director/actor Paul Thomas said it best in one sentence "In this business you need a healthy self esteem to do this work", and to whoever said she had alot going for her, she obviously didn`t think so or didn`t at all.
Yes, the $$$ may have been there, but big deal. Look at what has happened.
I`m sure somewhere in this picture there is drug abuse, childhood abuse and probably alot more.
I`m sure alot of you will think this is all harsh and out of line, but I`m a realist and this is what I think.
This is a painfull subject, but I have been thinking about it for weeks now. WCCO TV did a story on a Scandinavian study that found that ladies who have had breast inhancements were three times as likely to commit suicide. Why would a smart and stunningly beatifull lady such as Lisa Lee think that disfiguring her body would make her feel good about herself.
If I had to look even half as good to feel good about myself, I
would be dead allready. I have thought about suicide every day for the last 25 years, so I know a little bit about pain, self esteem and depression. Ladies if you are thinking about surgery to feel good about yourself, there is probably something eating away at your selfworth. Think, maybe even pray, about what that might be. Get help if you need it. We (the guys) look at you ladies as a work of art, made by the hand of God, 2 bags of silicon or saline can't improve upon it!
To you who have posted, I want to say thanks,
I want everyone to know that I am doing fine, I am not by any
means cured of the depression that affects me, But I am
treating the effects of it. I am doing fine,
As far as Lisa goes, Well let me put it this way, I understand
the pain and suffering that one goes through when in the pits,
I do not mean to sound as though this post is some sort of public
service advisory, But with the hope of bringing a greater
understanding of depression. cause and effect. I would like to
take this time to say that Depression is a treatable condition.
It beleived to be caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain,
It can affect anybody no matter weather they have everything
going for them in life or not. If you should see some of these
signs from someone you know, a lack of interest in things that
usually bring happiness to that person, a sudden change in
sleeping habits ( sleeping very little or sleeping more than
usual) a change in diet, always appearing down.
or speaking thoughts of death or suicide, then this person
most likly is depressed and needs proper medical attention.
thanks for your time and god bless every living soul who
responds to that person with compassion and care.
I am still walking and talking this day because of some very
caring people cared to listen to me and convince me to seek
that proper medical attention, and o yea one more thing
to look for, feelings of worthlessness, lowered self esteem.
and withdrawal from others! Maybe Lisa was or was not asking
for help, and maybe we will know more in time, But I just want
others to know that by having a greater understanding, that
you may be in the postion of helping to save someone from
death by there own hand. thanks again!
Trooper,
Thanks for the reality check. Sometimes the been there & do that does apply. I have alot of friends in the Windy City are that help keep me in check with the realities. Met some lovely sweetie from the TC area and it takes as much help as you can get sometimes.
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