THIS POST IS NOT MEANT TO BE A REFLECTION ON ANY SPECIFIC TC HOBBIESTS, OR ON THE TC SCENE IN GENERAL. JUST SOME OBSERVATIONS...
There is an old expression - "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar".

I saw a travelling girl this week. The session started a little slow. She seemed down. We chatted, I romanced her, told a few jokes, tickled her, got her to laugh a little and then had a great time. She told me that she had been having a rough time. Some of the hobbiests she had seen (she did not say they were TC men, she has been traveling the country) had been rough and cruel. Some were dirty and smelly. She was very unhappy.
Many of us desire a GFE. But doesn't it stand to reason that we would get more out of a GFE session if we acted a bit more like a BF? I have found that if I treat each session like it was a date, dress nice, be clean, be caring and even romantic, I usually have a much better time. The more I provide a BFE to the provider, the more she provides me with a memorable GFE.

I have had countless experences like this. Contrary to popular belief about me, this very much reflects the nature I approach this hobby from.
 I have seen girls, where I pay the fee and when the "fun" begins, notice the expression of discomfort or disconnectedness on their face. I'll stop and talk with them and after gaining a small level of trust find out any range of things in their "real life" that is tearing them up inside - right down to them being physically hurt vaginally, by some guy prior to me! I've ended dates and not ask for a refund, just for these reasons you listed. I've also had many wide ranging spin-off experences. I've had girls "return the favor" at a later time. Call me (on my anonymous Pre-Paid phone of course!) and ask to just hang-out, I've had some freebe all night sleep-overs, dinners out (although it would appear to be a father/daughter dinner rather than a "Date")and other extras, That have turned girls that were preforming at a 3 or 4 Level on the first encounter to 8+ after giving a little free love and respect. Granted, there are a great many girls that gold dig, manipulate, ect. to try and play on our emotions - but certainly not all!

Well said my brother, That has also been my experience. I mean it must suck to be stuck in the same hotel room for days.

Well said, compadre.

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AMEN BROTHER we need to treat them like they are our long lost love.  if they let us of course.
well said randy