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Tiger,
I agree with everything up to a point about the verification issue.  However, because I have a professional career aside from this, it makes me feel more discete to at least have a clue about whom I am meeting. Taking an afternoon off from work to meet someone who uses a pre-pay cell phone, a hushmail account and a fake name doesn't do much to make me feel safe that a client, colleague or my boss isn't going to show up at my door.

I think that there are risks in everything and that the community needs to stick together more instead of the us against them thing of late which now has us in a situation where those who know who the apparent offenders are won't say anything even when it would protect our community going forward. If someone has facts that someone is harassing them why isn't that being brought forward so the rest of us can know better who to and who not to trust?

Fast Pass girls are meeting today and we will address some of these issues and I will write more afterwards probably post tomorrow.

Try sometimes as I might to promote fun in the hobby it is very hard to keep all the threads of dissent happy.  Fast Pass is set up to try and make it fun and easy.  I do have on the sign up your work info but that is ONLY if you don’t have a reference.  I would take a reference OVER work info any day.  Many have had the membership as a complimentary service or a paid membership.  As the girls now have signed up, I wonder how many have really used it as it was meant to be used AS a protection to not have to give out your personal info ANY MORE.  If you have seen a provider then you should be using this service to verify you ONCE and then let Fast Pass give your reference.

You can have a provider sign you up, you can send your payment in verses using a credit card.  I have tried to cover all the bases so that I can protect you and yet have the girls protected on the other side.  

I don’t want to know your details or info if I don’t have to have it.  I want you to be safe, secure and above all else happy.  I try to balance both sides girls safety, your safety.  Give it a chance.  Why are you still giving work information out when you can be using a reference system?  

Chicago has RS2000 and it is a great service, that has been around for a long time and many use that and girls accept the reference system that is out of Chicago. Fast Pass is even more that just a reference system.  Social events, but with that comes a responsibility to keep the system true to both sides of the fence.  Everyone needs to know for sure that all parties are secure.

It really saddens me when I hear of stories of girls abusing the system to call you at your work or home, not sure what the end game is but blackmail really screams at me.  It just makes me ill, to hear that some of the clients had this happen to them.  Let’s put the fun back into the hobby by playing SAFE and SMART.  

Tiger,
I agree with everything up to a point about the verification issue.  However, because I have a professional career aside from this, it makes me feel more discete to at least have a clue about whom I am meeting. Taking an afternoon off from work to meet someone who uses a pre-pay cell phone, a hushmail account and a fake name doesn't do much to make me feel safe that a client, colleague or my boss isn't going to show up at my door.

I think that there are risks in everything and that the community needs to stick together more instead of the us against them thing of late which now has us in a situation where those who know who the apparent offenders are won't say anything even when it would protect our community going forward. If someone has facts that someone is harassing them why isn't that being brought forward so the rest of us can know better who to and who not to trust?

I have found that those that are able to know who the provider is that they are seeing has a good reputation have no issues with making sure you are comfortable with meeting them.  Even in FastPass it is very acceptable that guys for the ladies comfort help them be comfortable with meeting them.. No one likes a stressful situation.  

I agree with your particular situation that you are being extra careful.  As with a few others that have different lifestyles they are concerned with who they will be meeting.. it still all gets down to just use good judgement and stay safe.

I am very impressed with what you have done.  I really hope your site can become the RS2000 of Minneapolis....Congrats to you



Hey Wendy, if your Boss shows up for a session after using a fake name, Hushmail account, and a Virgin Mobil Phone... Two things come to mind.

1) Ask him for a raise :) (For the raise you are goign to give him)

2) Give him a hug and wonder how long you have secretly been working for Ben without either of you knowing :)

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