Before I get going on this message, I don't know anything about the rumors going around ......don't know, don't care.

Fear is usually caused by:
F-alse
E-vidence
A-ppearing
R-eal

Personally, I don't care one hoot about what is going on. I got into this because I wanted to meet great ladies (and I have) who love adult activities as much as I do.

I'm at a point in my life that I will live it independent of the good opinion of others. If someone finds out, they find out. If they want to judge or condemn, so be it.

Again, rumors are rumors, and fear is nothing more than your reaction to information (good or bad) or situations.

By the way, the sky is still falling in Chicken Little's world. "The future's so bright, I've got to wear shades" in mine.

THE TC MOD

There's nothing to fear, but beer itself!  Well said mister mod...I think that the main thing for everyone to keep in mind is to just consider the full picture and not let good intentioned warnings put any of us into extreme paranoia.  Warnings aren't there as a scare tactic, just to gently remind people that they need to always play safe.  

i totaly i agree you have to live your life to the fullest, or live it large and stay in charge.

I agree with what you have said also. I am at a point in my life
where I choose to seek that which makes me happy and content,
I choose this kind of life so that I could meet some great gals
and I have, I really do not care about someone else making
a judgement upon my lifestyle based upon the way they beleive.
and as far as fear goes I have had more than enough fear in my
life to last the rest of my life, I choose to be cautious due
to common sense and past experience and to remain as safe as
I can, but I do not intend on letting fear be the ruling factor
in my life, remember nothing ventured and then nothing has been
gained!

There are folks who do have more to lose, and have reason to be cautious. Many of the ladies could be forced into vacations at a not-so-relaxing Greybar Resort, and many of the guys could have their lives rent asunder by the mere presence of LE types in their lives (wives tend to ask questions about things like that).

However, there are some of the more established ladies and gentlemen who have proven track records. Maybe we-uns should try and make up for the potential slack by making a point to see some of our old friends for some relaxing and fun times.

I agree, but being cautious gained me my first bad review on the "other board." I am still simmering because it is so unfair. Lately, I have been 'jumpy' which has me questioning the pros and cons of "the biz" for lack of a better term. I love my work, but if being cautious gets me accusations of being "unstable" and "drugged out" I wonder if it is all worth it?

LisaMN

I happened to read about the bad review that you received on the
other board. without wanting to push your buttons I would like to
know which Lisa are you on the eros ad? are you the red headed
independent or are you the one with the agency?  trooper

Redhead Lisa.....Probably will not be around much longer. Sick of the BS. This work is supposed to be fun; not give me a migraine. Very bad day...Electrocuted(mildly) at 12:14am, followed by 6am wake-up to crashed (dead) computer, had to buy new laptop, sat in boring seminar all day, sales guy tries to sell me scratched laptop for 1400$$$$$!!!, have to be up again at 6am 9(to crabby tosleep), and I was able to read that I am an unstable, drug addict.Hopefully, my week will get better and be filled with my favorite activity

Lisa

lisa got to think of all the good times you have had  spending with us clients. you have to remmember there is always a few bad apples that want ruin for the ones who really would love and those who have enjoyed your companionship. hope you have a great rest of the week

Hey Lisa,

Sorry to hear about (and read) your bad review-- but you also have to consider the source. Frankly I get suspicious of a lady that has no bad reviews at all-- everyone has a bad day once in a while, or someone that they just don't "click" with.

The other thing to keep in mind is that caution can be a good thing. When something seems wrong, it's almost always better to err on the side of caution. Better to get a bad review than spend a night or two in a cold room with a combination drinking fountain/toilet.

Lisa now that I am aware of which provider that you are let me
say this, I have not had the pleasure of meeting you, but if this
helps you feel better I have read two great reviews about you on
that other board, I did leave a message with you this past weekend with the hope that I could talk to you about an appointment, but I never heard back from you, not a big deal
cause I know you got a life too. I am sorry to have read about
the bad review that you got and I would not read to much into it
because you have taken the time to come on board and respond to
that persons statements. dontletlife get you down to much
you are a very pretty lady and I would like to talk to you
about what GFE means to you and see if we might click.
and of course if you are not being treated with respect by a
client then I stand behind you 100% in your actions toward him.
that you got up and left says  o.k. you are only human and
if your not comfortable with a situation you have to go with your
gut feeling, and any fair minded person should be able to
understand that you have to take care of No. 1 yourself!
so Lisa don't let that one review trash your self esteem.
and Hey no matter what you should deceide to do, I wish you the
best! have a great day sweetie.     trooper

well put big kahuna

Lisa,  I wouldn't pay too much attention to that guys' one line,  'drive-by' post on the other board.   I'm allways skeptical of people who go 'bashing' and fail to go into any details.  Sounds like he is unexperienced with the hobby (not picking up cues).  Many people here seem to have great things to say about you and this is a "quality" community.  Take care and love to meet ya sometime.

thebruha

Hi Lisa, Please don't worry about a single post from a single moron.  Unfortunately they're everywhere in every profession and every neighborhood.  I know what a sweetheart you are as do most of the decent folk around here.  Caution is good and it sounds like you did exactly the right thing.

I wanted to reply to your posts on the other board but when I didn't renew my paid membership after all the mess I'm either banned or they simply screwed up my ID.

Take care,

Launce


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Re:Feeling much better

Thanks for all of your nice comments. I guess I was just going through first bad review shell shock. Kahuana is so right about all of having the occassional bad day (we are human beings), but I really do try and not have to many "bad days." I guess the bottom line is that I can't please all of the people all of the time. I just can't believe how bad this guy has it out for me. It is not like he was out anything, and I was there trying to clue him in for 20 minutes!!!!! Anyway, I am having a much better day, and thank you all for being so nice. By the way, it looks like the other girl "Allison" has had some nice reviewws too.

Lisa

Re:Feeling much better

I can't post on the other board either where he is complaining about your tattoo's.  Just want you to know, tattoos are not a bad thing.