Of course. I used to be married!

Morgan again very astute of you to see this. Yes that's a very good question and real life topic.  Which is why the rating system used here to measure our providers performance applies universally across the board.  Once you apply a standard rating system to access performance, the results speak (being purely objective of course) for themselfs. In fact I've actually used this system with my SO and she hasn't graded well.  If she's pulling four and fives over a six month window when she once was a consistant nine then there's alot of room for improvement.

Yes I have - I should have read the reviews a little more carefully.

Here's the funny part. She hinted that the next time I saw her, it would be better. Yes, I fell for it.

One huge positive came out of seeing her again - she suggested the name of a lady I might like to see.

By the way - I did not review the "DFE."



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Absolutely.  In fact, some years ago, before the internet, TER and the communication that goes on now, DFEs were more the rule than the exception.  I believe this is largely because the environment was so radically different:  providers got into the business because the had to, not because they wanted to; there was considerably more stigma involved; and everything was cloaked in secrecy with LE hovering above, around and in the sheets.  The "fresh air" of the internet has (a) made it possible for a provider to choose to go into business without remotely the risk that used to exist; (b) created competition.  As the previous posts point out, who's going to go to someone who provides a DFE?  

Now, to carry it to the next level, let me ask this question:  Yes, there's a DFE in terms of physical response, but haven't we also had DFE's in terms of the mental or emotional response of the provider.  I'm not suggesting that every provider should give a GFE -- hell, no.  But if I ask a question or try to make conversation about something -- the Twins, the weather, the ontological proof of God -- I expect some kind of response and a bit of an effort to be civil.  Some providers, with a get-it-done-over and out attitude, bother me more than the physical DFE experience.  

What do others think?  

(P.S., the bit about the proof of God was a joke.)

You guys aren't the only ones to experience DFE's.  I remember this one client I used to see semi-regularly.  Extremely good looking - almost looked like a Ken doll.  He was a doctor, single, had boocoo $$, and very posh penthouse in a beautiful high-rise.  Just one problem - he was a DFE!!  He laid there on his back, would fold his hands across his chest, and I always had to get on top. His eyes were pursed shut, not one peep out of his mouth, and he wouldn't even make a breathing sound.  The only way that I knew he had an orgasm was his eyes would open.  The entire date would be very one-sided too, he didn't talk much more than a "uh huh" or "ok", and you know me, sometimes I won't shut up!  At first I thought it was something I was doing, but he kept seeing me, so I guess it wasn't.  

So, I can sympathize with you guys on all the levels that you mentioned.