Been reading reviews on TER for the first time, it appears there are 2 distinct catogories of providers:  those that allow fluid exchange (DFK, DATY, BBBJ, etc.) and those that don't.

Just wondering about the providers that do DFK and the like. If the provider has been in contact with clients who may have been in contact with other providers with other clients, etc.. aren't the risks to catching a STD increased despite covering for the main event?  Is it worth it?  Respectfully curious..

some operate under the assumption that the high price $300 or up elimnates the low lifes or disease carriers.

even under that assumption you're playing russian roloutte with some of the ladies who are exposing themselves to body fluids of  100's of men each year who may carry god knows what.

getting busted is much less likely then getting crabs or worse. I had a well know local provider tell mw about her vacation this summer where she jumped several men in 3rd world countries during her one month of travel.

can you imagine the level of STD understanding in parts of eastern europe? The puss filled pimple on her leg near her pussy was enough for me to pass up a quick pop and rethink my ways

what you really want to know is, IF a prodvider contacted a disease would she post online a warning or would she notify the men she had had sex with recently? any providiers care to comment on your policy concerning this question?

5 years ago I caught a case of the crabs from a local russian provider. when I approached her with the "evidence" she claimed innocence until I pointed out her habit of wearing her teenage daughters clothing could pass the little critters along.

luckily my frigid wife was not close enough to me to pick any up. A better alternative to the hobby is crusing the numerous web boards of married women who are looking for action on the side. the potential of getting something nasty is much lower. plus the sex is free!

I do often wonder about such things, but as it is I have to admit that I am a sucker for DFK, but if its true that I could
hook up with some married women as you have pointed out then I
would need some more detailed info about these websites that you
are talking about

I too need this information you speak of

I have a question about all of these hot, sexy married woman who are just looking to give it away? If they are out there, then why are providers so busy? If it sounds to good to be true; it usually is. It sounds to me like one of those chat lines where the girl claims to be so hot,and then you actually see the package, and she is hideous. Also, doesn't anybody worry about getting a visit from a crazed, jealous husband or boyfriend? And just on a final note, any woman or man who is advertising on the Internet that they just want to have sex with numerous people (provider or not) is a risk for STD!!!! I would like to here follow-up from guys who meet these married women just looking to give it up. What did they look like? Also, think about it guys, is sex with any woman ever really free? : )Last but not least, davegaebert, my post is definitely not to say that your posting is not accurate, but maybe you are just so hot and sexy that any woman would throw herself at you ; )

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This is a very serious matter that is enought to make anyone stomach just fall.  Thankfully when we cover guys sometimes for bjs ect they are always very kool about it.  This happens to have been a topic of the moment at least between madison and myself since the TER poll.  
We go through LE anxiety yes but the STD anxiety is sometimes more than what we can bear.  As most of you know I was backpacking this summer in Europe and got a boil around  my panty line/butt area but my doctor cultured it and found no traces of anthing except some bacteria so I went ot he dermatologist(what a bill)  she just said it was from my AREI backpacker panites and lots of walking and chafing from the heat.  Makes me rethink those AREI 365 days backpacker undergarments..heee  
The thing with STD's is that it is a lifetime thing and for those of us not lifers in this industry it makes us question is it worth it??  Go and read the poll results NOW!  
Some of you may have experienced this but I had tremdous respect for other cultures becasue in the few boyfriends that I have met very serious about protection unlike the attitudes you will find here in the midwest.  I respect the fact that other cultures are quick to grab the protection.  I think its interesting that there is this sterotype that other countries are not educated whe nth emost educated country is full of people who dont take the threat seriously.

I too wonder what these sights of unsatisfied married women might be

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Good advice and makes sense.  Could you email me with info on the local boards that you are referring to?  I would love to check them out.