It just might be me but my privacy - particularly when it comes to this hobby - is very important.  The more people who know about it, the more likely it'll get out.

You'll probably want to keep this hobby secret, too.  How would you feel if one or two of your co-workers asked you about it?  How will the women you work with feel if they find out?

She'd probably prefer keeping the secret ID going, too.  I mean, if one of her co-workers knows what she does on the side, how many more do?  How much hassle - real and feared - would she face at work?

Keep this secret to yourself.  She probably has something going on behind the scenes, something requiring some serious scratch, and potentially losing her day job could screw things up.

if you both have the need for secrecy, sounds like a standoff and a real rush

It's too risky.  Hell I'd panic if I ran into a provider at a bar or something.  Coworker is too risky.  You'll probably feel awkward and definitely feel tempted to share this juicy tidbit with somebody.  How are you going to keep a straight face in the office?

Come on, this is what we all want. To do the neighbor's wife, the boss's secretary, the UPS girl (yeah ours is really hot).  We all fantasize that the attractive milf in the cubicle next to us is actually a nimpho and probably doesn't wear any panties under that dress.

Is your girl married?  That's even hotter. I would do it in a heartbeat.  There's actually less risk than the providers who insist on verification of your employment, who call you back at your office phone number to verify you. If it works, you have a symbiotic relationship going - you share a secret that neither has a motivation for outing.  The downsides are: 1) she will eventually stop seeing you, 2) she freaks out and quits her job out of fear and its your fault (unlikely) 3) she's also doing her boss and has him/her get you fired 4) she's got less to lose than you and decides to blackmail you.  

But I would still do it.  If you don't its gonna eat you up wondering.  An alternative might be to have a friend check her out first.  PM me - I'll be happy to be your point man.  

Something like this actually happend to me a few years back when I ran an branch of a former employer in Florida.  I ran across an ad in the local night life paper for escort services.  This publication allows biz card size photo ads.  There was my admin assistant with her face hidden by her hair. (I knew from a tattoo she forgot to hide)  Now what to do huh?  In this case I knew a lot about her - she was going to school and holding down a full-time job.  It was well known that she was bi-sexual as well.  I decided to let hew know that I knew.  She was first embarrassed but I assured her it would stay a secret.  I also learned she was doing it to make an extra $500 a month to cover her tuition.  I made a deal with her for the $500 and she became my exclusive mistress for a year.  Even had a couple of threesomes with her girlfriends.  We had fun in the office after the place was closed for the evening as well.  How many of you can play boss/secretary looking at the view out your 10'th floor window while she gives you a blow job or have her spreadeagled on your desk while you munch below her fabulously blonde and well manicured bush.

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This discussion seems like a good one for The Erotic Highway.  Love Goddess and some of the posters could probably give you some good advice on this matter.