Well all I heard from "Menaje", not an apology however. I thought I would share it with the board.


"I realy could care less because you have never seen me so you can post all of the reviews that you would like. If your story added up then maybe you would of gotton to see me but maybe you should spend a little more time with your wife and family and less time trying to pay girls for sex with you. All of the reviews that I have are real so don't be mad that you just never got a chance to taste this."


Such venom! you'd think she was the one to drive from Mankato to Minneapolis for a no show!

First of all thanks for the apology! very professional.

Second, I'm not married. And what would that have to do with standing someone up? I thought she was a provider not some morality judge.

I hope this helps out the next guy.

Thanks for all your support, if any of you get to Phoenix I'll show you some responsible providers. I am mostly on the TBD board.

MH

... take her fine advice about spending more time with their wives and families!

Jesus, what a hypocrite! If guy weren't willing to "pay girls for sex with [them]," she would be out of a job. What an unpleasant attitude.

Nothin' personal dude, but seems to me that you didn't need to air your dirty laundry about her response.  You already did enough service to your fellow TER's in stating about the no show.  So, my two cents are to either drop it or deal with it off the board.  Peace!

Hey bud.  Hope the weekend is a good one for ya out there.  Question for you in response to the topic above...did Menaje say that to you?  Seems to me an unhappy client is stating that it was said to him...which may or may not be true.  Bottom line is that he doesn't need to try and drive down her popularity further by posting that.  He already made his point below.  I still have confidence in the lady and will give her the benefit of a doubt.  My dealings with her have been pleasant.  Enjoy your weekend!

... that the no-show was one "data point," and Menaje's rude and unapologetic response was a brand new one. A no-show / no-call is bad enough, but there could have been a plausible explanation for it.

Instead, there is no explanation, no apology, and a hypocritical suggestion to "spend more time with his wife and family."

I have no doubt that her reviews are valid, or at least most of them are, but the reviews are for WHEN SHE SHOWS UP. I have been stood up a few times in the past by other Ladies, and they were always Ladies that had great reviews. Problem is, it doesn't matter how good she is if she doesn't show.

And the nasty 'tude on top of that is well worth a follow-up report, IMHO.

I guess we will simply have to agree to disagree on that point.  I personally don't feel it needs to be on the board.  Actually neither point did...it should be in the reviews area.    Ciao!

I personally believe the Menaje's response, if accurate, is good information for other clients.  It is pretty clear it comes from a busy person who doesn't need to worry about generating a client base.  Oh well, I have noticed that karma can be a REAL asskicker in this bidness.

I would much rather NOT see someone with that kind of attitude.

I agree with SNL, the event has been over with and one has been taken for the team.  Lets think about the big picture. Many more providers out there with stellar reputations and service, as well as perhaps Menaje' just didn't want to see the dude for reasons that are plain to see or maybe not so plain to the nekkid eye. Take it off the board and move on amigo.

I hear ya and simply take the other view because I have seen so many false posts and reviews that I am more apt to take the lady's side in this case.  And I still believe that what was posted in both cases belong in the reviews area rather than the discussion board.  Seems to me that's the area that the members gather their information for making the call to get together and what the members pay the dues to see.  But then again, maybe I'm just suffering from male PMS this weekend, lol.  Later dudes and dudettes.

It can not be posted in the review section because there was no meeting.

Now there was actually two instances with her. The first being the fact that she did not show up. The second was the follow up letter to me stating that she "could realy care less". When a person treats another with respect and consideration and then the other party responds in the mentioned manner, I think others should know. I know I would.

Hope that humidity up ther is gone. That stuff was nasty last week.

Yeah, in Phoenix, it's a hunnert 'n' f***ing FIFTEEN degrees, but at least it's a DRY heat!  

I'm with you 100%, MH - her response was indeed an additional fact of use to us. The no-show was a warning flag, but the note she sent is a big red stop sign for me.

Oh sure, confuse me with the facts now! hehehehe

Point conceded on the no show equals no review.  I will go check if the humdity removed my last functioning brain cells.  Enjoy the dry heat out your way. Would take that kind of heat anytime.  Lived out there 5 years and loved it...hated to have to move on.  

And, as far as this topic goes, I will move on again too.

I have not posted on this board before for personal reasons. However, I have had the pleasure of seeing Menaje on several occasions and have found her delightful. A class act. If she no-showed on someone I would assume she had a good reason. Look in the mirror! Now let's forget it.

Ya know, most people post on here with out any slams to other hobbyists. "look in the mirror" LOL. Funny I did not see your review listed for her on TER! So much for your integrity.

Seriously, I know most the gent's on this thread, including Nylra.  He's far from lacking integrity.  

They're just sticking up for a provider they like and respect.  I'm sure you've seen this happen before Muff.  No one is perfect.  You were wronged and I think it's been noted.

"Come back soon ya hear!" Just my .01 of a penny

btw: if anyone has a mirror, they should look into it while bent over preferably being thwap'd by someone they love :P

The first part of nylra's post was:

"I have not posted on this board before for personal reasons. However, I have had the pleasure of seeing Menaje on several occasions and have found her delightful. A class act."

That is just what you said - sticking up for a provider he had good experience with. And I agree - that is a perfectly reasonable thing to do. It is a contrary observation to muffhunter's, based on nylra's own experience. It is from the accumulation of such reports that our overall impressions of a Lady are formed.

However, the second part of nylra's post was:

" ... If she no-showed on someone I would assume she had a good reason. Look in the mirror! ... "

That implies that muffhunter was somehow to blame for the problem. I don't think that nylra has any basis for making that claim, and in muffhunter's shoes, I would see it as insulting and inflammatory.

By contrast, greeneyes took a contrary view on another facet of the thread, but without taking an accusatory approach. I don't happen to agree with him, but I understand and respect his position, and feel that he presented it in a way that leads to valuable dialog rather than pointless acrimony.

Menaje has chosen not to respond.  I'm guessing there are two sides to this story, but it's none of my business.  

What Nylra said was honorable.  Maybe a bit emotional, but many take this hobby emotionally. That doesn't mean he isn't a well liked hobbyist.  Just vouching/sticking up for a friend.  

I'm not saying our guest shouldn't be upset.  I'm just saying enough already. Menaje certainly doesn't deserve all this, agree?

I agree with Misty, usually Minnesotans only whine this much when the Packers open a can of whup-ass on the Vi-Queens!!!

oooh oooh...I can do pointless acrimony....can I huh, huh can I?  hehehehe

The Pack better get ready for artificial turf...the few times this season they can keep their cheerleaders from grazing at halftime.  :P

I know it was a joke, but the Packers don't have cheerleaders.

Why do you feel the need to pick apart each and every poster and point out what you think a person's meaning is? Loosen up and spend some time off of the computer.  This thread didn't have to get this long.

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