"Asshole!"  This happened last year to a provider I know pretty well, a real sweetheart of a lady.  I happened to ask her about it, because I know her boundaries (or thought I did) and was surprised when I saw the review.  She asked me what the acronym used in the review for the alleged act means--I told her, and she got really upset.  Turns out it was the second time such a thing had happened to her in the space of a few days.  She said she was wondering why she started getting lots of emails inquiring about that "service"... which is way outside her boundaries.  Unfortunately, in this case, the perpetrator never fixed the review.  

say "clueless"....  and "dangerous".... especially if they don't fix it!!!!!    Fixing it.... well, then, it is a misunderstanding most likely and forgivable.

If he corrected the review he may have been exaggerating his experiance or just been unaware what really happened to him, some ladies are just so overwhelmingly good you don't even really know what happened to you. Could be unaware his review may cause problems for a provider he truely enjoyed. May be an ass that figured he messed with the wrong lady and it was in his best interest to correct it. I prefer to think the best of people but I've been proven wrong many times before.

ad thing is the provider is at the mercy of the unaware individual client who may be out of town and simply made a mistake (granted - not a well thought out thing to do).  

douchebag, fucktard and dicksmack!

I will discount a review that goes against the grain.  But, that doesn't mean I'll call it a fabrication, unless there are other details that seem off.  Describing the location incorrectly or perhaps other clues.  But, being the recipient of a lady who offers me FS and most will be lucky to get a HE.  I know if i were ever stupid enough to post about it she'd get nothing but trouble.  I just get to smile and laugh with every new review that says she offered DIY at best.

Same story here. I NEVER post about FS providers in the AMP realm.

That he fixed the review means it might have been a mistake on his part.  I've heard of more than a few instances where a guy was getting a CBJ that was so good that he thought it was BBBJ.

Would you expect anything else from me?

First, there's a question whether the description was innocent or not...if the provider's conduct was a departure from an accurate profile, then the reviewer should confirm with her that he can portray that in the review.  Perhaps he thinks he's getting a BBBJ when it's not, and he's not aware of it for some reason....if he doesn't check, then he's guilty.

Knotsaway......Several posts down you admitted you let a provider edit your own review of her.  On the surface that seemed rather 'whiteknightish' of you to say the least.  I then checked out some of the reviews you had written and decided that you seemed to be pretty honest in what you wrote. So maybe, without knowing the specifics of this case, we owe this reviewer the benefit of the doubt.

Posted By: knotsaway

"Asshole!"  This happened last year to a provider I know pretty well, a real sweetheart of a lady.  I happened to ask her about it, because I know her boundaries (or thought I did) and was surprised when I saw the review.  She asked me what the acronym used in the review for the alleged act means--I told her, and she got really upset.  Turns out it was the second time such a thing had happened to her in the space of a few days.  She said she was wondering why she started getting lots of emails inquiring about that "service"... which is way outside her boundaries.  Unfortunately, in this case, the perpetrator never fixed the review.    
   
 Beyond that, I often see reviews that contain fabrications.  How do I know?  Because I know the ladies being reviewed, and know what their boundaries are.  
   
 One thing hobbyists can do for ladies they know well and have a close relationship with... watch their backs.  I've found some of them don't read their reviews that closely, or don't read them right away.  If I see something in a review for such a lady that looks suspicious, I alert her about it via her preferred contact channel.  I know that some providers look out for each other in this way also.  If we all look out for each other, the hobby will be a lot more fun.  

Inconsiderate..braggart..one in the same..

It would be hard to call if its not mentioned what said activity was that was way out of character for said provider? sorry have been away from desk for awhile. ?

... in the room, with this provider who was boiling mad and obviously very upset about what two different clients had recently written about her in their reviews.  They were totally inconsistent with all of her other reviews and with my multiple dates with her.

You are right that I was not there so the best you could do is use your own judgment. I guess I've never gotten that close to any provider.  But letting providers edit your reviews is inappropriate IMO.

Why do you think it's inappropriate to allow the subject of the review to see it before it's published?

Agree. I've done the same thing with a favorite provider. I pointed out that a recent review mentioned things she is adamant about not doing. I don't know if she followed up, but I did want to let her know that was out there.

First of all let me say that I agree with most of the nasty stuff that has been said about a guy that would do this.  When the lady contacted me with her concerns about the review I started the process with TER to let me edit it.  (they don't normally allow that) I got the OK and have changed it.  I have told the lady I am sorry and she has accepted my apology.  She told me she never thought I did it on purpose.  There were two issues in the review.  One was a poor choice of words on my part.  Even when I proof read it I didn't realize someone could take it the way they wanted, instead of the way it was meant.  The way some people took it was never mentioned in the review.  The second issue came from differences in her definition of an act and mine.  It's that simple, no need to read anything else into it.  Again my apologies to the lady.  bigdell

They harass or blackmail guys who write reviews of which the provider disagrees with.  Most providers don't do this of course but some do and I fear that generally allowing providers to see reviews before they are published would only encourage this sort of bad behavior; in fact some providers get quite insistent on guys doing exactly as you do, even to the point of wanting the guy to write the review in their presence or telling them what to say.

It's never happened to me, probably because I screen providers pretty carefully before I see them.  But if it did happen, it would only happen once.  And I'd mention the harassment or blackmail in my review, and here in the General Discussion--and name names.  I won't put up with that kind of shit from anyone.

I love the ladies and what they do for us but when I read a review I want to read his account of the session, not his account possibly influenced by what she would like said about her.

The only reason I would accept a change requested by a provider I'm reviewing is in one of those YMMV situations that you mentioned. I would never accept a change that significantly changes my take on the session.