Thanks! Good suggestions!
Is it just me or is it harder to get providers you haven’t seen before to respond to an email looking to setup an appt? Felt like it used to be that you’d get a response relative soon, now feels like I get almost no response from most providers. Are good providers being over demanded right now? Tips to get a reply?
what your standard email to a provider looks like? Are you asking explicit questions? Are you asking questions that are clearly outlined on their website? Are you providing and indication that you will provide screening information? Are you contacting providers at short notice? I mean, we can give you all the tips but until you give us some more specifics, we'll just be throwing darts aimlessly with no target.
I usually just say “Hi provider name! I saw your listing on MN erotica and TER and would love to see you sometime! Please send me more details and availability! Thanks!” I don’t usually provide references until I get a response so I don’t bombard my previous providers with requests that don’t lead to an appointment. Most listings I’m responding to don’t have much detail. I do tend to use MN erotica a lot, and maybe people aIm reaching out to are already booked for the day. Is early AM the best time to reach out?
… if you give one or two days/times you’re available. That’s a clearer indication that you’re serious. Also, asking for “more details” is ambiguous. WHAT details do you need that you couldn’t get from her ad and TER? You’re either serious about seeing her based on your research, or you’re not.
Another way to show you’re serious and interested in the provider’s safety is to mention you’re glad to provide references. Now, if the provider is clear in her ad or web site that she requires references when initially contacting her, then you should provide them if you want a response.
From what I’ve seen over the years, early AM isn’t the best time to reach out to providers, but I’m glad to be corrected on that by providers and/or assistants.
Thanks! Good suggestions!
Would you say it is inappropriate to send something along the lines of:
"I see you are visiting here on X day, would you be available for an appointment at 3:00 PM?"
Many of us mongers do have busy schedules and limited times of availability, would not a message like make that more sense?
I do not need to send an overly wordy message, nor make any commitments as far as verifying me, and therefore taking up the time of someone I do know, and have hopefully had a positive experience with, when you could simply respond "No, I am not available at that time".
I can then reply with a simple "Thank you, hopefully some other time"
If you are available, then we can proceed with the verification process and provide whatever information you like that I am willing to provide and go from there.
Why should I send you an excessively verbose message, giving more information that I my want to provide on an initial contact, if we quite simply can't even make a time arrangement work?
This is particularly true if you are trying to contact providers advertising on Minnesota Erotica. Beyond that, make sure you have checked any information the provider includes in their ads on what information they want.
You can't lump everyone who uses an advertising venue together. I advertise on ME as its where a majority of my massage business comes from. When people send me emails they get an auto response, now if they choose not to read it then they may not get a response back from me. Getting a response from a provider really just depends on how you have addressed her. You also have some ladies that prefer to only take same day appointments. If their dance card is full for the day then they may not respond to any more request and don't go back and contact previous inquiries. Without seeing what type of emails he is sending their is no way to know why he is not receiving a response.
Also if you are using a protonmail email sometimes your emails are going to a ladies spam.
Nonetheless people have been reporting problems regularly and the most common theme is they are providers who advertise on MNE. I'm sure it's not all providers who advertise there but there doesn't seem to be an easy way to tell which providers are associated with the people who operate MNE and which aren't.
Actually it appears that if they’d have a phone number, an email other then gmail, and if they have a profile in TER with and add other then Naughty Sexy and ME they most likely are not and chance are you will get a response . Some of these others use a very responsive scheduler and others are advertising because they are looking to run their own business.
You mentioned auto response and that use to be the norm when making the initial inquiring with a massage provider, you'd receive a reply with a pic and general information in minutes on how to proceed and now your not getting any information till your screened.
I have never heard that about the protonmail to spam before, but I am going to maybe agree because for a long time I have been complaining about the lack of response to the fact that even after taking Paige' s advice on what to write from a thread months ago, to just being less and less wordy in my requests, to now i just feel like a stalker, ........ I am getting still NO responses to my messages. So now to change my email to send an email would mean that any references that I do have would not know the address that they would be asked to give reference for .....catch 22 and screwed both ways with no excitement. i still would appreciate any help for an old guy looking for newbie friendly.
The ME ladies will not respond and the adultsearch seem to be all fake.
That's not what's happening to your emails, In your case all the emails are going to a scheduler first, at the Gmail address. Also, there's quite a few different Ad site's. Ask Google
Is there a day of the week that tends to be easier to schedule?
Make your first email more concrete by specifying a particular day and time. A nebulous email isn't going to ring $ signs in their eyes. I also say I'm flexible with schedule so they can counter-offer a different time or day.
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Imagine if you sent these two emails ...
1.) Dear Sir, I am interested in your product line, please send me more info.
2.) Dear Sir, I would like to buy you GIzmo #5 for $350.
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Which email would likely get a faster response?