Most at one time or another are going to display their true colors, something their ads never will!  I say keep it up, it's saved me thousands the last few years.

An a related note, I do like hearing a girls "story" when I'm with her too... Not made up bullshit she says to be entertaining, but in those rare instances when a girl will just let it all out and get real with you... There's something very "human" about those moments, when suddenly everyone is just "honest" about why they are where they are and why they do what they do...  I never talk about myself, which is why I laugh at people who threaten to expose me by paying girls I've seen to turn informant on me...  But I think it's rare for some of these younger providers to meet anyone that gives enough of a shit to hear them when they talk, or understand them with the typical generation-gap between them and their client base... I've had a lot of those "candid moments" over the years...

No matter how much budget I'd like to allocate to this hobby, it's still limited. There are so many beautiful women out here, inside and out... I simply don't need to waste time and resources on those who thrive on negativity and hatred.  This board certainly helps me sort things out... Stay positive, people. Life is amazing

It is to fish out all the BSC and man-hater providers to put on my DNS list. There have been many over the past decade I have been a member of the board.  

and we thankyou for your lack of patronage

Amen brother..eom

Believe me, I have been around for a good many years, I know all about BSC and Man Hater type providers! There is one in particular, who still reads the boards, ( UTR / Retired ? )and attempts to convince me that I am a Loser, LOL  That is a kettle calling the Pot black. If I am a loser, big fucking deal, I am not trying to impress any ladies, I just want to have a good time, great sex, and be happy! and keep it Real. Is that asking to much ?

I hear ya on that one! I have had a couple of experiences where they were genuine, sincere, and  
Human. And Fun!

I'm the same way in my provider life as well as IRL .  
The same is true on the provider side of things . I ignore the creeps .

bingo- couldn't have said it better myself.

Exactly and gents will see who they wanna see regardless of what anyone says let me use all the bad reviews I've seen a few ladies get over the years as an example.  
  I love you Derpy don't get me wrong . It's just you don't control other hobbyists .  
I love that someone PM'd me saying I lose clients every time I post... lmao because 1 they themselves have NEVER seen me personally and 2 I've had nothing but new inquiries every freaking day for years !  The exact OPPOSITE !  So, there goes their little bullying strategy...

to not see women they will not see anyway.
It costs them nothing.
Furthermore, most tantrum-artists would not get past screening for the women on this board.
   
I know that it is OK to be woman hating on this board and that it is not OK to be "man hating" which means anything less than saying "I adore your rants, tantrums, and STFUs."  
I do not understand why it is ok to tell women to STFU and not hobbyists.  Free speech and all that.  Maybe little blue pills send all the blood the big head to the little head so that it controls the  typing fingers.  Be sure to ask your doctor if you should take that medication

Was there anything anywhere in my post that told ANYONE to STFU?  And you need to check your premise.  There were no threats, veiled or otherwise, especially against anyone in particular.  Yes, I have made decisions not to see women here based on what they display in the forums and the reverse is true.  I've seen women based on how they carry themselves here.

Clapping coconuts together?  Please, we don't want to turn that group loose in here.  We'll have a never-ending barrage of MP quotes.  And then the oral sex.

I just sent this in a message to someone ,, they are my words so I will post them here because I feel it is relevant...  

You do paint with a broad brush. I beg to differ with you on your opinion of the way "most" men on this board regard the ladies of Minnesota. The providers that I consider friends tell me that by and large the men they see are respectful and among the most honorable of men they meet in day to day life. If MOST of the men you cross paths with fit the mold you have cast, perhaps you need to reevaluate who you choose to spend your time with. I do not dissagree there are many men who look down upon our lovely ladies, but in my opinion their number falls far short of a majority. Feel free to opine on why I may be wrong, if I am it wouldn't be the first time.

Posted By: xcurvycatrinax

I just sent this in a message to someone ,, they are my words so I will post them here because I feel it is relevant...  
   
 "To be honest, I hope more providers start speaking up more about bad behavior..  
 Im a feminist ,, that doesnt mean I hate men,, I hate misogyny and the idea that hobbyist think they call the shots in this industry.. so I am more than happy to engage in a healthy debate about it,, which 9 times out of 10 ends up with  a bunch of grown men acting like highschool bully jocks,, and then put down other hobbyists for disagreeing with them...  
 lets be honest shall we, they wouldnt speak to their mothers, wives, girlfriends, aunts, sisters like that.. they probably wouldnt even say those things to the face of a complete stranger who was a female..  
 So, why is it ok to speak to Escorts like that?  
 Just because we are in the profession we are doesnt mean we deserve less respect..  
 So I like to think I set an example of standing up for that ideology.. "  
   
 I take a very good look at my work before I post it and I edit it and tone it down,,  
 I know suprizing right? You get the toned down version..  
   
 And if anyone really follows and reads my posts,, they will see that I stay away from using vulgar language,, I typically stick with Douchebag, or jerk..  
 I think alot more providers need to start standing up for themselves versus acting like hobbyists themselves..  
   
 I will question any hobbyist who does not take no for an answer..  
 What hobbyists ignore is the fact that violent crimes against providers in the last 3 years has increased dramatically. The reports of abuse, viol  
 When a civvie woman I attacked, raped, abused etc, it is addressed immediately , when it happens to women in the sex industry it is snubbed.. furthermore there have been several cases where the woman not only was snubbed but then they are treated as criminals themselves..  
 We cant go to the police and say "the guy who I had an appointment with tonight for sex raped me"  
   
 Now you might you say to yourselves as hobbyists " I wouldnt never " and " Just because this or that happened doesnt mean Im one "  
   
 The problem is that your "fellow" hobbyists are, and the behavior is getting worse ,, not better..  
 And I dont care if I sound like a repetitive fucking cunt about it ,,,  
 I will put you on blast, if you cant learn the common courtesy of accepting the word NO..  
 and No I will not STFU to appease  you because you want to only address the "fun and fucking and sex and all the great things about this industry"  
   
 Most hobbyist dont think about anything other then the who, what, where and when they are going to collect their next showpiece for their review resume.. Henceforth why its referred to as "The Hobby" ..  
 Ladies are collector items ...  
   
 When you get pissed because a provider turned you down and you come on the board to beat that provider up over it , it says to me that you dont know how to accept the word no gracefully, and versus being a gentleman about it and simply moving on , you would find a way to passive aggressively brow beat a provider publicly about it.. and to me thats a form of abuse  
 Names may not be mentioned but there is always backchanneling and private messaging..  
   
 And then shaming the provider because she stood up for herself ?  
 And then shaming a hobbyist because he sticks up for her?  
   
 "You should have just kept your mouth shut" I believe is the quote I saw..  
   
 Wow..  
   
 Real Men , know how to treat a woman regardless of the job she holds,, and they are consistent across the board,,  
   
 I say again, I doubt that most of you would speak to the women in your civvie lives like this , and use your feigned sexurity web blanket to act out in a way you would never dream of acting publicly..  
 Some of you are such cowards about your bad behavior  and fear of repercussions that you go as far as to hide behind an alias ..  
 Its funny how you accuse certain providers of being haters and damaged goods,, when alot of hobbyists have some hole within themselves they cant seem to fill and use this industry as a bandaid for their lack of self esteem.. Your lives have hit a plateau and therefore you spend $150-$600 for an hour with a pretty girl who makes you feel good about yourself again, because your wife or girlfriend isnt enough , or you're lonely and in NEED of companionship and then you get to jock talk about it on a review board and show off your feigned male prowess...  
   
 And then turn around and claim we're the damaged goods ? lol  
   
 Please allow me to return that thankyou..  
 Everytime one of you hobbyists decides to put your douchebag asscap on and let it out on the boards and talks to a provider in your elitest douchebag tone, I know there are several ladies including myself who quietly put you on a DNS list and make a note about it , I know that the more of an asshole you act like on the board to others that you limit yourself as well ... I know that its a two way street..  
 And thats why some of you hide behind alias's because you know the provider pool you select from would grow much much smaller because of your jackass behavior on the boards..  
 Thats why you dont see me telling hobbyists to STFU, because the more you talk like an ape the worse you look, the worse you look , the less quality providers want to see you...  
   
 Im perfectly happy being blacklisted by a certain element of hobbyists on this board because of my attitude and how I dont play well with others,,  
 Because the very thought of having to entertain a coward for an hour literally makes my skin crawl and my stomach turn... and futhermore, as Slinky put it ,, the boys who say that are the same ones who wouldnt see me anyways, so really there are no tears to shed..  
   
 My business isnt hurt by it, because the clients who see me , like the sass  
 And because the hobby community is a very small and adolescent piece of the client pie..  
   
 Be Safe and Stay Warm...  
 Love Always,  
   
 ~Cat xoxo  
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

Posted By: Slinkydog

to not see women they will not see anyway.  
  It costs them nothing.  
  Furthermore, most tantrum-artists would not get past screening for the women on this board.  
       
  I know that it is OK to be woman hating on this board and that it is not OK to be "man hating" which means anything less than saying "I adore your rants, tantrums, and STFUs."    
  I do not understand why it is ok to tell women to STFU and not hobbyists.  Free speech and all that.  Maybe little blue pills send all the blood the big head to the little head so that it controls the  typing fingers.  Be sure to ask your doctor if you should take that medication.  
     
 

You are responding to a person who thinks the concept of reviews alone are misogynistic in their very nature.  In this case the troll prefers cake, but, she can find her own slice, as I won't be feeding her. NOM NOM NOM

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=customer%20base&SearchType=1&DayFrom=9999&DayTo=0&MessageID=85439&frmSearch=1#85439

I really don't have any argument with your OP. No question that over the years, the cumulative posts of a few ladies have created an overwhelming desire to stay as far away as possible. If I'm pretty sure my tolerance for female assertiveness exceeds yours, the basic premise remains sound. But I gotta wonder how you really feel about the male chorus that has leaped  forward to sing halleluja in response. Does it make you at all nervous that virtually all the loudest voices are hiding behind aliases?  

What an -artistic (humor, valid points)  and
provocative (telling it like it is & getting specific) post! I sir, am impressed!! =)

I actually agree with you  
And please by all means go through my post and point out where I said most...  
You see the problem is that you assume that im speaking of the majority,,  
But I guess you take away what you perceive and look for  

"And remember when I moved in you
The holy dove was moving too
And every breath we drew was Hallelujah"

Really only going to respond to one part of your post here, as I was going to do so when you tried to differentiate "hobbyists" and "clients" in a previous post of yours.. The rest of your latest post is just ignorable drivel that I've heard previously from an old gf while she was taking her Herstory and Gender Studies classes.  Which I'm sure 25 years later probably scored her a great job as a professional victim somewhere.

Never had anything good to say about Woman ? Ever ?
Gasp! He Posts under an Alias ? As usual the argument presents itself, Do tell us sir, What is your Real Legal Birth Name ? yes You bird brain, first, last and middle too! and while we are at it, throw
in your SSN as Well.

Wow, you just equated yourself as someone who writes on a bathroom stall wall..  
How proud you must be now that you have thrown yourself in with such respectable names as ..  
Thumper, DirtyJesus, Gavia, and nobodysfool ..  
Is it like boyscouts?  
Did you get that sweet little embroidered " Im a misogynist" badge to put on your sash ?  

Qualified enough to fetch me my next coffee?  

Did you read all the replies in the comments section?

You have to admit his...ehem "bareback......  bareback bareback....bareback" ehem.....stuff was pretty funny.
 And the comments about dirty Jesus seem like they could be accurate, I actually didn't even realize he called you a "certified misogynist" until I went back and re-read....but so he doesn't know you

She must not be busy and has a lot of time on her hands- I wonder why

And the feeling is mutual, I'm sure.

This is the true purpose the board serves... A place to witness the wheels come off the providers mental-wagon when they hit the 10,000-cocks swallowed mark...

The fewer clients she sees, means the cooler and more awesome she must be.