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Re: When I first started doing Incall.....
notfinnish 364 reads
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Heh! Great story...

6.9 minutes! Holy shit! That's like taking a bottle of extraordinarily fine wine and chugging it like cheap, cold beer on a hot Texas afternoon.

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so In he came.....  literally.    6.9 minutes later he was walking out the door......  wow.    

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superski1284 reads

I've been in and out of the hobby for the last few years. I been getting aquainted with the new local providers. I came across someone on TER that peaked my interest. I was verified and scheduled the date...when I showed up I realized she was someone I know, not super great friends but someone I socialize with amongst common friends a few times a year.  Is this just an incredibly rare coincidence, or has this happened to other hobbiest?  

I'd love to hear from the ladies perspective as well. I'm guessing you're a little less likely to be surprised,  assuming you prescreen.

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angieluv071025 reads

Hasn't happened to me yet, but it could have.  This is also why I don't go to a certain town, even though I know I could make money there.  Anyway, a few years back, I received several emails from a man, and I realized I had dated him several years before.  Thankfully, he had a very unique last name, and I ignored the emails. After about three or four emails they stopped, but I often thought, what if his last name wasn't so unique?  ???  

Were you uncomfortable? Did you both go through with the "date?"

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superski770 reads

Once I got past the shock...my next concern was anonymity.  Then logic started setting in, and I realized her discretion is just as important as mine. Once I got passed that I wanted to proceed with fhe date as I've always thought she was attractive.  

She admitted to knowing who I was prior to date, and thought long and hard before agreeing to see me. We talked for close to 45 mins to get her comfortable,  I provided a nice massage, some wine, and we did move forward with the date.

I felt like I needed to seduce her a little it added a level of excitement to the date. I hope she enjoyed herself...I did, I think we have an understanding,  guess I'll know if she decides to see me again.

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Pollenbroker796 reads

Better to bury the hobby side.  Tell her you respect what she's doing and that it's confidential with you, and you expect the same from her.  And that its best not to see her in the hobby.

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Portia Eden959 reads

I knew nothing about the "screening" side of this hobby...... when I opened the door of the hotel room I saw him and realized he was a former neighbor of mine....he had even done an interview of me for a school report...... and then had also hit on me a few times when he was a young 20 year old...... in various situations, to which I nicely declined.   OMG.....  so, of course He recognized me right away ...... I said, get your ass in here and promise me you wont tell Anyone.....    He says, I promise I wont say a word and THIS has been my fantasy for years!!!      

:D      so In he came.....  literally.    6.9 minutes later he was walking out the door......  wow.  

FUN!

yes, he called a few more times after that....but always very late at night.....   which was not conducive to my schedule.     :(

Do I know for sure he never told anyone?     no.      
***(But I've never heard that he did.....)   so, if YOU are reading this and you are HIM, THANK YOU for your discretion.  :)    I have mentioned the story of this a few times, but Never named you.  and Never would :)      

I'm so thankful I found out about screening, etc.  It's not a 100% guarantee you'll never run into someone you know, but it's got to be close.    

:)

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MsChayse881 reads

Both requests were declined. As a rule I simply don't mix the hobby with my civi life.

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brilove857 reads

When I first started in the hobby I didn't screen well either and one evening on an outcall I had a session with an ex coworker of mine. A young man who worked in another area but nonetheless was a coworker. I did not recognize him but he did me right away yet didnt tell me until halfway through the session. I was horrid and scared about confidentiality. I tried to end the session but he begged and said it was a huge fantasy come true as he had thought of me many times. I agreed to stay but asked him not to tell anyone ... And really at that point what could I do lol. I don't know if he has ever told anyone but I haven't heard about and he calls every once in a while around 1am (those wild young boys). I've always been asleep so haven't seen him since.  

The second was my realtor whom help with buying our house about 3 years prior. I realised i knew him from somewhere but couldnt place him but it only took me 15 min to figure it out. I'm not sure if he realized who I was but either way it was left unsaid and the session continued. For more than that reason I did not accept another appt with him.  

In these situations, both parties are vulnerable and "eyes wide shut" is the best approach. Not sure if I could continue to see someone I knew and saw in civil on a regular basis. I like the idea of having the two separate worlds. Makes it all the more exciting for the GFE experience because for that moment in time we are not "married, employees, mothers, fathers, etc" we are just together.

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superski585 reads

Great advice bri....I'm likely to keep the relationship professional if she is willing, its way more fun. I likely will avoid social gatherings with her for a while...so she doesnt feel uncomfortable.

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sens312379 reads

Posted By: brilove
For more than that reason I did not accept another appt with him.  
Are you able to say some of the other reasons? Aside from being a total ass, I'm curious what a client can do to get himself blocked by a provider.

I know one has probably blocked me based on a misunderstood text, but other than that I think I'm still accepted.

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titan90640 reads

Hot story!!
You know he HAD to tell someone!

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abugarcia1491 reads

don't know which I like more. The story or the fantasy coming true. I have some nice neighbors too. :)

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klumberg457 reads

YOU have always been my fantasy too, I just didn't realize it until I first met you!

And I've spent a hell of a lot more time with you than 6.9 minutes!

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notfinnish365 reads

Heh! Great story...

6.9 minutes! Holy shit! That's like taking a bottle of extraordinarily fine wine and chugging it like cheap, cold beer on a hot Texas afternoon.


(snip, snip, snip)

so In he came.....  literally.    6.9 minutes later he was walking out the door......  wow.    

(snip, snip, snip)

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elanmontage773 reads

and whether continuing the play or not, to just keep the lips sealed.  Keeping the lips sealed is good for the soul in this circumstance and is the only way to keep with personal integrity.

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sweetromantic563 reads

I know a few girls on here that I have been friends with for awhile and they are new to this. I emailed one and let her know I may be coming to see her (all our friends know about this and is kind of a joke). She says come in anytime but I probably never will, it would be way to wierd and probably wouldn't have much fun.

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