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Re: What's to moderate?
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He still has his panties in a wad because he's not so 'special' that the rules don't apply to him.

I don't make the rules, I just attempt to keep the discussions reasonably civil and prevent unsubstantiated attacks and posts that reveal personal information.

Perhaps he thinks I'm thin skinned enough to censor him when he makes his snarky remarks.

pfft

Anybody taken the plunge?  I see she has a couple of reviews which are good ones.  I guess she is located here but is a traveler.  She looks like a model.

Former porn starlet Tiffany Roxx.

I have to defend Tiffany.  I remember the entire nonsensical drama of a couple years ago quite well.  Her current reviews speak for themselves.  She is a beautiful young woman, with a fantastic body and solid service.  

Her mistake, back then, was being drawn into the board drama created by a few white knights.  She had a problem with a client, who complained on this board.  When she attempted to explain her situation, she was attacked, criticized,  and given all sorts of advice by men who really didn't know the entire story.  Some posters on this board have  a history of ganging up on women who come on TER to defend themselves. As proof just look at this current thread.  She hasn't come on this board and said anything, not posted a word, and one poster already wants her moderated or kept off the board.  (of course that same poster wanted me moderated for disagreeing with him. LOL) Instead of welcoming her, a few men made it so uncomfortable for her that she took her considerable talents elsewhere.

Now,  she does travel so other men in other cities can enjoy her skills.  She ran an ad or two here in the Minneapolis and already a few men with a need to be heard on this board are making waves.  Yes she travels, and I suspect that will work well for her.  And, because of the small minds of a few, the Twin Cities will miss out on some solid talent.

Thanks for the honest, level headed experienced opinion. Its nice to hear of someone that has good things to say about the girl. She truly is a beautiful girl. I can only hope that she has gained wisdom, knowledge and maturity from her bad breaks in the past.

That being said, however, her previous posts on the board are more than just a little unsettling and can be construed as hate filled hysterics. I do understand that people (Especially those new to the hobby and the boards) can be sucked into the drama that often presents itself here. I wish the girl all my best but I think, I myself will choose to spend my time with those ladies that have proven themselves to be stable over the course of their histories here.

Granted, I will be the first to admit I did not make the best decisions when entering into this hobby several years ago in 07-08. I was young, immature, and yes, I wasn't fair nor did I know any better when it came to "business" or the hobby.

I started out in adult films, realized the films weren't for me, and quit completely out of the industry. Moved back to Minnesota in 2007, and started seeing a "sugardaddy" on a regular basis. When that ended, I looked into the hobby and started (for the first time) working with an agency based out of California who told me "don't do anything physical besides a massage and dancing" and I was convinced thats all it was. Naive? yes. Ignorant? Definitely. Should I have done my research before rushing into the hobby? For sure.

Three years later, I have lots of stellar reviews (on places other than TER as well). I love to travel, and I have an established "reputation" that I work very hard to defend. Yes, I've run into some legal issues on 2 different occasions (Iowa & Indiana), but unfortunately thats a downfall that sometimes comes with this hobby (which personally, I don't think anyone in this hobby has any right to judge) and I am working on the court cases and hiring the right attorneys to get it taken care of and off my record. No, I am not going to blame anyone else for what has happened in those situations, nor will I say any names. As for the rumors that I gave a reference that lead to an arrest? Not true. I rarely give references to anyone unless I research the provider asking for them and make sure they are an established provider.  So that when I do decide to retire from the hobby, I can return to a 'normal' lifestyle with out "nose raised" suspicions getting in my way.

Long story short, YES I have made mistakes. Who is perfect? YES I am aware I'm still having to fight tooth and nail to make up for it. But Minnesota is my HOME. And if I plan on being in the hobby here, I'm going to continue to defend my reputation, keep my nose to the grindstone, and not fall into the temptation of feeding into the drama that sometimes comes along with the hobby. I love this lifestyle, and I'm not going to be run off or out of it because of mistakes in my past. I have more than proven that I've learned lessons, done my research, and am trying hard to make a difference and be a good example for other newcomers.

So what do you say? Lets make 2011 a great year! And if anyone has questions, please feel free to ask. :)

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