I was wondering what the proper etiquette is when after a hobbiest has completed his first pop, should he first excuse himself to clean up in the shower or is it acceptable to re-engage in playtime while we are still a hot mess?

I am typically a one and done type, but would like to try for a double pop before I hit my half century mark.

and let her do whatever it is she does.  Don't discuss details.  After you've established a relationship, then you can venture into discussing (second or third date) discreetly.  

The good ones quickly figure out what you have in your head and will make it happen if possible.

Either I help my friend clean up or he takes care of it himself, some guys just jump up so fast! If you look spent and are lying there, I will clean up for you It would not be wise to engage in playtime while being a hot mess, if you are using the same filled cover....... that doesn't make much sense to me. Swap that out and let it start over fresh! Let the lady you meet know that you have a goal for the session, and let her challenge herself to help you reach it!

Thanks for the input ladies. I would of course plan on changing the cover, that would be a given for me. I just wanted to make sure I do what is considered to be the norm (If there is such a thing) and not offend my partners sensibilities.

I have had in the past girlfriends that insist I take a shower immediately after consummation and other girlfriends that loved the post-coital stickiness and have jumped right back on the horse in all of our glorious dirtiness. I just wasn't sure if there was a protocol that I was not aware of when it came to providers as opposed to a SO.

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Either I help my friend clean up or he takes care of it himself, some guys just jump up so fast! If you look spent and are lying there, I will clean up for you It would not be wise to engage in playtime while being a hot mess, if you are using the same filled cover....... that doesn't make much sense to me. Swap that out and let it start over fresh! Let the lady you meet know that you have a goal for the session, and let her challenge herself to help you reach it!

I believe the proper etiquette would be for your sexy kitty, aka companion, to get you a warm wet washcloth and clean you up, for round....2, 3, 4, 5....lol....and vice versa!! Kitties love to be cleaned up too! Just suggestions for warm thoughts with wild times!! AND, btw...I love a good HOT MESS, usually!

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I like to clean him up myself with a warm wet towel with a little soap.  If he wants to get up and clean himself, that's fine but I like him to relax.
Playing again with a hot mess is not safe.

I usually get a warm was cloth & wipe my dirty boys clean!