Who is your typical client?  I am an unmarried 30 year old white guy who is decently not ugly nor fat and can get dates on my own...but I like the hobby and enjoy the taboo.  Am I a 1 out of 100 or are there plenty of guys like me out there?  If you had to describe your average client, what would their description be?  Do guys like me weird you out?  

You sound/seem pretty typical, but that's how it is on both sides; married, non, single, older, younger, etc... I'd say you're more like 1 out of 25 or so.
My average client is over 40, and half are married and half single. I'd guess that many like you can and do "normal dating" and like the chase and taboo of hobbying while the others find that more difficult and are looking for companionship, or just something specific that's hard to find in the day to day/bar/on the street-scene.

It will would be intersting to see how many hobbyist and providers will take part in this question and give honest and interesting (basic) details???

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but, most of my clients are over 50, married, average looks, and retired.   The one thing they ALL have in common........the need for compassion, understanding, and companionship.

I think it's okay for Hobbyist to reply since part of the question was who is the typical Hobbyist in terms of profile... Age, single or married, etc... The provider may not always know all the info of their clients???

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I enjoy the more "mature" gentleman for many reasons, so my ads will state 45+, although I have made a few exceptions.  My clients are either those who are single and too busy to date the traditional way, or have other reasons, or those who are married and get little physical contact/intimacy within that marriage.  

I have received a few emails from younger men asking why I "discriminate" against age.  However, this is my personal preference and my reasons are also my own.    I ask them to not take it personally, because I am sure there are many mature providers who enjoy seeing the "younger" man.

All of my regulars are very respectful, kind, and can carry on a great conversation, in addition to knowing what they are doing in bed.     Many make me laugh, and I have developed some wonderful friendships through the few years I have been here.  Mutual respect means everything to both of us.

Some like to "hobby," and some see only me and a few others and some see only me.  All make me feel very special, and I can only hope I do the same for them.

Is a man.


He can be any man. He could be your brother, your father, or your son. Your mail man, your tax man, your doctor *yes I've seen them all*.

Recently I've had more visits from gents over 40, but I have had plenty of pleasure from younger guys. I like all ages as long as they are verifiable! I'd say the % married is pretty even with the % single.... and everyone is looking for good company!


Non-typical clients include women and couples.

You are very specal!!

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I am surprised by the wide demographics of the men that I have met…..    the youngest was 21…..  the oldest…..  well, I don’t know for sure……  late 70’s maybe.  

Everyone wants to desire someone and BE desired by someone.  Regardless of their marital status or age.  I find it especially arousing when a 20 something man or even a young “thirty-something” wants to role-play different scenarios of younger man-older woman.      I don’t have a particular age preference.     Except that when I am with a much older man I have this over-whelming desire to be “daddy’s little girl”.    Oh so naughty, I know.  

As far as “why” single guys see me….  First of all, I never Ask them.  I only know because they volunteer the reasons.    (I would hate to think they think they are being judged or scrutinized for their reasons., because I don’t do that)   I meet some Very Very good-looking single guys, well built in All areas.      
 
Whether it’s a guy not wanting to deal with the drama of a regular gf , just not having the TIME to find said gf…..  or has the gf but still wants the variety without the complications - - - to the guy that is “happily” married, yet his wife just isn’t interested in intimacy any longer.  And even the guy that does get the sex, but just likes variety.

I once was enjoying a guys balls…..  Admiring them quite extensively with my tongue and mouth….and he said, “oh my god it’s been like 20 plus years since that’s been done to me.  (he’s in his 40’s)  My sincere and surprised reply came out…. “Well, wait, aren’t you married?”  He says, “That’s why I’m Here.
Wow. That told me never to assume that married guys get their balls sucked and licked during sex!

Regardless, I always assume the person I’m with is married, unless they volunteer something different to that fact.     But I don’t  literally “keep track” though…..   can you imagine after someone leaves to put a tally mark under Married or Single columns.   THAT would be weird.  

If I had to take a guess as to marital status of the guys I see…..  I’d say 81% of them are married.    And 69% of my married friends  are in their 40’s and 50’s.      
 
No, I am not weirded out by ANY single guys that see paid companions    Not at all.  

My typical average client is:   Married,  5 foot 11 inches, loves to kiss and cuddle, is respectful, considerate of my time, clean, wants discretion, likes to have a naughty girl to play with on the side.  But doesn’t want to jeopardize anything in their real life.        

Oh, Getting a pedicure right now……  so had time to type all of this.      Longest post  I’ve ever written I think!        

Right on!  If I were you, I would not assume that married guys get 80% of the "considerations" that you provide to your lucky clients!    Is it possible you don't realize what kind of wonderful world you have opened up to a lot of married guys who, as you said, lack intimacy in their marriages?  For some guys, even deep-kisses-with-feeling are beyond their reach at home.  Sad but true.  

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That all makes sense. Interesting that a 21 year old young man has ventured into the hobby. I bet that would be an interesting story as I would think the average 21 year old does not know a lot about this. The again, maybe this young man was ahead of his peers?
Then a gentleman in his late 70's! Good for that guy, I love it! Goes to show you that age is only a number and intimacy is more than just sex.
My only suggestion would be to ask your clients why they are there or what interests them. I would like to think that since they have taken the time to get verified and select the fine lady of their choice, that they have some trust in you otherwise they may be there. Also by asking could give the impression that you are interested in that person or would like to get to know them better. Some gentleman may be comfortable sharing this information or feel more connected, while others may not. The only way to know is ask.
Best part is, if they are uncomfortable, I am SURE you would have NO PROBLEM finding SOMETHING to do to make them FEEL BETTER.

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The only thing I can really say about "typical client" is...
A man in his 40's and 50's.
There's some younger and some older but for me, most of the gentlemen are from 40-59 years old.  I've met single, married, separated, thin to over weight, short to tall, smooth skin to hairy, you name it so age is the only "typical" answer.  But then again, 20 years different, is that considered typical or is it too wide of a range?

I think it would be safe to assume that the vast majority of married guys here are not getting their balls sucked at home.  Over the years I have gotten to know a few hobbyists as friends and the ones that are married are suffering pretty badly.  There's all kinds of reasons why men and women don't leave an affection-less marriage, but the number of people in that situation is not small.  My guess is that probably 80% of the married guys in the hobby are in "stay for the kids" kinds of situations, and maybe only 20% are happy but want a little variety too.  Just my opinion.  All I know for SURE is that my balls never seemed to get sucked enough ANYWHERE!    (I am pretty sure some memo was sent around to every non-provider women on the planet saying "those are supposed to be left alone".  I want to find whoever distributed the memo.  And when I do, I will throat-punch them.)I have often wondered how much of what providers are asked for is soft and cuddly and how much of it is "naughty."  For me the treasure trove is the provider that is mostly very kissy/cuddly, but who is completely at ease with the occasional crazy three-holed, hair-pullin, ball-grabbin, fuck on all the furniture thing too.  Having a lot of variety can come from seeing lots of different providers...  Or, it can come from a very versatile provider who likes to have a lot of very wide-ranging experiences.  To me, that is a BIG part of the appeal of the hobby--providers have let me share in the unbelievably broad, complex richness of their sexuality in a way that no "civie" partner ever has.