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Thanks! That pretty much answer my question.
I ran a few searches and didnt find anything, so please forgive me if this has come up in the past. I hope its not to dumb of a question
Im a newbie to the hobbie and am considering going to full service provider. I was pretty nervous during my first body to body message, to the piont where is didn't get to "full attention".... I was able to finish.... i just had to through that in there 
My question is what happens if your client can't preform?
Men, feel free to reapond if you would like...we've all had performance anxiety before.
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..........one another in different ways. Take a break. Talk. Relax. Try a massage. Cuddling/chatting time. Teasing, more playing. No judgement or pressure to perform. Sometimes there will a revival and if not, we sure had fun trying. My only wish is that HE leaves happy and satisfied and not worried about what I think. Plus I want to make sure I did everything I could to make him feel comfortable and relaxed. No worries. IT happens.
There is such a thing as stimulating conversation...and all kinds of fun adult play.
I think this is a good time to put it out there -that most providers want to be really, really sure your enjoying
Your time but without making you feel pressure.
Letting a gal know exactly what was/is making you feel good and being specific reassures a gal
It's just circumstance nothing personal..... So imagine that -while you may worry about her judgement, chances are she may worry if she's lost her touch....just saying.
Of course not me... I never worry
I think this is a good time to put it out there -that most providers want to be really, really sure your enjoying
Your time but without making you feel pressure.
Letting a gal know exactly what was/is making you feel good and being specific reassures a gal
It's just circumstance nothing personal..... So imagine that -while you may worry about her judgement, chances are she may worry if she's lost her touch....just saying.
Of course not me... I never worry
This is a very helpful thread. I am sorta new ... I've been with about fourteen providers over the last 7 weeks, all with varying levels of service. I also have had some difficulty in the plumbing department. Getting hard is almost always fine but I have only been able to orgasm less then half the time. This has been going on most of my life. It's one of the reasons that I joined this hobby. I am trying to re-train myself. I know that it's mental and not physical as I don't have this problem when alone. I always enjoy my time with the providers and have only had one BAD session. I am slowly getting better. I believe that, for me, it's all about the fear of intimacy. Also, beautiful naked women are a little intimidating. For what it's worth. Thanks for listening.