Nevertheless my two cents worth.  I really really like two ladies.  I see each on a biweekly basis more or less and rarely see another provider.  I think they really like me too.  But there is no doubt in my mind that if the $ dried up the friendship would too.  So ask yourself . . . .  Good luck with it!

........asking your question on the Provider Only Board.  Speaking only for myself, I actually married a young woman several years ago that professed her love for me and yes, she was a Provider (that I had seen) at the time.  The end was not good, but we had some fun along the way.
Let's face it; Providers and the men they see are human and emotions aren't on a switch, either on or off (with most people anyway). In general as I am sure you will be advised here, it is probably not a good thing to mix love and business, but each one has to follow their own heart.

I would add this caveat; if he is married, my advice is to STOP, because chances are that a delaration of love will have have a bad ending for you!





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Sometimes we find love in the strangest of places.  I say follow your heart.  Regret is a hard thing to get over.

Emotions are part of life, we are not in control of them and we don't know who, when, or where they will attach.  A relationship in the hobby can be very difficult to manage, that said it happens.

It is difficult situation, only you can determine the correct path. It is impossible for the gent to know if you really care or are just that good at your job as a GFE provider.  After all he is paying you to act like you're his girlfriend, he will always have the is it me or the money in question unless you tell him.  How does he feel about you, has he said anything?  Is he married,  how would he react if he knew your feelings?  Would he want to leave his wife, do you want him to leave her?

A lot of questions, hope it helps you sort it out.

While it is inevitable that chemistry or even fireworks can occur between a man and a woman in any walk of life, you have to remember that most guys are not looking for an LTR when they pay a girl for sex.  However there is a breed of hobbyist out there that is really looking for that.  You have to assess what his actual motivations are before you go too far.

Many hobbyists and providers have gone down this path, even as far as the altar.  Its rare that it happens in the first place and even more rare when it endures more than a year or so.  Its pretty hard for a guy to forget how you met and that you have probably fucked 100's of guys for money.  Its hard for women to trust a guy who was cheating on his wife and paid girls to fuck him.  Its the brutal reality.