In general, are overnights worth the investment?

... on how much you’re willing to spend for an overnight. Some guys might think nothing of “investing” a few thousand bucks on it, while others might have a much smaller budget.

I haven’t done many of these (overnights or longer), but when I did they weren’t on the provider’s rate schedule so we talked about what her fee would be.  Each time she came up with a rate that we both thought was reasonable; it fit my budget and it made her “whole” as far as what she could have made if she didn’t do it.  Plus sometimes there were T&L expenses that I covered.

And they were all great times.  One thing I recommend: I think it’s best to get to know the provider pretty well before doing an overnight, or longer.  It’s a long time to be together and it won’t be all sex.

I can't see myself at dinner dates that are on the clock either.   Paying someone to eat.

I thought the goal was to pay a woman to go away🤣

I have done a number with a recently retired top Minneapolis provider and they were all wonderfully memorable.

An Overnight is worth it if that's what you want it to be. I have done more overnights that are dining inside than out. It's different in Vegas as everyone wants to eat at a hot new restaurant. If you are wanting to take things at a slower pace then an overnight can be great for you. Its no rush and you can have an amazing time. As much as outings can be fun on overnights I have always been a big fan of just staying in. You can drink, chat, play, eat and just be all around relaxed.  

Who you do the overnight with can make a big difference. I'm not saying that you have to have met with her previously she just needs to have a great personality so that the two of you can enjoy yourself. Depending on the woman and her rate really depends on if you are actually paying her to sleep. Many ladies don't charge thousands for overnights so you aren't actually paying them to sleep and you are seeing them at a discounted rate per hour. If you have a relationship with the woman you wish to do an overnight with already just talk to her about it. You may find that you two can come to a great agreement.  

Andrea

The passive aggressiveness of this post is at master level.

Ill bet she spends half of the time during an overnight trying to flame people on this board

If you want to maximize the time you spend having sex, it is better to stick with regular length appointments.  If you believe you will really enjoy all the time you spend with her, where sex is only a part of that then it can be a great experience.  As others have said, I recommend doing an overnight with someone you've seen a number of times before and whose company you truly enjoy.  Otherwise when you're not having sex, things will be awkward and certainly not enjoyable.

Of course Goddess likes and prefers overnights she gets 4,000 for them. Andrea is actually very  and surprisingly affordable for her overnights. I have done a few and never paid over 1200. Previous commenter is right, if you are friends with the girl ask her, you will most likely be able to talk her down to a normal rate. Most providers want between 3-5000 for overnights with 8 hours of sleep, thats like 1000 an hour when you are awake. Hell I would charge that too if I could.
  Never listen to the ladies of twitter about this, especially the national/travelling providers who think they are made of gold. One local provider here was going to take a trip to New York last year with a gent and she thought it was a great idea until she took to twitter and asked other ladies opinion. Well the trip sounded like a few days all expense paid free flight and everything for her was free with between 500-1000 extra dollars and she seemed for it. Well the ladies on twitter were like NO you need to ask for 5000 and take other dates while you are with him. While reading all their comments it was just funny that all these providers were just straight up hustlers and were are all about the money and care about nothing else, and gullible guys fall for it hook line and sinker. Let's just say that NY trip never happened.

One of the reasons extended engagements can be fun is due to the fact that you’re getting to spend time with someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with. They are getting you at your best self and you are getting the provider at their best self as well as being the focus of their attention and affection for an extended period of time. There's a more relaxed feel to the whole experience and the connection feels organic whether you paint the town red or just kick back inside (both options are amazing). Each person has to determine what they value though.  

 
Frankly, if you're going to do an overnight, where there is most likely going to be 5H to 8H of sleep required (depending on the provider), you might as well just go all in for a full 24H date. However, I think the sweet spot though for most people would be a "day date"ranging from 8H to 12H. Most providers require that dates 8H to 12H spend around half of the time outside of the shag pad (sometimes less though). That said, with  a “day” date there will be some down time for meals and activities but you’re still engaging with one another versus catching z’s (re: sleeping). It’s important to remember that the rate for their time does not usually include the cost of meals and activities though.

 
I think every extended booking is a bit different because each client is different and has different needs/wants so, I started to implement a "bespoke" rates for overnights and extended engagements because I think it's important to take into account what we are doing. If I'm taken along on a business trip and I'm spending a significant amount of time solo and able to do as I please most of the day, the rate quoted will take that into account.  

 
Andrea said it perfectly though, who you decide to spend the overnight with can make a huge difference. I've done overnights and multi-day dates for first time meetings. They all went extremely well because they did their research, we spoke frequently leading up to the dates, and we had upfront discussions about boundaries, expectations like sleep time, no kissing in the morning until we've brushed our teeth (that was a mutual ask lol), alone time each day, etc. They are what you make of them.

Paige, xx

Why should it surprise me that a majority of the men commenting on here loathe the idea of spending anymore time with a woman than it takes to cum? The amount of times I’ve seen providers referred to as whores, hoes or sluts is honestly repulsive. It is that attitude, one of disrespect and entitlement, that keeps us and the business in the dark.  
As far as overnights go.. some people enjoy having more time together. Having a girlfriend experience in the sense of dinner, fun time, cuddling, watching tv, waking up together, etc. I personally love to cuddle and touch/be touched and this is my favorite part about an overnight. I do understand the desire to get to know a provider before spending this much time together but I also know I find people fascinating and am pretty good at holding a conversation so unless you’re a jerk or total dud, we’d have a great time.

I'd love to spend more time.  But not at $600/hour.  

So I disagree. We're not talking about hanging out with your friends with benefits or somebody that you're dating or something like that, this is a business transaction and for a overnight a guy has to literally pay a couple thousand dollars. Now some guys can swing that but most can't. I am sure many would love an overnight, but cant afford to.

My overnight prices are very fair, especially because a lot of the time is spent sleeping. I understand if you cannot afford it or don’t care to spend the money, I was just explaining why some men do enjoy doing them. They may lack that kind of intimacy in their lives. It’s so much more than sex. But yes, if your not looking for chatting, etc, then it’s not your cup of tea.

If that’s the case, maybe us providers should just start booking 5 minute appointments since that’s apparently all the time you need! Best to not pay us to talk either 😆

I would love to get paid 800 for a free meal at a restaurant and only have to have 1 hour of physical time with them. I would totally be all for the longer dates too, Just reverse the role and the guys totally understand where the ladies are coming from but the ladies would never pay 800 for this would they.

Yes there are some guys that would love an overnight with a lovely provider. Unfortunately this is not something that some guys can't afford. I haven't done a lot of research but I would imagine that most overnights are going to cost a guy 1500+, with many costing well over $2000. Now there are some guys that can easily afford that, some guys that can afford it if they save money up, and some guys were it's just not feasible(me included).
There are a few providers that I know and I've had dates with that I would love to have extended time with because of our connection but it's just not something that is feasible because of the cost. That's the main point I'm making.

I never did over nights before this year have done some with 2 different this year.  If it’s someone you seen a few times and think it’s good chemistry you have to ask at end of a session what could an over night end up costing I bet you get surprised at what they say for the night. It problem not even be close to what ad they have or website states. And if it’s still to high they make get come back with longer session that is discount. Just ask if it’s what ad says and way to much then pass. I have been as low as 800 and up to 1500.  most likely   stay with the one that is at 800 but both enjoyed.  Will not give names since it’s special rates it between us but just have to ask and find out

I was going to suggest the same thing ... if it is so great and the ladies love it so much, why don't they pay the client?

Take some photos of yourself.  Full body, some in evening wear, some in revealing attire, maybe one or two in a bikini. Then compare those pics to those of the ladies who charge $800 for a dinner date.  
And... ever taken a lady out for a nice dinner, maybe a night on the town?  Did she pay or did you pay?  And if you paid, why?  She enjoyed herself, didn’t she?  So why didn’t she pay you for the privilege of your taking her out?
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We are the clients.  They are the providers.  They decide what services to provide and and what rate.  We decide if we are interested.  Nobody is twisting your arm or trying to trick you into paying $800.

Personally, it would be a minor miracle if someone paid me $8 to enjoy a free meal on them.  That's why I don't try to make a living doing what providers do.

I agree. I have only done 1 planned overnight at 1200 which did not go as planned since she left early at like 5AM but the other ones were unplanned overnights where we just spent the night together, and no I did not magically have 1000 to give them the next day. I have been quoted anywhere from 800-1200 with multiple providers for a possible overnight. I have no clue what they charge for overnights and rarely look at providers I have seen websites or updates so just ask them.