I was fortunate to learn the answer (for me) many years ago from one of the most amazing women I ever knew.
In the middle of focusing on licking my partner, she stopped me, and exclaimed, "This is the best thing ever!" As I looked up with a curious look on my face, she continued by saying, "I've had some amazing tongue before from both guys and gals, but you are the best ever. It's not about technique, although you are VERY good at this. It's about the obvious fact that you are taking such joy and pleasure in licking me! The smiles on your face, the way you look at me with longing, the passion you are showing, and the obvious pleasure you are getting through your giving... THIS is what I love more than anything."
Then, with a wink, she added, "Plus... I can plainly see just how aroused you are just by doing this, and that turns me on even more!"
Bottom line for me: It's not about how talented you are at "technique" (although I certainly appreciated talent!) It's all about the effect on my brain, and that starts if I know in my heart that you are taking genuine pleasure in giving. If you are truly into it, I'm all yours. Seriously all yours.
Posted By: Brandifun
I like the BBBJ Discussion earlier....What makes for the best one?? Eye contact, DT, B attention, slow -n- steady??? I know what I know but I'd love to hear some feedback!
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