I have a very quick question and I would especially like to hear what the ladies think, but guys feel free to chime in also.

I wouldn't answer an email with an explicit question like that, but reading reviews could give you the information you're looking for.

They always advertised that  you're paying for their time, NEVER one shot only.

Good point. +1...

Joie de Vivre,

My apologies for politely trying to give sincere advice to someone specifically asking for input from ladies.

I see your point Joie.  let me ask it this way.  so I schedule then when I arrive I ask the question about 3 shots in an hour.  Would  that be out of bounds or an inappropriate question?  Again I ask  so everyone's expectations are met.

Hardly anyone has been posting on the forum these days, not providers and not hobbyists.  

There is no limit the fun during an appointment.

will drop you like a bad habit and you'll never hear from them again. If you are trying to see someone who is not concerned about her own safety and being entrapped, ask away.

....but it don't mean I would ask that question during 1st contact.  Sorry if my original post was a little misleading.  I am wondering once you have the appointment established and everything has been checked and double checked.  Is then my question an appropriate one to ask?

Too many variables. Ymmv is probably the best answer here. I have done more than a couple 3 msog appointments and at times the same provider who was ok with it the mo th before wasn't the next month. In general the top mn ladies I would say would be ok with it. But like I said there are many variables. Your size, her size and workload, whether she s simply into it (turned on) or not, how well you keep an erection, her plans after your scheduled time (if it's morning and she has a busy day she might not want to) where as later in the day she might enjoy it.  
        I would look at it like this, one really good shot is great and maybe at times the best you ll get but figure anything 2 or three would be a bonus. Most of the time I haven't had issues with 2+ and many times I book 2 hr appointments for msog and that could be 3-5. Good luck. I m sure there are many mm ladies who you could see who d enjoy it.  
       

OTB
I feel Joie answered for herself and if you asked her that ---"Crickets" and you could looks elsewhere.
Others may react differently and some may answer more after screening.
I would never ask that question. even with being screened , without asking first if it was OK to be explicite.
You may be better off asking previous reviewers and even then YMMV..

Even though she has verified you and agreed to a date and time and duration, a smart provider is still not going to answer a question that amounts to "Say, while I'm fucking you for money is it okay if I come three times instead of just once?" Evidence that she agreed to spend time with you for money does not prove prostitution. Evidence that she agreed to give you three orgasms during the time you are paying for does prove prostitution. It's a pretty clear distinction. If you have to ask the question, wait until you are in the door and things have progressed beyond what a cop can legally do, then ask. This is not the answer you wanted to hear, but I seriously doubt any provider is going to contradict it.  

would be after the first round is finished. Unless you've already seen her.

If you have never seen a lady before and you ask that question, she's very likely to send your email straight to the trash bin.
And, in fact, even if you have seen a lady before that is something I would not want in an email.   This is what reviews are for, IMO.  To find out what time spent with a lady is like.  Why else do they exist?

I would not ask such a question unless and until you have seen a lady several times and she has had time to develop some trust with you.  some ladies will cancel on you if you ask that question even after screening is complete.  It will give a lady an uneasy feeling.  And if she is uneasy it won't be a good appointment for either of you.

Buck never said he'd ask outright in an e-mail or anything like that.

About both parties' expectations being understood and met...satisfactorily.

Best time to ask would probably be after second shot but I find that most of the pros don't need prompting if you're still in full salute.

At no point did I assume you were asking if the question was appropriate upon a 1st inquiry & I think you already know your likely response under such circumstances would be silence.  

While the top 5 were all there a year ago and deservedly so, others have moved up due to the retirement, going UTR, etc. of other providers and IMO, the quality of the "Top 100" is not the same as a couple years ago. Just my $0.02 worth.

Please understand I would never just ask this question during the initial contact.  I think I should have done a better job expressing that in my original post, sorry for any confusion.  I totally get this question might be more appropriate if there is a certain comfort level established and I've connected with the individual more than once, and I would only ask this question in person.  My desire with posting this question on the board is not to offend or disrespect anyone, it is just to get feedback.

Leigh-Ann Chayse and I are the only two who see Buck's point lol.  
Definitely not a normal day in TER-land.

Same answer likely applies, unless it's some one I've spent time with before.  Explicit questions right away can put me on edge.  Reading reviews is best.

And I wish that were possible, LOL!

In one session...I'm just jealous.

Buck

But it's like the Hippocratic Oath that starts "First, do no harm." First, do nothing that puts either yourself or the provider at greater legal risk. That means no explicit discussion of sexual services by email or text, ever. Wait until you have met and then have the conversation face-to-face. Even after his clarification, it seems pretty clear that Buck was talking about asking the question in advance of a first meeting, so despite his good intentions my response remains exactly the same.

Not sure about anyone else but as a generally shy person, I agree with this.  

Really   (I would not ask such a question unless and until you have seen a lady several times)

There are other variables to be considered, such as length of date, cleanliness of the guy, etc etc.  
Never say never.

I'd say best to either sleuth reviews for indications, or bring it up during your date if you are worried - but not right away, you know, get comfortable of course. Or let it play out and see.

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Depending on how incriminating your question is. I would say you probably won't have a problem with this though.