I want to start using the services of a massage "body rub" provider in the twin cities, MN.  What I'm looking for is a safe, provider who will do exchange touch and HE.  Without any experience in this or history what do I need to do so that I'm not jerked around or dismissed as LE?  Any guidance would be sincerely appreciated. Thx!

First off, try to have a good attitude. The hobby has gotten much more careful in the last couple of years. People don't want to go to jail or be exposed to jerks.

That being said, the fact that you are looking for a massage provider might make it a little easier. My opinion is they don't SEEM to screen quite as thoroughly as full service girls.

Read the reviews, look at their ads or websites and see who appeals to you. Contact them how they ask to be contacted. Explain that you are "new". You might not have any luck or you might get lucky right away. Hit and Miss. Eventually, you will become established, even then you will get turned down.

If you continue to have problems you might want to join P411, I had to when I returned to the hobby after an extended break. I am assuming you have a VIP with TER, if not get one.

Good luck

My suggestion would b to always be polite and patient. Many ladies will turn you down but someone will see you especially for body rub. However, if your not the patient type. I would sign up for date-check.com or p411. P411 you will have a response in 48 hrs. I'm not sure about date check. These sites make the hobby so much easier for everyone.

Thanks for your suggestions.