Your expecting a lot.
Just missing what they are saying . The Ho’s are in love with them. Ask em they’ll tell ya. Probably trading in wifey’s faster than virus spread.So this was a recent post on social media by a local lady
"Remember when hobbyists thought Covid would make us all lower our rates but we raised them and instituted 2 plus hour minimums?"
I did notice 1 lady raise her rates when most of her competition took a 2 months break but now that most ladies are coming back she went back down. The thread and comments are all about supply and demand, how hobbyists are the worst, etc. If some of you guys only knew what these ladies think about us and say about us behind our back in their private message boards - you would never see them again.
... any provider who thinks her clients are “the worst”. And I never will. The providers I see again and again clearly appreciate their clients (except maybe the occasional asshat client, lol).
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I'm not surprised by it, it's a service industry and you're going to be really hard pressed to find someone who truly likes their customers whether it be SWers, waiters, nail techs, and etc. I used to work FoH and BoH at a restaurant in college and talking shit about customers brings comradery.
I mean I mentioned nail techs too, and I'm sure a SWer has thought "are they talking bad about me in a different language"
Yes, they are.
The first, a photogenic curvy local I had been lusting after for a while, very hot to look at. It was a remote, dull, appointment. Hard to tell whether she has any real personality. If she does, it wasn't available to this client. She held me at arms length for 90 mins of going through the motions. Felt like a waste of time and money.
The second, a late night 2 hr booty call with a local favorite. At the end we both fell asleep. Next thing I knew she was bringing me morning coffee in bed.
One of those two people has my respect, and I value her highly. She writes things that I really disagree with. But what she writes is her business.
The other one, who is also pretty active on the provider boards (not TER), will never hear from me again.
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So, there are different ways to fuck each other, for providers and hobbyists. Most of the time, my experience has been enjoyable.
I don't worry about it; she's only hurting herself. I pay what I pay to whom I will pay it, and not only are my regulars worth it, but they brag to other ladies about how worth it I am. The ones who are going to call me a "slobbyist" because of my TER presence are losing out. Oh, and if any of you man haters are reading this, let me clarify something. YOU are not the hobby. The LIFESTYLE is the hobby. Women are not "pieces of meat " to me. I love my professional girlfriends as much as I would a good civvie girlfriend.
But seldom do I know. I can only control how I behave and treat them and I always treat them nicely. As far as those who hate this work go, that is ultimately a problem they have to work out for themselves.
I kind of don't really care about their politics or what they think of customers. I'm there for the sex. If she performs okay, I got what I wanted. If she jokes about me behind my back, so what? She wouldn't be the first, won't be the last.
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I treat them with respect (well, except during role play with SB, then they are nasty dirty cum sluts -- until the end of the session when we chill and return to normal roles.) I'm always invited back except one time when the SB obviously thought I was too old for her.
Look who knows what these gals really think about us,its different for everyone.Of course the more money you spend, they like that. Do you think they'd see you without the money? Answer is no.But its nice to pretend.
I read the same post about the gal who stated this on her social media account.
Here is my take:
1. It isn't a smart business move because it could piss off future clients and also current clients. It is just like when a business owner goes on a political rant. It will piss over certain people and you can lose clients.
2. It is her right to have that opinion and voice it. But if any ramifications happen don't bitch about it. It could also increase her business. So good for her. But again if business goes the other way.... don't bitch about it.
But wish everyone luck and it is anyones right to run a business like they see fit. But please don't bitch if things run afoul because of things you say on social media.
Is that like blaming the reviewer and TER when a review truthfully says was a half hour late and received a forty five minute hour once’s session started?
The other side being a provider responding the guy smelled like moldy cheese and left brown streaks on the sheets. ( Oh - excuse me Providers can not respond directly to reviews )
Agree often this site is as fair and balanced as Fox and CNBC
Back when the providers used to join in with us it got brought up a bunch that providers should review us. I noted that that would not ever work because providers would always give us 10s and say amazing things about us. If girls told the truth about what they thought of us we would stop seeing them, they would get no more clients.
I put in the line "they would never bite the hand that feeds them" Then one provider who is in this group thats being talked about said "she feeds herself very well thank you". But where do you get the money to feed yourself - Us, duh.
I Demand to know if the Ho / Ho’s in question throws Bukkake parties and who is in to Supply her with said activity Other than that I could give two shits less their thoughts .
Not paying for thoughts anymore than I’m paying them to drink cocktail or coffee. Fuck that stupidity.
You have bigger problems than Covid, your stupidity will get get you in front of bus going down street well before the virus gets you.
But if that’s your thing make it worth while throw a few ropes on the screen as you becon in the smiling face.
I honestly think the people doing the "virtual" dates are people who are not seeing them in person. What I mean it is the same guys who use "cam sites". So they feel they might not be cheating or doing anything illegal. So the people that are doing the virtual are not the same guys who pre-Covid would go to an incall or outcall.
But if the girls are making money on that... good for them. It isn't something I would do but glad they found an "end around" during this time and are making money.
I’m not going to split hairs on who may be involved . Or their justifications.
But I stand firm on this. It’s pussy induced stupidity , to tell yourself I’m shelling out 200.00 for watching tv.
The end around is chumps. Plain as day to me.
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I can't control what a provider thinks of me. I like to think I am being nice and respectful of her. But I really just want the use of her for a time. What she thinks of me personally, or men that use her services in general is beyond my control.
All said and true what you outlined. No issue on that.
The heart of the matter is this , it’s the fact or just reality if you like to see it that way.
Oh how they live and love to talk about freedom of the ho life .
Fine , just don’t bitch and expect the muzzles to be handed out by the Po Po here, and then go to the unmuzzled option to day what you really want to say.
Before some moron says I’m telling them what to do , no I’m not , just sayin the reality of it.
That’s the context that gives the conversation any relevancy.
You people need more to do in your life. Another ridiculous discussion about what is right and what is wrong. Just work hard and play hard without the 13 year old drama.
At least it’s been entertaining to read all the drama these past few days.
Every guy on these boards has one goal, so why are you all arguing over petty shit that does not even matter?
Go see the beautiful ladies you want too see, bust your nut or don’t, and as long as you enjoy your time with the lady who freaking cares about the other guys on these boards?
But hey I’ve been stuck inside this house for the better part of 2 months so any free entertainment is a plus.