If what you are saying is that right now you don't want to offer "full service" then say so up front so guys aren't confused. Others have done that for various reasons, after medical procedures etc. Most guys understand.
For the hobbiyist! How do you feel about a provider at the start she was full service! but when she started to get into the business again she had something inside her that she wanted tostart on a lower level.... Not that shes giving up but that she is working her way back in... It has been a while................ what would you do or say!!!!!!!!!
if you are ambivalent, it would be wise for you to give yourself a time-out. Stay off the board. Be still. Be quiet. Listen.
You know that voice you sometimes hear deep from within your own silence? That voice only you can hear? That’s the voice to listen for, the voice of your true self. Listen. Follow.
Stay true to your true self and you will not be false to anyone – most especially (and most importantly) to you yourself.
If what you are saying is that right now you don't want to offer "full service" then say so up front so guys aren't confused. Others have done that for various reasons, after medical procedures etc. Most guys understand.
It was great to be on the board but I must agree with cordial. I will no longer be posting on the board.... for a while at least but thanks for the warm welcome everyone!!!! TA TA
There's a variety of ways to make a living in this business, offering a range of services. You get to choose the level you're comfortable with.
No one will hold it against you for changing your mind about your services. In fact, just recently on the board here, someone announced they were now offering massage only. Everybody took it in stride.
As always, those hobbyists looking for a certain thing will continue to match up with those providers providing a certain thing.
As the guys already said, stay true to yourself, and proceed at a pace and at a level you're comfortable with. If you're not happy and comfortable, you certainly won't enjoy it and your client probably won't repeat or recommend, so that would be counterproductive.
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