Very True Mr. Oldguy. Special magic can happen. Very special magic.
Posted By: oldguy666
Keys include (in my experience):
RESPECT, first and foremost.
Gentle patting of the lady's leg, saying "Thank you. That feels great." A couple more times, then "Is it ok if I touch you?" Usually the answer is "yes." Then, light stroking. A friendly smile and good eye contact help, too. No grabbing or groping, to be sure!
By this time, my own openness to "something more" is clear, and I let the lady take it from there. Sometimes she does, other times she doesn't. But, I enjoy a good legit massage, too, so, if it doesn't happen, no problem.
It's sort of like what they say about gambling: Don't take more money to the casino than you can afford to lose. The analogy here: Don't go to a "legit" place if you're not willing for that to be all that you get. If you get more, that's gravy. If you MUST have an erotic massage, then troll the "Body Rub" section of BP, or see one of the many well-reviewed ladies here in TER.
My two cents.
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