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VixenBijou See my TER Reviews 594 reads
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Duly noted, that's not my desire.

VixenBijou1713 reads

For providers to ask clients, ESPECIALLY, regulars who clearly enjoy their sessions to consider posting a review? I have at least seven regulars right now, but new clients have been a bit slow to come (no pun intended!) and I'm even a bit nervous posting this question. Still, I KNOW, I give exceptional sessions and I think I could work quite a bit more than I do.  

Thoughts from both clients and providers greatly appreciated.

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Drumsticks671 reads

...businesses ask customers and clients for referrals all the time, don't they? You're no different. :)

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DickCurious798 reads

... posting an ad on the Minnesota Ad Board.

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sweetromantic655 reads

ou should at least post an ad on the board so people actually know you exist. Right now no reviews and this is probably the first time most guys have even heard of you so if you want to expand your clientelle and who knows when reviews will come at least tell us where we can even find you. A website works

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Dr.BudGreen663 reads

as long as there is no pressure.

And if you have any reviews, or when you do, you should consider linking your handle to your reviews.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=75530&boardID=33&page=

Once you are upgraded your TER Profile is automatically linked to every message you submit on the discussion boards, making it easy for guys to find your reviews.

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bigdell611 reads

Doesn't bother me a bit to have a lady ask for a review.  In fact I usually ask if they would like one.  bigdell

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brilove663 reads

They don't want to write a review because they don't want to share ... Even though they know they are not the only client, they like to think they are (hope that makes sense).

 Also sometimes they don't want to put in writing what the two of you do ... They see it as private/special.  

Another reason is maybe they haven't ever written one and need a little help getting started (finding the website, your handle/id, etc) ... However never allow them to log on to their TER account at your house with your wifi ... You and he could lose privileges on here.  

My advice - just ask and let them know how much it would help you (such as getting more clients, safer clients, etc) Those who care will try to help you out if they can ... Be appreciative with whatever decision they make ... Good luck!

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nutzosmpl727 reads

Exactly! Because ... for me ... it is and always will be ... Private & Special.
I am reluctant to fully review my ATFs.  
For me ... I see it as respectful to withhold the really personal details.

"Also sometimes they don't want to put in writing what the two of you do ... They see it as private/special."



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SvedkaFrank599 reads

Posted By: VixenMona
For providers to ask clients, ESPECIALLY, regulars who clearly enjoy their sessions to consider posting a review? I have at least seven regulars right now, but new clients have been a bit slow to come (no pun intended!) and I'm even a bit nervous posting this question. Still, I KNOW, I give exceptional sessions and I think I could work quite a bit more than I do.  
   
 Thoughts from both clients and providers greatly appreciated.

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vorlon573 reads

There's nothing wrong with asking for an honest review.  Just be aware that there are some providers who pressure guys to write review but only if they give them undeservedly high scores and praise.

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VixenBijou595 reads

Duly noted, that's not my desire.

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VixenBijou649 reads

Thank you for that insight! I actually quite like it, and I hope that for my clients it *is* special, I'm certainly fine if they prefer to keep it private as well. I wonder if many hobbyists feel the same?

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arunee623 reads

I always ask the lady if she minds my writing a review.  Some do not like having reviews done so I leave it to the provider.

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Derpdydoo581 reads

I'll respect the providers wishes regarding a review, unless they give me a reason not to.  Things like Rip off, rob, no service, lackluster service that goes beyond just two people not clicking, or trying to start a conversation with me.

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cheyen450 reads

you are not requiring or buying a fake review.  If the client is happy with your date and would not object saying : "if it works for you, it could help me if you put your impressions in a review."

I think most men feel the same way, if I can help you out I want to.  I ask the lady and will go as far as leaving out things she wants to do for some and not for everyone.  adding a 'c' on bj so that she is not obligated to offer or be reviewed as a bate switch.  I have never been asked to lie or overstate, under explaining extras is just courtesy.  Ask away...

Same goes for asking that you not post a review.

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